Simple Pleasures Then and Now

Freshly made bedNicola here! Today I’m musing on a few of our favourite things and whether our Regency heroes and heroines would have valued the same pleasures that we do.

A recent poll of 2000 people aimed to make a list of all the simple things in life that make us happy. At number 1 was one of my own favourites, a freshly made bed. I confess I iron all my bedding because I enjoy the lovely cool, smooth feel of freshly laundered bed linen so much. I don’t enjoy ironing at all but it’s worth it for that moment when you slide between the sheets (or between the sheet and duvet) and smile with pleasure.

In the past I suspect that the enjoyment of beautifully laundered bed linen must have been the privilege of the rich, those people who had a laundry and maids to deal with all their washing, drying and ironing. If you were the laundry maid you probably fell into your own bed at the end of the day so exhausted that you didn’t even notice the state of the bedclothes!

Here is the top ten modern day simple pleasure happiness list from the survey: Sunflower

  1. A freshly made bed
  2. Feeling the sun on your face
  3. Being thanked/random act of kindness from a stranger
  4. Finding money in an unexpected place
  5. Having time to yourself
  6. Laughing so much it hurts
  7. Snuggling up with a loved one
  8. Smelling freshly made bread
  9. Doing something for others
  10. Feeling clean after a shower

CrayonsFurther down the list was another of my personal favourites: Listening to a thunderstorm or rain when you are tucked up in bed. I love that cosy feeling when you are all warm and wrapped up and the weather is wild outside. Getting new stationery was also on the list, which is another thing I love and I suspect I’m not alone in that! Files, folders, crisp paper and quality envelopes, coloured pens and so many other items… Bliss!

So would the same simple pleasures have appealed in the past? Certainly some of the things that make people happy have remained the same down the centuries. On the modern list at number 9 is doing things for others and at number 15 is the thrill of personal achievement. And here is Hippolyte Taine, writing about society in the Victorian era in his “Notes on England”:

“Everybody undertakes something, specialises in something, works at some agricultural or scientific improvement, some work of charity. It is always the same question, how to find a use for their abilities or acquire a talent."

Then there is exercise. Doing something active outdoors like a bike ride, run or country walk features in Pedestrianism the current happiness index. Back in the 18th century there was a craze for pedestrianism. This was competitive walking with pedestrians from all social classes performing prodigious feats for wagers or the proceeds of a collection from the spectators. Champion walkers such as Captain Barclay 1779 – 1854 were celebrities and household names. Mary McMullen, a working class Irish woman performed long distance walks during the 1820s when she was in her sixties. She could walk 20 miles in 4 hours. Evidently getting out in the fresh air, walking, taking exercise, is something that has appealed for many years.

Now to another personal favourite: Drinking freshly brewed tea or coffee and we only need to look at the popularity of the coffee houses from the 17th century onwards to see that that is a perennial pleasure. Of course in the past the coffee houses were mainly a male domain. From the 18th century onwards tea gardens were extremely popular venues for ladies to meet and chat. Here is a verse from a 1778 print of Bagnigge Wells tea gardens.

Bagnigge_Wells_by_Samuel_Hieronymus_Grimm“All innocent within the shade you see

This little party sip salubrious tea

Soft tittle-tattle rises from the stream

Sweatened each word with sugar and with cream”

I would say that a large part of the pleasure there comes not only from delicious tea but also the fun of meeting up with your friends for a good chat or as Jane Austen wrote:

“My idea of good company is the company of clever, well-informed people who have a great deal of conversation.”

Further down the social scale the 1837 Diary of William Tayler, footman, gives a great insight into the Scarborough-sea-bathing-1813-regency-jane-austensort of things that gave a twenty something male servant pleasure. We’ll skip over the visits to low taverns with scantily clad women and concentrate on the wholesome pleasures of a visit to Brighton.

“Had been this morning and had a bathe in the sea for the first time in my life. I like it very much.” 

On the modern day list at number 37 is the pleasure of getting a bargain and this seems to have been something pretty universally appreciated for millennia, from the wife of the Roman commander on Hadrian’s Wall writing to her sister to boast of the good deal she got on imported fruit to Jane Austen again, writing in May 1812:

“I was very lucky in my gloves, got them at the first shop I went to… and gave only four shillings for them:- upon hearing which, everyone at Chawton will be hoping and predicting that they cannot be good for anything, and their worth certainly remains to be proved, but I think they look very well.”

So there we are – Some small pleasures change and some remain the same. Is there anything you think is missing from the top 10 and what are your favourite simple pleasures?

 

160 thoughts on “Simple Pleasures Then and Now”

  1. Serving a special meal to friends who appreciate the effort comes to mind. Figuring out the fingering for a new song—I play the Native American flute. Hugging my Siamese cat Lala’s furry little body and making her purr. I once bought a roll of paper towels (!) that had printed on each sheet, “There are many wonderful things in the world — you have only to look around to find a few!” Right now, it’s the fulgently blooming palo verde trees here in Phoenix, hundreds of them (one right next door) exploding with their tiny yellow blossoms. Next will be the creamy white saguaro flowers. Truly, I have only to look around, even in the desert.

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  2. Serving a special meal to friends who appreciate the effort comes to mind. Figuring out the fingering for a new song—I play the Native American flute. Hugging my Siamese cat Lala’s furry little body and making her purr. I once bought a roll of paper towels (!) that had printed on each sheet, “There are many wonderful things in the world — you have only to look around to find a few!” Right now, it’s the fulgently blooming palo verde trees here in Phoenix, hundreds of them (one right next door) exploding with their tiny yellow blossoms. Next will be the creamy white saguaro flowers. Truly, I have only to look around, even in the desert.

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  3. Serving a special meal to friends who appreciate the effort comes to mind. Figuring out the fingering for a new song—I play the Native American flute. Hugging my Siamese cat Lala’s furry little body and making her purr. I once bought a roll of paper towels (!) that had printed on each sheet, “There are many wonderful things in the world — you have only to look around to find a few!” Right now, it’s the fulgently blooming palo verde trees here in Phoenix, hundreds of them (one right next door) exploding with their tiny yellow blossoms. Next will be the creamy white saguaro flowers. Truly, I have only to look around, even in the desert.

    Reply
  4. Serving a special meal to friends who appreciate the effort comes to mind. Figuring out the fingering for a new song—I play the Native American flute. Hugging my Siamese cat Lala’s furry little body and making her purr. I once bought a roll of paper towels (!) that had printed on each sheet, “There are many wonderful things in the world — you have only to look around to find a few!” Right now, it’s the fulgently blooming palo verde trees here in Phoenix, hundreds of them (one right next door) exploding with their tiny yellow blossoms. Next will be the creamy white saguaro flowers. Truly, I have only to look around, even in the desert.

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  5. Serving a special meal to friends who appreciate the effort comes to mind. Figuring out the fingering for a new song—I play the Native American flute. Hugging my Siamese cat Lala’s furry little body and making her purr. I once bought a roll of paper towels (!) that had printed on each sheet, “There are many wonderful things in the world — you have only to look around to find a few!” Right now, it’s the fulgently blooming palo verde trees here in Phoenix, hundreds of them (one right next door) exploding with their tiny yellow blossoms. Next will be the creamy white saguaro flowers. Truly, I have only to look around, even in the desert.

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  6. Lovely post, Nicola. I don’t iron my sheets, only the pillowcases, but I try to dry my bed linen in the sunshine where possible, and put it back on the bed the same day, and it feels and smells so good. I love most of those things on the list.
    And looking at Mary’s lovely list, I want to add in singing along with a bunch of other people, not worrying about “performing” but just enjoying a good old-fashioned singalong. Or making music with friends.
    And all kinds of scents — the scent of the earth when it;s rained after a period of drought, the first gardenia — or rose or freesia or jasmine or whatever — of the season.
    And sitting around a fire, talking with friends, or peacefully reading with the fire quietly crackling. I especially love a fire outdoors, with the night sky overhead.

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  7. Lovely post, Nicola. I don’t iron my sheets, only the pillowcases, but I try to dry my bed linen in the sunshine where possible, and put it back on the bed the same day, and it feels and smells so good. I love most of those things on the list.
    And looking at Mary’s lovely list, I want to add in singing along with a bunch of other people, not worrying about “performing” but just enjoying a good old-fashioned singalong. Or making music with friends.
    And all kinds of scents — the scent of the earth when it;s rained after a period of drought, the first gardenia — or rose or freesia or jasmine or whatever — of the season.
    And sitting around a fire, talking with friends, or peacefully reading with the fire quietly crackling. I especially love a fire outdoors, with the night sky overhead.

    Reply
  8. Lovely post, Nicola. I don’t iron my sheets, only the pillowcases, but I try to dry my bed linen in the sunshine where possible, and put it back on the bed the same day, and it feels and smells so good. I love most of those things on the list.
    And looking at Mary’s lovely list, I want to add in singing along with a bunch of other people, not worrying about “performing” but just enjoying a good old-fashioned singalong. Or making music with friends.
    And all kinds of scents — the scent of the earth when it;s rained after a period of drought, the first gardenia — or rose or freesia or jasmine or whatever — of the season.
    And sitting around a fire, talking with friends, or peacefully reading with the fire quietly crackling. I especially love a fire outdoors, with the night sky overhead.

    Reply
  9. Lovely post, Nicola. I don’t iron my sheets, only the pillowcases, but I try to dry my bed linen in the sunshine where possible, and put it back on the bed the same day, and it feels and smells so good. I love most of those things on the list.
    And looking at Mary’s lovely list, I want to add in singing along with a bunch of other people, not worrying about “performing” but just enjoying a good old-fashioned singalong. Or making music with friends.
    And all kinds of scents — the scent of the earth when it;s rained after a period of drought, the first gardenia — or rose or freesia or jasmine or whatever — of the season.
    And sitting around a fire, talking with friends, or peacefully reading with the fire quietly crackling. I especially love a fire outdoors, with the night sky overhead.

    Reply
  10. Lovely post, Nicola. I don’t iron my sheets, only the pillowcases, but I try to dry my bed linen in the sunshine where possible, and put it back on the bed the same day, and it feels and smells so good. I love most of those things on the list.
    And looking at Mary’s lovely list, I want to add in singing along with a bunch of other people, not worrying about “performing” but just enjoying a good old-fashioned singalong. Or making music with friends.
    And all kinds of scents — the scent of the earth when it;s rained after a period of drought, the first gardenia — or rose or freesia or jasmine or whatever — of the season.
    And sitting around a fire, talking with friends, or peacefully reading with the fire quietly crackling. I especially love a fire outdoors, with the night sky overhead.

    Reply
  11. Really wonderful blog, Nicola! I’m in awe that you iron your sheets (and now you make me feel slightly guilty!) I have some really nice Italian cotton ones that I splurged on because they feel so crisp against the skin . . .even when you don’t iron them. And yes, it’s one of life’s little pleasures to slide into freshly laundered sheets.
    I love the rest of the list, and it made me stop and reflect. Sunshine on the face is high on my list, as is just pausing and watching a summer breeze ripple across water or meadowgrass.
    One of the tings I worry about these days is that so many people are hunched over constantly looking at their phones that they miss all those magical small moments, like just sitting and admiring a lovely view, or exercising, or making a pot of tea. If you aren’t mindful of all those wonderful experiences, life has to become very gray. No wonder so many people are so highly stressed!

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  12. Really wonderful blog, Nicola! I’m in awe that you iron your sheets (and now you make me feel slightly guilty!) I have some really nice Italian cotton ones that I splurged on because they feel so crisp against the skin . . .even when you don’t iron them. And yes, it’s one of life’s little pleasures to slide into freshly laundered sheets.
    I love the rest of the list, and it made me stop and reflect. Sunshine on the face is high on my list, as is just pausing and watching a summer breeze ripple across water or meadowgrass.
    One of the tings I worry about these days is that so many people are hunched over constantly looking at their phones that they miss all those magical small moments, like just sitting and admiring a lovely view, or exercising, or making a pot of tea. If you aren’t mindful of all those wonderful experiences, life has to become very gray. No wonder so many people are so highly stressed!

    Reply
  13. Really wonderful blog, Nicola! I’m in awe that you iron your sheets (and now you make me feel slightly guilty!) I have some really nice Italian cotton ones that I splurged on because they feel so crisp against the skin . . .even when you don’t iron them. And yes, it’s one of life’s little pleasures to slide into freshly laundered sheets.
    I love the rest of the list, and it made me stop and reflect. Sunshine on the face is high on my list, as is just pausing and watching a summer breeze ripple across water or meadowgrass.
    One of the tings I worry about these days is that so many people are hunched over constantly looking at their phones that they miss all those magical small moments, like just sitting and admiring a lovely view, or exercising, or making a pot of tea. If you aren’t mindful of all those wonderful experiences, life has to become very gray. No wonder so many people are so highly stressed!

    Reply
  14. Really wonderful blog, Nicola! I’m in awe that you iron your sheets (and now you make me feel slightly guilty!) I have some really nice Italian cotton ones that I splurged on because they feel so crisp against the skin . . .even when you don’t iron them. And yes, it’s one of life’s little pleasures to slide into freshly laundered sheets.
    I love the rest of the list, and it made me stop and reflect. Sunshine on the face is high on my list, as is just pausing and watching a summer breeze ripple across water or meadowgrass.
    One of the tings I worry about these days is that so many people are hunched over constantly looking at their phones that they miss all those magical small moments, like just sitting and admiring a lovely view, or exercising, or making a pot of tea. If you aren’t mindful of all those wonderful experiences, life has to become very gray. No wonder so many people are so highly stressed!

    Reply
  15. Really wonderful blog, Nicola! I’m in awe that you iron your sheets (and now you make me feel slightly guilty!) I have some really nice Italian cotton ones that I splurged on because they feel so crisp against the skin . . .even when you don’t iron them. And yes, it’s one of life’s little pleasures to slide into freshly laundered sheets.
    I love the rest of the list, and it made me stop and reflect. Sunshine on the face is high on my list, as is just pausing and watching a summer breeze ripple across water or meadowgrass.
    One of the tings I worry about these days is that so many people are hunched over constantly looking at their phones that they miss all those magical small moments, like just sitting and admiring a lovely view, or exercising, or making a pot of tea. If you aren’t mindful of all those wonderful experiences, life has to become very gray. No wonder so many people are so highly stressed!

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  16. A very interesting post. I do agree about the ironed sheets.
    Some of my favourite simple moments that I can think of right now,…
    1st. Sunbathing on the beach after I’ve swum in the sea on a hot summer day. In a sense, it’s nr. 2 + 10.
    2nd. Eating some fruit, an apple or an orange, after you’ve spent a couple of hours climbing a mountain. You rest and let you eyes enjoy the landscape.

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  17. A very interesting post. I do agree about the ironed sheets.
    Some of my favourite simple moments that I can think of right now,…
    1st. Sunbathing on the beach after I’ve swum in the sea on a hot summer day. In a sense, it’s nr. 2 + 10.
    2nd. Eating some fruit, an apple or an orange, after you’ve spent a couple of hours climbing a mountain. You rest and let you eyes enjoy the landscape.

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  18. A very interesting post. I do agree about the ironed sheets.
    Some of my favourite simple moments that I can think of right now,…
    1st. Sunbathing on the beach after I’ve swum in the sea on a hot summer day. In a sense, it’s nr. 2 + 10.
    2nd. Eating some fruit, an apple or an orange, after you’ve spent a couple of hours climbing a mountain. You rest and let you eyes enjoy the landscape.

    Reply
  19. A very interesting post. I do agree about the ironed sheets.
    Some of my favourite simple moments that I can think of right now,…
    1st. Sunbathing on the beach after I’ve swum in the sea on a hot summer day. In a sense, it’s nr. 2 + 10.
    2nd. Eating some fruit, an apple or an orange, after you’ve spent a couple of hours climbing a mountain. You rest and let you eyes enjoy the landscape.

    Reply
  20. A very interesting post. I do agree about the ironed sheets.
    Some of my favourite simple moments that I can think of right now,…
    1st. Sunbathing on the beach after I’ve swum in the sea on a hot summer day. In a sense, it’s nr. 2 + 10.
    2nd. Eating some fruit, an apple or an orange, after you’ve spent a couple of hours climbing a mountain. You rest and let you eyes enjoy the landscape.

    Reply
  21. Getting into bed with fresh sheets that have been air dried and smell like the outdoors. The colder the temperature, the more fragrant the sheets.
    Being greeted by my dog when I walk in the door.
    Seeing a full moon and the stars on a moonless night.
    Talking to my best friend when I’m upset.
    My flower garden.
    My bouquet of flowers inside the house in Feb.
    “Mad Men”
    My sister who gets my sense of humor.
    Having enough money to splurge.
    A spring day, after a cold, snowy winter.
    The first snow storm.
    Falling asleep.
    Eating a delicious meal when you’re really hungry.
    The smell of cut grass.
    Purple clamatis and pink roses.
    The ocean.
    The view of the ocean when you’re on top of a bridge.
    My favorite music.
    A great book (this one should be higher up).
    “Some Like It Hot”
    Cary Grant

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  22. Getting into bed with fresh sheets that have been air dried and smell like the outdoors. The colder the temperature, the more fragrant the sheets.
    Being greeted by my dog when I walk in the door.
    Seeing a full moon and the stars on a moonless night.
    Talking to my best friend when I’m upset.
    My flower garden.
    My bouquet of flowers inside the house in Feb.
    “Mad Men”
    My sister who gets my sense of humor.
    Having enough money to splurge.
    A spring day, after a cold, snowy winter.
    The first snow storm.
    Falling asleep.
    Eating a delicious meal when you’re really hungry.
    The smell of cut grass.
    Purple clamatis and pink roses.
    The ocean.
    The view of the ocean when you’re on top of a bridge.
    My favorite music.
    A great book (this one should be higher up).
    “Some Like It Hot”
    Cary Grant

    Reply
  23. Getting into bed with fresh sheets that have been air dried and smell like the outdoors. The colder the temperature, the more fragrant the sheets.
    Being greeted by my dog when I walk in the door.
    Seeing a full moon and the stars on a moonless night.
    Talking to my best friend when I’m upset.
    My flower garden.
    My bouquet of flowers inside the house in Feb.
    “Mad Men”
    My sister who gets my sense of humor.
    Having enough money to splurge.
    A spring day, after a cold, snowy winter.
    The first snow storm.
    Falling asleep.
    Eating a delicious meal when you’re really hungry.
    The smell of cut grass.
    Purple clamatis and pink roses.
    The ocean.
    The view of the ocean when you’re on top of a bridge.
    My favorite music.
    A great book (this one should be higher up).
    “Some Like It Hot”
    Cary Grant

    Reply
  24. Getting into bed with fresh sheets that have been air dried and smell like the outdoors. The colder the temperature, the more fragrant the sheets.
    Being greeted by my dog when I walk in the door.
    Seeing a full moon and the stars on a moonless night.
    Talking to my best friend when I’m upset.
    My flower garden.
    My bouquet of flowers inside the house in Feb.
    “Mad Men”
    My sister who gets my sense of humor.
    Having enough money to splurge.
    A spring day, after a cold, snowy winter.
    The first snow storm.
    Falling asleep.
    Eating a delicious meal when you’re really hungry.
    The smell of cut grass.
    Purple clamatis and pink roses.
    The ocean.
    The view of the ocean when you’re on top of a bridge.
    My favorite music.
    A great book (this one should be higher up).
    “Some Like It Hot”
    Cary Grant

    Reply
  25. Getting into bed with fresh sheets that have been air dried and smell like the outdoors. The colder the temperature, the more fragrant the sheets.
    Being greeted by my dog when I walk in the door.
    Seeing a full moon and the stars on a moonless night.
    Talking to my best friend when I’m upset.
    My flower garden.
    My bouquet of flowers inside the house in Feb.
    “Mad Men”
    My sister who gets my sense of humor.
    Having enough money to splurge.
    A spring day, after a cold, snowy winter.
    The first snow storm.
    Falling asleep.
    Eating a delicious meal when you’re really hungry.
    The smell of cut grass.
    Purple clamatis and pink roses.
    The ocean.
    The view of the ocean when you’re on top of a bridge.
    My favorite music.
    A great book (this one should be higher up).
    “Some Like It Hot”
    Cary Grant

    Reply
  26. A good book
    Music (doing and listening to)
    My husband’s sense of humor
    A good book
    Bringing order to things
    Music
    Beiing thanked
    Listening to music while reading …
    OK. I’m deliberately stacking the deck, but reading and music (especially singing) are pretty much like breathing to me. I cannot and do not live without them; they are indeed simple pleasures.

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  27. A good book
    Music (doing and listening to)
    My husband’s sense of humor
    A good book
    Bringing order to things
    Music
    Beiing thanked
    Listening to music while reading …
    OK. I’m deliberately stacking the deck, but reading and music (especially singing) are pretty much like breathing to me. I cannot and do not live without them; they are indeed simple pleasures.

    Reply
  28. A good book
    Music (doing and listening to)
    My husband’s sense of humor
    A good book
    Bringing order to things
    Music
    Beiing thanked
    Listening to music while reading …
    OK. I’m deliberately stacking the deck, but reading and music (especially singing) are pretty much like breathing to me. I cannot and do not live without them; they are indeed simple pleasures.

    Reply
  29. A good book
    Music (doing and listening to)
    My husband’s sense of humor
    A good book
    Bringing order to things
    Music
    Beiing thanked
    Listening to music while reading …
    OK. I’m deliberately stacking the deck, but reading and music (especially singing) are pretty much like breathing to me. I cannot and do not live without them; they are indeed simple pleasures.

    Reply
  30. A good book
    Music (doing and listening to)
    My husband’s sense of humor
    A good book
    Bringing order to things
    Music
    Beiing thanked
    Listening to music while reading …
    OK. I’m deliberately stacking the deck, but reading and music (especially singing) are pretty much like breathing to me. I cannot and do not live without them; they are indeed simple pleasures.

    Reply
  31. Lovely, Anne! Thank you for sharing. Doesn’t the fresh air smell of sun dried material smell lovely!
    I was surprised that spending time with friends wasn’t on the list, whether eating or chatting or singing, or walking… But perhaps that’s too “big” a thing to be a simple pleasure? Not sure.
    A fire outside with the night sky overhead… Fabulous!

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  32. Lovely, Anne! Thank you for sharing. Doesn’t the fresh air smell of sun dried material smell lovely!
    I was surprised that spending time with friends wasn’t on the list, whether eating or chatting or singing, or walking… But perhaps that’s too “big” a thing to be a simple pleasure? Not sure.
    A fire outside with the night sky overhead… Fabulous!

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  33. Lovely, Anne! Thank you for sharing. Doesn’t the fresh air smell of sun dried material smell lovely!
    I was surprised that spending time with friends wasn’t on the list, whether eating or chatting or singing, or walking… But perhaps that’s too “big” a thing to be a simple pleasure? Not sure.
    A fire outside with the night sky overhead… Fabulous!

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  34. Lovely, Anne! Thank you for sharing. Doesn’t the fresh air smell of sun dried material smell lovely!
    I was surprised that spending time with friends wasn’t on the list, whether eating or chatting or singing, or walking… But perhaps that’s too “big” a thing to be a simple pleasure? Not sure.
    A fire outside with the night sky overhead… Fabulous!

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  35. Lovely, Anne! Thank you for sharing. Doesn’t the fresh air smell of sun dried material smell lovely!
    I was surprised that spending time with friends wasn’t on the list, whether eating or chatting or singing, or walking… But perhaps that’s too “big” a thing to be a simple pleasure? Not sure.
    A fire outside with the night sky overhead… Fabulous!

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  36. So true, Cara/Andrea. It’s easy to miss the simple pleasures when life is so busy and people don’t feel they have time to look around them. I love your image of watching the breeze ripple across the water or over grass. It only takes a moment to pause and appreciate so much beauty.

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  37. So true, Cara/Andrea. It’s easy to miss the simple pleasures when life is so busy and people don’t feel they have time to look around them. I love your image of watching the breeze ripple across the water or over grass. It only takes a moment to pause and appreciate so much beauty.

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  38. So true, Cara/Andrea. It’s easy to miss the simple pleasures when life is so busy and people don’t feel they have time to look around them. I love your image of watching the breeze ripple across the water or over grass. It only takes a moment to pause and appreciate so much beauty.

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  39. So true, Cara/Andrea. It’s easy to miss the simple pleasures when life is so busy and people don’t feel they have time to look around them. I love your image of watching the breeze ripple across the water or over grass. It only takes a moment to pause and appreciate so much beauty.

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  40. So true, Cara/Andrea. It’s easy to miss the simple pleasures when life is so busy and people don’t feel they have time to look around them. I love your image of watching the breeze ripple across the water or over grass. It only takes a moment to pause and appreciate so much beauty.

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  41. Thanks, Bona! Love the experiences you describe! As Cara/Andrea said, it’s about being mindful and appreciating those sensations and taking time. All the more enjoyable when it is heard-earned after climbing the mountain!

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  42. Thanks, Bona! Love the experiences you describe! As Cara/Andrea said, it’s about being mindful and appreciating those sensations and taking time. All the more enjoyable when it is heard-earned after climbing the mountain!

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  43. Thanks, Bona! Love the experiences you describe! As Cara/Andrea said, it’s about being mindful and appreciating those sensations and taking time. All the more enjoyable when it is heard-earned after climbing the mountain!

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  44. Thanks, Bona! Love the experiences you describe! As Cara/Andrea said, it’s about being mindful and appreciating those sensations and taking time. All the more enjoyable when it is heard-earned after climbing the mountain!

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  45. Thanks, Bona! Love the experiences you describe! As Cara/Andrea said, it’s about being mindful and appreciating those sensations and taking time. All the more enjoyable when it is heard-earned after climbing the mountain!

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  46. Thanks for sharing your wonderful list, Lynda. Isn’t it great the way a dog is always so happy to see you. I love that. And laughing with someone who gets your sense of humour… Priceless.

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  47. Thanks for sharing your wonderful list, Lynda. Isn’t it great the way a dog is always so happy to see you. I love that. And laughing with someone who gets your sense of humour… Priceless.

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  48. Thanks for sharing your wonderful list, Lynda. Isn’t it great the way a dog is always so happy to see you. I love that. And laughing with someone who gets your sense of humour… Priceless.

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  49. Thanks for sharing your wonderful list, Lynda. Isn’t it great the way a dog is always so happy to see you. I love that. And laughing with someone who gets your sense of humour… Priceless.

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  50. Thanks for sharing your wonderful list, Lynda. Isn’t it great the way a dog is always so happy to see you. I love that. And laughing with someone who gets your sense of humour… Priceless.

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  51. Lovely post, and yes, I think many of the simple pleasures are eternal, such as the warmth of the sun and the delights of plants and water. I love the seashore.
    And music. In the past, with less technological entertainment, music was much more part of people’s lives, rich and poor. Anyone can have music, even if only singing.
    One of the bleak things about the past was when people were in Victorian cities often cut off from the country, but it’s admirable how many places built parks for the people to enjoy. Often they were the work of benefactors, who might also make it possible for the poor to get into the countryside or to the seashore.
    A lot of smaller industrial towns in the north were close to lovely dale and moorland and people would walk out on days off to enjoy that.
    Jo

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  52. Lovely post, and yes, I think many of the simple pleasures are eternal, such as the warmth of the sun and the delights of plants and water. I love the seashore.
    And music. In the past, with less technological entertainment, music was much more part of people’s lives, rich and poor. Anyone can have music, even if only singing.
    One of the bleak things about the past was when people were in Victorian cities often cut off from the country, but it’s admirable how many places built parks for the people to enjoy. Often they were the work of benefactors, who might also make it possible for the poor to get into the countryside or to the seashore.
    A lot of smaller industrial towns in the north were close to lovely dale and moorland and people would walk out on days off to enjoy that.
    Jo

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  53. Lovely post, and yes, I think many of the simple pleasures are eternal, such as the warmth of the sun and the delights of plants and water. I love the seashore.
    And music. In the past, with less technological entertainment, music was much more part of people’s lives, rich and poor. Anyone can have music, even if only singing.
    One of the bleak things about the past was when people were in Victorian cities often cut off from the country, but it’s admirable how many places built parks for the people to enjoy. Often they were the work of benefactors, who might also make it possible for the poor to get into the countryside or to the seashore.
    A lot of smaller industrial towns in the north were close to lovely dale and moorland and people would walk out on days off to enjoy that.
    Jo

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  54. Lovely post, and yes, I think many of the simple pleasures are eternal, such as the warmth of the sun and the delights of plants and water. I love the seashore.
    And music. In the past, with less technological entertainment, music was much more part of people’s lives, rich and poor. Anyone can have music, even if only singing.
    One of the bleak things about the past was when people were in Victorian cities often cut off from the country, but it’s admirable how many places built parks for the people to enjoy. Often they were the work of benefactors, who might also make it possible for the poor to get into the countryside or to the seashore.
    A lot of smaller industrial towns in the north were close to lovely dale and moorland and people would walk out on days off to enjoy that.
    Jo

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  55. Lovely post, and yes, I think many of the simple pleasures are eternal, such as the warmth of the sun and the delights of plants and water. I love the seashore.
    And music. In the past, with less technological entertainment, music was much more part of people’s lives, rich and poor. Anyone can have music, even if only singing.
    One of the bleak things about the past was when people were in Victorian cities often cut off from the country, but it’s admirable how many places built parks for the people to enjoy. Often they were the work of benefactors, who might also make it possible for the poor to get into the countryside or to the seashore.
    A lot of smaller industrial towns in the north were close to lovely dale and moorland and people would walk out on days off to enjoy that.
    Jo

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  56. Raisin scones from Gelson’s. Clean clothes. Hot showers. A good book. Talking with a friend. Really cold diet coke. Dodger games. Dogs and cats. Roses in other people’s gardens. A cozy blanket. Doctor Who. I think that’s about it, really.

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  57. Raisin scones from Gelson’s. Clean clothes. Hot showers. A good book. Talking with a friend. Really cold diet coke. Dodger games. Dogs and cats. Roses in other people’s gardens. A cozy blanket. Doctor Who. I think that’s about it, really.

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  58. Raisin scones from Gelson’s. Clean clothes. Hot showers. A good book. Talking with a friend. Really cold diet coke. Dodger games. Dogs and cats. Roses in other people’s gardens. A cozy blanket. Doctor Who. I think that’s about it, really.

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  59. Raisin scones from Gelson’s. Clean clothes. Hot showers. A good book. Talking with a friend. Really cold diet coke. Dodger games. Dogs and cats. Roses in other people’s gardens. A cozy blanket. Doctor Who. I think that’s about it, really.

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  60. Raisin scones from Gelson’s. Clean clothes. Hot showers. A good book. Talking with a friend. Really cold diet coke. Dodger games. Dogs and cats. Roses in other people’s gardens. A cozy blanket. Doctor Who. I think that’s about it, really.

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  61. Thank you, Jo. Yes, I remember my grandparents growing up in the early 20th century tradition of making music together. Everyone could play and instrument or sing or both. The influence of it came down to my generation.
    That’s a really interesting point about the parks. It must have been depressing to be separated from the beauty of the countryside and parks are a good substitute.

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  62. Thank you, Jo. Yes, I remember my grandparents growing up in the early 20th century tradition of making music together. Everyone could play and instrument or sing or both. The influence of it came down to my generation.
    That’s a really interesting point about the parks. It must have been depressing to be separated from the beauty of the countryside and parks are a good substitute.

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  63. Thank you, Jo. Yes, I remember my grandparents growing up in the early 20th century tradition of making music together. Everyone could play and instrument or sing or both. The influence of it came down to my generation.
    That’s a really interesting point about the parks. It must have been depressing to be separated from the beauty of the countryside and parks are a good substitute.

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  64. Thank you, Jo. Yes, I remember my grandparents growing up in the early 20th century tradition of making music together. Everyone could play and instrument or sing or both. The influence of it came down to my generation.
    That’s a really interesting point about the parks. It must have been depressing to be separated from the beauty of the countryside and parks are a good substitute.

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  65. Thank you, Jo. Yes, I remember my grandparents growing up in the early 20th century tradition of making music together. Everyone could play and instrument or sing or both. The influence of it came down to my generation.
    That’s a really interesting point about the parks. It must have been depressing to be separated from the beauty of the countryside and parks are a good substitute.

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  66. Everyone’s pleasures listed are wonderful. For me I would add, soaking in a hot bubble bath on a cold day. Or slipping into lovely cool lake water on a hot day. Watching the flowers I’ve grown open up and bloom. Buying a book I’ve been waiting or searching for. A clean house. Getting a thank you note in the mail. Having a favorite song come on the radio. Seeing the moon at night. A beautiful sunset or sunrise.
    Lovely post, Nicola.

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  67. Everyone’s pleasures listed are wonderful. For me I would add, soaking in a hot bubble bath on a cold day. Or slipping into lovely cool lake water on a hot day. Watching the flowers I’ve grown open up and bloom. Buying a book I’ve been waiting or searching for. A clean house. Getting a thank you note in the mail. Having a favorite song come on the radio. Seeing the moon at night. A beautiful sunset or sunrise.
    Lovely post, Nicola.

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  68. Everyone’s pleasures listed are wonderful. For me I would add, soaking in a hot bubble bath on a cold day. Or slipping into lovely cool lake water on a hot day. Watching the flowers I’ve grown open up and bloom. Buying a book I’ve been waiting or searching for. A clean house. Getting a thank you note in the mail. Having a favorite song come on the radio. Seeing the moon at night. A beautiful sunset or sunrise.
    Lovely post, Nicola.

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  69. Everyone’s pleasures listed are wonderful. For me I would add, soaking in a hot bubble bath on a cold day. Or slipping into lovely cool lake water on a hot day. Watching the flowers I’ve grown open up and bloom. Buying a book I’ve been waiting or searching for. A clean house. Getting a thank you note in the mail. Having a favorite song come on the radio. Seeing the moon at night. A beautiful sunset or sunrise.
    Lovely post, Nicola.

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  70. Everyone’s pleasures listed are wonderful. For me I would add, soaking in a hot bubble bath on a cold day. Or slipping into lovely cool lake water on a hot day. Watching the flowers I’ve grown open up and bloom. Buying a book I’ve been waiting or searching for. A clean house. Getting a thank you note in the mail. Having a favorite song come on the radio. Seeing the moon at night. A beautiful sunset or sunrise.
    Lovely post, Nicola.

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  71. The following is a list I kept on my My Space profile several years ago. It’s a throwback list but I still love them today.
    J. Linnae’s Top Ten List of Favorite Things
    1 ~ Sunsets and Sunrises
    2 ~ Chocolate
    3 ~ Coffee – especially Dunkin Donuts
    4 ~ Mysteries of any kind
    5 ~ The Wyoming Tetons and Yellowstone
    6 ~ The Black Hills in western South Dakota
    7 ~ Politics
    8 ~ Licorice
    9 ~ Spectator Sports
    10 ~ Movies in a dark theater with popcorn/Pepsi!

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  72. The following is a list I kept on my My Space profile several years ago. It’s a throwback list but I still love them today.
    J. Linnae’s Top Ten List of Favorite Things
    1 ~ Sunsets and Sunrises
    2 ~ Chocolate
    3 ~ Coffee – especially Dunkin Donuts
    4 ~ Mysteries of any kind
    5 ~ The Wyoming Tetons and Yellowstone
    6 ~ The Black Hills in western South Dakota
    7 ~ Politics
    8 ~ Licorice
    9 ~ Spectator Sports
    10 ~ Movies in a dark theater with popcorn/Pepsi!

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  73. The following is a list I kept on my My Space profile several years ago. It’s a throwback list but I still love them today.
    J. Linnae’s Top Ten List of Favorite Things
    1 ~ Sunsets and Sunrises
    2 ~ Chocolate
    3 ~ Coffee – especially Dunkin Donuts
    4 ~ Mysteries of any kind
    5 ~ The Wyoming Tetons and Yellowstone
    6 ~ The Black Hills in western South Dakota
    7 ~ Politics
    8 ~ Licorice
    9 ~ Spectator Sports
    10 ~ Movies in a dark theater with popcorn/Pepsi!

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  74. The following is a list I kept on my My Space profile several years ago. It’s a throwback list but I still love them today.
    J. Linnae’s Top Ten List of Favorite Things
    1 ~ Sunsets and Sunrises
    2 ~ Chocolate
    3 ~ Coffee – especially Dunkin Donuts
    4 ~ Mysteries of any kind
    5 ~ The Wyoming Tetons and Yellowstone
    6 ~ The Black Hills in western South Dakota
    7 ~ Politics
    8 ~ Licorice
    9 ~ Spectator Sports
    10 ~ Movies in a dark theater with popcorn/Pepsi!

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  75. The following is a list I kept on my My Space profile several years ago. It’s a throwback list but I still love them today.
    J. Linnae’s Top Ten List of Favorite Things
    1 ~ Sunsets and Sunrises
    2 ~ Chocolate
    3 ~ Coffee – especially Dunkin Donuts
    4 ~ Mysteries of any kind
    5 ~ The Wyoming Tetons and Yellowstone
    6 ~ The Black Hills in western South Dakota
    7 ~ Politics
    8 ~ Licorice
    9 ~ Spectator Sports
    10 ~ Movies in a dark theater with popcorn/Pepsi!

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  76. Lovely, Nicola!
    I’d go with just about everything listed, though I would not put sliding into bed on freshly ironed sheets on the list, probably because I’ve never had the pleasure. And probably never will, since I’m allergic to ironing. (Really. I have a doctor’s note. *G*) Clean permapress is not the same.
    But a bath in a deep fragrant tub with a good book and a cup of hot Sleepytime tea–YES. Cuddling up with one’s loved ones, both two and four footed, would probably be at the top of my lis.

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  77. Lovely, Nicola!
    I’d go with just about everything listed, though I would not put sliding into bed on freshly ironed sheets on the list, probably because I’ve never had the pleasure. And probably never will, since I’m allergic to ironing. (Really. I have a doctor’s note. *G*) Clean permapress is not the same.
    But a bath in a deep fragrant tub with a good book and a cup of hot Sleepytime tea–YES. Cuddling up with one’s loved ones, both two and four footed, would probably be at the top of my lis.

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  78. Lovely, Nicola!
    I’d go with just about everything listed, though I would not put sliding into bed on freshly ironed sheets on the list, probably because I’ve never had the pleasure. And probably never will, since I’m allergic to ironing. (Really. I have a doctor’s note. *G*) Clean permapress is not the same.
    But a bath in a deep fragrant tub with a good book and a cup of hot Sleepytime tea–YES. Cuddling up with one’s loved ones, both two and four footed, would probably be at the top of my lis.

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  79. Lovely, Nicola!
    I’d go with just about everything listed, though I would not put sliding into bed on freshly ironed sheets on the list, probably because I’ve never had the pleasure. And probably never will, since I’m allergic to ironing. (Really. I have a doctor’s note. *G*) Clean permapress is not the same.
    But a bath in a deep fragrant tub with a good book and a cup of hot Sleepytime tea–YES. Cuddling up with one’s loved ones, both two and four footed, would probably be at the top of my lis.

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  80. Lovely, Nicola!
    I’d go with just about everything listed, though I would not put sliding into bed on freshly ironed sheets on the list, probably because I’ve never had the pleasure. And probably never will, since I’m allergic to ironing. (Really. I have a doctor’s note. *G*) Clean permapress is not the same.
    But a bath in a deep fragrant tub with a good book and a cup of hot Sleepytime tea–YES. Cuddling up with one’s loved ones, both two and four footed, would probably be at the top of my lis.

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  81. Nicola,
    Rubbing my two pups while they look up with unabashed adoration. I do believe it is my greatest pleasure. They make me stop, be in the moment and feel loved. Thank you for the lovely post.

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  82. Nicola,
    Rubbing my two pups while they look up with unabashed adoration. I do believe it is my greatest pleasure. They make me stop, be in the moment and feel loved. Thank you for the lovely post.

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  83. Nicola,
    Rubbing my two pups while they look up with unabashed adoration. I do believe it is my greatest pleasure. They make me stop, be in the moment and feel loved. Thank you for the lovely post.

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  84. Nicola,
    Rubbing my two pups while they look up with unabashed adoration. I do believe it is my greatest pleasure. They make me stop, be in the moment and feel loved. Thank you for the lovely post.

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  85. Nicola,
    Rubbing my two pups while they look up with unabashed adoration. I do believe it is my greatest pleasure. They make me stop, be in the moment and feel loved. Thank you for the lovely post.

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  86. Such an interesting post, Nicola – and I loved reading all the comments.
    Re: things a 19th century child would have treasured, I was fascinated to learn that, before the coming of the teddy bear in the early 20th century, children, in England at any rate, cuddled woolly lambs. I suspect that toy lambs were valued because of their association with the Christmas story, being one of the animals round the Christmas crib.

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  87. Such an interesting post, Nicola – and I loved reading all the comments.
    Re: things a 19th century child would have treasured, I was fascinated to learn that, before the coming of the teddy bear in the early 20th century, children, in England at any rate, cuddled woolly lambs. I suspect that toy lambs were valued because of their association with the Christmas story, being one of the animals round the Christmas crib.

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  88. Such an interesting post, Nicola – and I loved reading all the comments.
    Re: things a 19th century child would have treasured, I was fascinated to learn that, before the coming of the teddy bear in the early 20th century, children, in England at any rate, cuddled woolly lambs. I suspect that toy lambs were valued because of their association with the Christmas story, being one of the animals round the Christmas crib.

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  89. Such an interesting post, Nicola – and I loved reading all the comments.
    Re: things a 19th century child would have treasured, I was fascinated to learn that, before the coming of the teddy bear in the early 20th century, children, in England at any rate, cuddled woolly lambs. I suspect that toy lambs were valued because of their association with the Christmas story, being one of the animals round the Christmas crib.

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  90. Such an interesting post, Nicola – and I loved reading all the comments.
    Re: things a 19th century child would have treasured, I was fascinated to learn that, before the coming of the teddy bear in the early 20th century, children, in England at any rate, cuddled woolly lambs. I suspect that toy lambs were valued because of their association with the Christmas story, being one of the animals round the Christmas crib.

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  91. Ahhhh. Love them all! One of my favorites is enjoying a day like we had in Maryland today, with spring finally warming the air and that lovely light spring green floating on trees and shrubs.

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  92. Ahhhh. Love them all! One of my favorites is enjoying a day like we had in Maryland today, with spring finally warming the air and that lovely light spring green floating on trees and shrubs.

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  93. Ahhhh. Love them all! One of my favorites is enjoying a day like we had in Maryland today, with spring finally warming the air and that lovely light spring green floating on trees and shrubs.

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  94. Ahhhh. Love them all! One of my favorites is enjoying a day like we had in Maryland today, with spring finally warming the air and that lovely light spring green floating on trees and shrubs.

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  95. Ahhhh. Love them all! One of my favorites is enjoying a day like we had in Maryland today, with spring finally warming the air and that lovely light spring green floating on trees and shrubs.

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  96. Thank you, Karin. I am so pleased you enjoyed it. I’ve been loving everyone’s suggestions too. I enjoy seeing a new moon and standing out under the stars on a clear night. As for getting my hands on a book I’ve been anticipating… That’s a very great pleasure!

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  97. Thank you, Karin. I am so pleased you enjoyed it. I’ve been loving everyone’s suggestions too. I enjoy seeing a new moon and standing out under the stars on a clear night. As for getting my hands on a book I’ve been anticipating… That’s a very great pleasure!

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  98. Thank you, Karin. I am so pleased you enjoyed it. I’ve been loving everyone’s suggestions too. I enjoy seeing a new moon and standing out under the stars on a clear night. As for getting my hands on a book I’ve been anticipating… That’s a very great pleasure!

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  99. Thank you, Karin. I am so pleased you enjoyed it. I’ve been loving everyone’s suggestions too. I enjoy seeing a new moon and standing out under the stars on a clear night. As for getting my hands on a book I’ve been anticipating… That’s a very great pleasure!

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  100. Thank you, Karin. I am so pleased you enjoyed it. I’ve been loving everyone’s suggestions too. I enjoy seeing a new moon and standing out under the stars on a clear night. As for getting my hands on a book I’ve been anticipating… That’s a very great pleasure!

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