Conference Clothing Concerns

Cat 243 Doverby Mary Jo

As Cara/Andrea said on Friday, sometime we Wenches go light in our posts, and this one is REALLY light!  I don't even have a biscotti recipe to offer.  <G>  But in the spirit of the summer silly season, I present:

RWA's national romance writers conference!  It's next week in San Antonio, and it's surely the world's largest collection of romance writers on the hoof.  The annual literacy signing is similarly large, with hundreds of writers signing and thousands of books donated by publishers for sale.  

Conference logo(A pause for a public service announcement: If you're in the neighborhood, ya'll come on down!  Zillions of books, and all proceeds are given to literacy organizations.  What greater gift can you give than the gift of reading?  Lots of romance lovers in Texas, so I'm sure the signing will generate a lot of money for local literacy groups.)



An RWA conference is a seething mass of authors, aspiring writers, editors, agents, etc, etc., all with places to go and things to do and goals to meet.  When you have a couple of thousand excited females in one hotel, the high pitched screams of welcome can numb your eardrums.  <G>

These days, hotel check-ins are much more efficient, but in years gone by, I've been stuck in lines that twisted and twined through whole lobbies as RWA members waiting to check in.  This wasn't as bad as it sounds because it was a chance to see your friends ("Barbara!!!  Jennifer!!!! HUGE HUGS ENSUE!!!!!!), and make new friends as you commiserate with your fellows who are waiting in line with you.

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One such past check-in jam sticks in my mind.  It was in Dallas, home of Mary Kay Cosmetics, and it was conference time for them, too.  Masses of Mary Kay representatives were there in spiffy red blazers, impeccably made up and with steely glints in their mascara-ed eyes.  Romance writers and Mary Kay reps came together, and both sides recoiled in horror. <G>  

Not that romance writers can't look spiffy or use cosmetics, but the group vibes were very different.  All of us were business women, but we work in vastly different ways. I Cosmeticshad friends whimpering how they'd been threatened with makeovers when trapped in elevators with Mary Kay reps.  <g>

I think the underlying divide might be that good salespeople–and these women were good—are almost certainly extroverts, while writers are overwhelmingly introverts.  Two different breeds occupying the same hotel. <G>  It was pretty funny even then.  

But I digress.  Now we're in the pre-conference prep stage for this year's conference.  If you're giving a talk, you're frantically finalizing what you have to say and wondering why you ever wanted to do this in the first place.  ("But it seemed like such a good idea ten months ago….")

If you're an old hand like me, you're contacting friends, exchanging cell phone numbers, and setting up times to get together because you know from experience that if you don't pin down a time, it won't happen.  And seeing friends is my main reason for going.  This year, I get to see all three of the overseas Wenches!  How cool is that?

There is an old rule of thumb that the people you see the first day are the ones you'll see over and over again for the rest of the conference, while you'll never see people that you know are there.  This rule of thumb is true.

If you're an author who has an editor and/or agent who will be present, you're setting up a meal with them so they can buy pay for it, because getting a good meal is because it's one of the major perks of being a traditionally published author. <G>

But the worst part of the planning is about what you'll wear.  We authors don't get out much, you know, and that really boosts the anxiety!  Spontaneous discussions about what to wear break out on authors' discussion loops.  

One of the first and most pragmatic questions is what to take when the conference is in Rivercenter hotela city that will be only a few degrees cooler than the hinges of hell, but you'll spend most of your time in a hotel chilled to a point that would give a penguin goose bumps.  

This is particularly true for those attendees who weren't able to get a room in the conference hotel, so every day will start with a hike along burning streets before the official day even starts.  A friend who ended up in a hotel ten minutes walk away said that she'd show up every day looking like a boiled lobster "and it's not a good look on me."  <G>

No one wants to show up at the annual gathering of her professional group looking like a loser, hence the anxiety.  One wants to look professional, but not stuffily so.  I have one friend who loves clothes and getting dressed up, but–well, she doesn't get out much.  So she assembles every outfit she plans on wearing and takes a picture of it so she'll remember what to put together even when her brain is blitzed by all that crazed conference energy. <g>

Wenches rwas 2011We're grown women so we usually have a good sense of our personal style, but that doesn't mean there's no anxiety.  The stakes can be high, and we want to look "right" for whatever might come up.  This can often mean over-packing to allow for all possibilities.  But if your suitcase is already close to explosion, where will you put all the giveaway books that are handed out to attendees?  (Luckily most hotels will ship boxes of books home for you.)  

Some romance writers would look great in any company.  Others trend more to the unmade bed look.  (That's more my style. <G>)  But the one place where all of us excel is jewelry.  There will be lots and lots of really interesting, unusual jewelry visible, because we like unusual things and as I said, we don't get out much. 

I have a smashing gold necklace done by a local jewelry designer.  It consists of Victorian book chain necklacemodernistic loops and crescent moons, and it's long enough to just toss over my head.  I can wear with anything and it improves any outfit. There's a very well known agent who yearns over the necklace whenever she sees it, and invariably we run into each other when I'm wearing it, even though I have plenty of other things I like to wear.  When I see her coming, I take the necklace off and dangle it in front of her, cooing how pretty it is and how great it would look on her, and here's the name of the designer who made it.  She looks at it longingly, but has thus far resisted.  <G>

The glamour highpoint of an RWA conference is the RITA presentation ceremony on the last night.  A lot of attendees get dressed to the nines and look FABULOUS!  (Did I mention that we don't get out much?)  Evening gowns sweep the floor and glitter with sequins, and RITA finalists in particular have every reason to buy something new and special to wear, just in case.  Anne and Nicola are both historical finalists this year, and I expect them to shine!  

As for my clothing anxiety, I pack too much, try to look artsy professional for signings and publisher events, and invariably my dress standards slip really fast.  By the second day, I usually default to whatever is cotton and most comfortable in my suitcase.  <G>  

But what about you?  Do you have clothing anxiety attacks, or are you always secure in whatever style you've developed?  The best thing a woman can have is a confident attitude that says, "Here I am, and aren't you lucky that I've arrived?"  Irresistible!

NotQuiteAWifeMMPlease share your clothing and image ups and downs, and I'll send an advanced reading copy of my September book, Not Quite a Wife, to one person who comments between now and Tuesday night.  The book's heroine, Laurel, gets a makeover scene. <G>

Mary Jo, feeling a pressing urge to shop to find The Perfect Thing even though I hate to shop

 

250 thoughts on “Conference Clothing Concerns”

  1. That’s one of the prettiest covers I’ve seen this year.
    I’ve reached a point where I look for the clothes that never need to see an iron. Travelling is a real pain when you’re always needing to wash and iron and smooth and primp!
    I have a few dresses I take with me all over the world, which work for the theatre or any other fancier occasion. When they fall apart I’m going to be devastated!
    “If you’re giving a talk, you’re frantically finalizing what you have to say and wondering why you ever wanted to do this in the first place. (“But it seemed like such a good idea ten months ago….”)”
    I think voluntary public speaking is never a smart idea… 🙂 For me, at least.

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  2. That’s one of the prettiest covers I’ve seen this year.
    I’ve reached a point where I look for the clothes that never need to see an iron. Travelling is a real pain when you’re always needing to wash and iron and smooth and primp!
    I have a few dresses I take with me all over the world, which work for the theatre or any other fancier occasion. When they fall apart I’m going to be devastated!
    “If you’re giving a talk, you’re frantically finalizing what you have to say and wondering why you ever wanted to do this in the first place. (“But it seemed like such a good idea ten months ago….”)”
    I think voluntary public speaking is never a smart idea… 🙂 For me, at least.

    Reply
  3. That’s one of the prettiest covers I’ve seen this year.
    I’ve reached a point where I look for the clothes that never need to see an iron. Travelling is a real pain when you’re always needing to wash and iron and smooth and primp!
    I have a few dresses I take with me all over the world, which work for the theatre or any other fancier occasion. When they fall apart I’m going to be devastated!
    “If you’re giving a talk, you’re frantically finalizing what you have to say and wondering why you ever wanted to do this in the first place. (“But it seemed like such a good idea ten months ago….”)”
    I think voluntary public speaking is never a smart idea… 🙂 For me, at least.

    Reply
  4. That’s one of the prettiest covers I’ve seen this year.
    I’ve reached a point where I look for the clothes that never need to see an iron. Travelling is a real pain when you’re always needing to wash and iron and smooth and primp!
    I have a few dresses I take with me all over the world, which work for the theatre or any other fancier occasion. When they fall apart I’m going to be devastated!
    “If you’re giving a talk, you’re frantically finalizing what you have to say and wondering why you ever wanted to do this in the first place. (“But it seemed like such a good idea ten months ago….”)”
    I think voluntary public speaking is never a smart idea… 🙂 For me, at least.

    Reply
  5. That’s one of the prettiest covers I’ve seen this year.
    I’ve reached a point where I look for the clothes that never need to see an iron. Travelling is a real pain when you’re always needing to wash and iron and smooth and primp!
    I have a few dresses I take with me all over the world, which work for the theatre or any other fancier occasion. When they fall apart I’m going to be devastated!
    “If you’re giving a talk, you’re frantically finalizing what you have to say and wondering why you ever wanted to do this in the first place. (“But it seemed like such a good idea ten months ago….”)”
    I think voluntary public speaking is never a smart idea… 🙂 For me, at least.

    Reply
  6. Since I don’t travel for business anymore, I have far less worries than you. That said, I still over pack. If I’m going to be gone for 1 week, there are always at least 10 tops in my suitcase to handle all types of weather. The only thing I can say in my favor is that my husband is worse! Enjoy your trip!

    Reply
  7. Since I don’t travel for business anymore, I have far less worries than you. That said, I still over pack. If I’m going to be gone for 1 week, there are always at least 10 tops in my suitcase to handle all types of weather. The only thing I can say in my favor is that my husband is worse! Enjoy your trip!

    Reply
  8. Since I don’t travel for business anymore, I have far less worries than you. That said, I still over pack. If I’m going to be gone for 1 week, there are always at least 10 tops in my suitcase to handle all types of weather. The only thing I can say in my favor is that my husband is worse! Enjoy your trip!

    Reply
  9. Since I don’t travel for business anymore, I have far less worries than you. That said, I still over pack. If I’m going to be gone for 1 week, there are always at least 10 tops in my suitcase to handle all types of weather. The only thing I can say in my favor is that my husband is worse! Enjoy your trip!

    Reply
  10. Since I don’t travel for business anymore, I have far less worries than you. That said, I still over pack. If I’m going to be gone for 1 week, there are always at least 10 tops in my suitcase to handle all types of weather. The only thing I can say in my favor is that my husband is worse! Enjoy your trip!

    Reply
  11. I hear your pain and dilemma…. My hardest times are what to wear to my sister-in-law’s house. They keep it freezing even in winter. Trying to find something to wear that allows long underwear but still looks good is always a trial.
    I usually end up wearing my fleece vest, fleece jacket and scarf over whatever I chose so looking presentable ends up not being such big problem. I just look like a bundled up Eskimo….
    But packing for a trip….oh yes. Dilemma city there. I get cold on airplanes so have to have my fleece jacket even if it is 90 when I take off in Atlanta. Traveling from 90 degree weather to a place that is going to be 50 degrees…aiee……

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  12. I hear your pain and dilemma…. My hardest times are what to wear to my sister-in-law’s house. They keep it freezing even in winter. Trying to find something to wear that allows long underwear but still looks good is always a trial.
    I usually end up wearing my fleece vest, fleece jacket and scarf over whatever I chose so looking presentable ends up not being such big problem. I just look like a bundled up Eskimo….
    But packing for a trip….oh yes. Dilemma city there. I get cold on airplanes so have to have my fleece jacket even if it is 90 when I take off in Atlanta. Traveling from 90 degree weather to a place that is going to be 50 degrees…aiee……

    Reply
  13. I hear your pain and dilemma…. My hardest times are what to wear to my sister-in-law’s house. They keep it freezing even in winter. Trying to find something to wear that allows long underwear but still looks good is always a trial.
    I usually end up wearing my fleece vest, fleece jacket and scarf over whatever I chose so looking presentable ends up not being such big problem. I just look like a bundled up Eskimo….
    But packing for a trip….oh yes. Dilemma city there. I get cold on airplanes so have to have my fleece jacket even if it is 90 when I take off in Atlanta. Traveling from 90 degree weather to a place that is going to be 50 degrees…aiee……

    Reply
  14. I hear your pain and dilemma…. My hardest times are what to wear to my sister-in-law’s house. They keep it freezing even in winter. Trying to find something to wear that allows long underwear but still looks good is always a trial.
    I usually end up wearing my fleece vest, fleece jacket and scarf over whatever I chose so looking presentable ends up not being such big problem. I just look like a bundled up Eskimo….
    But packing for a trip….oh yes. Dilemma city there. I get cold on airplanes so have to have my fleece jacket even if it is 90 when I take off in Atlanta. Traveling from 90 degree weather to a place that is going to be 50 degrees…aiee……

    Reply
  15. I hear your pain and dilemma…. My hardest times are what to wear to my sister-in-law’s house. They keep it freezing even in winter. Trying to find something to wear that allows long underwear but still looks good is always a trial.
    I usually end up wearing my fleece vest, fleece jacket and scarf over whatever I chose so looking presentable ends up not being such big problem. I just look like a bundled up Eskimo….
    But packing for a trip….oh yes. Dilemma city there. I get cold on airplanes so have to have my fleece jacket even if it is 90 when I take off in Atlanta. Traveling from 90 degree weather to a place that is going to be 50 degrees…aiee……

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  16. Sonya–
    Isn’t the cover gorgeous? I love the colors, and she has a sweet, gentle look that is perfect for the heroine. Plus, the piano, because music is central for both Kirkland and Laurel.
    Good luck at making the great travel dresses last! There are more companies making travel-specific garments, but they may not appeal as much.
    As for volunteering to speak publicly–yes, REALLY bad idea, but authors want to be read, and speaking is way to get better known. I heard Susan Elizabeth Phillips speak at a New Jersey writers conference 20+ years ago and I’ve been buying her books ever since, so this can work. *G* But it’s painful for most of us to do it.

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  17. Sonya–
    Isn’t the cover gorgeous? I love the colors, and she has a sweet, gentle look that is perfect for the heroine. Plus, the piano, because music is central for both Kirkland and Laurel.
    Good luck at making the great travel dresses last! There are more companies making travel-specific garments, but they may not appeal as much.
    As for volunteering to speak publicly–yes, REALLY bad idea, but authors want to be read, and speaking is way to get better known. I heard Susan Elizabeth Phillips speak at a New Jersey writers conference 20+ years ago and I’ve been buying her books ever since, so this can work. *G* But it’s painful for most of us to do it.

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  18. Sonya–
    Isn’t the cover gorgeous? I love the colors, and she has a sweet, gentle look that is perfect for the heroine. Plus, the piano, because music is central for both Kirkland and Laurel.
    Good luck at making the great travel dresses last! There are more companies making travel-specific garments, but they may not appeal as much.
    As for volunteering to speak publicly–yes, REALLY bad idea, but authors want to be read, and speaking is way to get better known. I heard Susan Elizabeth Phillips speak at a New Jersey writers conference 20+ years ago and I’ve been buying her books ever since, so this can work. *G* But it’s painful for most of us to do it.

    Reply
  19. Sonya–
    Isn’t the cover gorgeous? I love the colors, and she has a sweet, gentle look that is perfect for the heroine. Plus, the piano, because music is central for both Kirkland and Laurel.
    Good luck at making the great travel dresses last! There are more companies making travel-specific garments, but they may not appeal as much.
    As for volunteering to speak publicly–yes, REALLY bad idea, but authors want to be read, and speaking is way to get better known. I heard Susan Elizabeth Phillips speak at a New Jersey writers conference 20+ years ago and I’ve been buying her books ever since, so this can work. *G* But it’s painful for most of us to do it.

    Reply
  20. Sonya–
    Isn’t the cover gorgeous? I love the colors, and she has a sweet, gentle look that is perfect for the heroine. Plus, the piano, because music is central for both Kirkland and Laurel.
    Good luck at making the great travel dresses last! There are more companies making travel-specific garments, but they may not appeal as much.
    As for volunteering to speak publicly–yes, REALLY bad idea, but authors want to be read, and speaking is way to get better known. I heard Susan Elizabeth Phillips speak at a New Jersey writers conference 20+ years ago and I’ve been buying her books ever since, so this can work. *G* But it’s painful for most of us to do it.

    Reply
  21. Kathy–
    You are very, very kind to say that, but even when I was getting the Lifetime Achievement award last year, my hair was in my face and my necklace was wandering. *G* I’d forgotten that we met in a check-in line, but it does go to show that such things were not time wasted!!!! You always look sleek and elegant and intelligent, so your dress styly reflects you well. *G*

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  22. Kathy–
    You are very, very kind to say that, but even when I was getting the Lifetime Achievement award last year, my hair was in my face and my necklace was wandering. *G* I’d forgotten that we met in a check-in line, but it does go to show that such things were not time wasted!!!! You always look sleek and elegant and intelligent, so your dress styly reflects you well. *G*

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  23. Kathy–
    You are very, very kind to say that, but even when I was getting the Lifetime Achievement award last year, my hair was in my face and my necklace was wandering. *G* I’d forgotten that we met in a check-in line, but it does go to show that such things were not time wasted!!!! You always look sleek and elegant and intelligent, so your dress styly reflects you well. *G*

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  24. Kathy–
    You are very, very kind to say that, but even when I was getting the Lifetime Achievement award last year, my hair was in my face and my necklace was wandering. *G* I’d forgotten that we met in a check-in line, but it does go to show that such things were not time wasted!!!! You always look sleek and elegant and intelligent, so your dress styly reflects you well. *G*

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  25. Kathy–
    You are very, very kind to say that, but even when I was getting the Lifetime Achievement award last year, my hair was in my face and my necklace was wandering. *G* I’d forgotten that we met in a check-in line, but it does go to show that such things were not time wasted!!!! You always look sleek and elegant and intelligent, so your dress styly reflects you well. *G*

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  26. Gail–
    I envy you having a husband who over packs even more than you do! The Mayhem Consultant is pretty minimalists–sometimes I have to make suggestions about adding a couple more things because it may be COLD where we’re going. *G*

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  27. Gail–
    I envy you having a husband who over packs even more than you do! The Mayhem Consultant is pretty minimalists–sometimes I have to make suggestions about adding a couple more things because it may be COLD where we’re going. *G*

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  28. Gail–
    I envy you having a husband who over packs even more than you do! The Mayhem Consultant is pretty minimalists–sometimes I have to make suggestions about adding a couple more things because it may be COLD where we’re going. *G*

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  29. Gail–
    I envy you having a husband who over packs even more than you do! The Mayhem Consultant is pretty minimalists–sometimes I have to make suggestions about adding a couple more things because it may be COLD where we’re going. *G*

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  30. Gail–
    I envy you having a husband who over packs even more than you do! The Mayhem Consultant is pretty minimalists–sometimes I have to make suggestions about adding a couple more things because it may be COLD where we’re going. *G*

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  31. Vicki–
    When traveling, layers are the way to go, though it gets tricky traveling from the northeast in winter to the sunny Caribbean. But soooooo worth the trip!
    I’m with you on going for comfort first. If the house is freezing, warmth comes WAY ahead of looking fashionable. *G*

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  32. Vicki–
    When traveling, layers are the way to go, though it gets tricky traveling from the northeast in winter to the sunny Caribbean. But soooooo worth the trip!
    I’m with you on going for comfort first. If the house is freezing, warmth comes WAY ahead of looking fashionable. *G*

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  33. Vicki–
    When traveling, layers are the way to go, though it gets tricky traveling from the northeast in winter to the sunny Caribbean. But soooooo worth the trip!
    I’m with you on going for comfort first. If the house is freezing, warmth comes WAY ahead of looking fashionable. *G*

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  34. Vicki–
    When traveling, layers are the way to go, though it gets tricky traveling from the northeast in winter to the sunny Caribbean. But soooooo worth the trip!
    I’m with you on going for comfort first. If the house is freezing, warmth comes WAY ahead of looking fashionable. *G*

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  35. Vicki–
    When traveling, layers are the way to go, though it gets tricky traveling from the northeast in winter to the sunny Caribbean. But soooooo worth the trip!
    I’m with you on going for comfort first. If the house is freezing, warmth comes WAY ahead of looking fashionable. *G*

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  36. Mary M–
    You are absolutely right about both of those. *G* Yet like a lemming unable to resist the lure of a cliff, I accept speaking invitations over and over again because I want people to become interested in my books.
    Actually, most writers become good speakers with a little practice because we’re good with words. BUt the terror never goes away.

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  37. Mary M–
    You are absolutely right about both of those. *G* Yet like a lemming unable to resist the lure of a cliff, I accept speaking invitations over and over again because I want people to become interested in my books.
    Actually, most writers become good speakers with a little practice because we’re good with words. BUt the terror never goes away.

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  38. Mary M–
    You are absolutely right about both of those. *G* Yet like a lemming unable to resist the lure of a cliff, I accept speaking invitations over and over again because I want people to become interested in my books.
    Actually, most writers become good speakers with a little practice because we’re good with words. BUt the terror never goes away.

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  39. Mary M–
    You are absolutely right about both of those. *G* Yet like a lemming unable to resist the lure of a cliff, I accept speaking invitations over and over again because I want people to become interested in my books.
    Actually, most writers become good speakers with a little practice because we’re good with words. BUt the terror never goes away.

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  40. Mary M–
    You are absolutely right about both of those. *G* Yet like a lemming unable to resist the lure of a cliff, I accept speaking invitations over and over again because I want people to become interested in my books.
    Actually, most writers become good speakers with a little practice because we’re good with words. BUt the terror never goes away.

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  41. Great blog! Yes, I recognize myself in the neurotic photo-taker. LOL! BTW, I learned that from on of my daughter’s fashion magazines and decided it was a great idea because my brain gets fried pretty fast at RWA. Can’t wait to see you there!

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  42. Great blog! Yes, I recognize myself in the neurotic photo-taker. LOL! BTW, I learned that from on of my daughter’s fashion magazines and decided it was a great idea because my brain gets fried pretty fast at RWA. Can’t wait to see you there!

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  43. Great blog! Yes, I recognize myself in the neurotic photo-taker. LOL! BTW, I learned that from on of my daughter’s fashion magazines and decided it was a great idea because my brain gets fried pretty fast at RWA. Can’t wait to see you there!

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  44. Great blog! Yes, I recognize myself in the neurotic photo-taker. LOL! BTW, I learned that from on of my daughter’s fashion magazines and decided it was a great idea because my brain gets fried pretty fast at RWA. Can’t wait to see you there!

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  45. Great blog! Yes, I recognize myself in the neurotic photo-taker. LOL! BTW, I learned that from on of my daughter’s fashion magazines and decided it was a great idea because my brain gets fried pretty fast at RWA. Can’t wait to see you there!

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  46. Nancy–
    This method may be just a tad obsessive, but it makes a whole lot of sense if one wants to be really well turned out. Particularly since at RWA, most everyone’s brains get fried out.

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  47. Nancy–
    This method may be just a tad obsessive, but it makes a whole lot of sense if one wants to be really well turned out. Particularly since at RWA, most everyone’s brains get fried out.

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  48. Nancy–
    This method may be just a tad obsessive, but it makes a whole lot of sense if one wants to be really well turned out. Particularly since at RWA, most everyone’s brains get fried out.

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  49. Nancy–
    This method may be just a tad obsessive, but it makes a whole lot of sense if one wants to be really well turned out. Particularly since at RWA, most everyone’s brains get fried out.

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  50. Nancy–
    This method may be just a tad obsessive, but it makes a whole lot of sense if one wants to be really well turned out. Particularly since at RWA, most everyone’s brains get fried out.

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  51. Ahh, travel and clothes. Some conferences are easier and more predictable than others. I’ve been at some where it was a business suit or a cocktail dress. Making sure the suits didn’t get wrinkled was a challenge. I bring heels, hoping all the while that I can get by with flats.
    Then there’s the business casual. I never know how casual, so I usually do separates with pretty jewelry. I can related to the jewelry! Of course, business casual sometimes is simply khakis and polos, so I’m overdressed.
    I always toss in a pair of shorts, a t-shirt, walking shoes, and a swimsuit. That way if the hotel has a fitness center, pool, or spa, I can sneak off for a half hour of me time.
    Good luck on your presentation. The thing about presenting is that in the end is that I have learned a great deal more about the subject, and I can always use that information at a later date.

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  52. Ahh, travel and clothes. Some conferences are easier and more predictable than others. I’ve been at some where it was a business suit or a cocktail dress. Making sure the suits didn’t get wrinkled was a challenge. I bring heels, hoping all the while that I can get by with flats.
    Then there’s the business casual. I never know how casual, so I usually do separates with pretty jewelry. I can related to the jewelry! Of course, business casual sometimes is simply khakis and polos, so I’m overdressed.
    I always toss in a pair of shorts, a t-shirt, walking shoes, and a swimsuit. That way if the hotel has a fitness center, pool, or spa, I can sneak off for a half hour of me time.
    Good luck on your presentation. The thing about presenting is that in the end is that I have learned a great deal more about the subject, and I can always use that information at a later date.

    Reply
  53. Ahh, travel and clothes. Some conferences are easier and more predictable than others. I’ve been at some where it was a business suit or a cocktail dress. Making sure the suits didn’t get wrinkled was a challenge. I bring heels, hoping all the while that I can get by with flats.
    Then there’s the business casual. I never know how casual, so I usually do separates with pretty jewelry. I can related to the jewelry! Of course, business casual sometimes is simply khakis and polos, so I’m overdressed.
    I always toss in a pair of shorts, a t-shirt, walking shoes, and a swimsuit. That way if the hotel has a fitness center, pool, or spa, I can sneak off for a half hour of me time.
    Good luck on your presentation. The thing about presenting is that in the end is that I have learned a great deal more about the subject, and I can always use that information at a later date.

    Reply
  54. Ahh, travel and clothes. Some conferences are easier and more predictable than others. I’ve been at some where it was a business suit or a cocktail dress. Making sure the suits didn’t get wrinkled was a challenge. I bring heels, hoping all the while that I can get by with flats.
    Then there’s the business casual. I never know how casual, so I usually do separates with pretty jewelry. I can related to the jewelry! Of course, business casual sometimes is simply khakis and polos, so I’m overdressed.
    I always toss in a pair of shorts, a t-shirt, walking shoes, and a swimsuit. That way if the hotel has a fitness center, pool, or spa, I can sneak off for a half hour of me time.
    Good luck on your presentation. The thing about presenting is that in the end is that I have learned a great deal more about the subject, and I can always use that information at a later date.

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  55. Ahh, travel and clothes. Some conferences are easier and more predictable than others. I’ve been at some where it was a business suit or a cocktail dress. Making sure the suits didn’t get wrinkled was a challenge. I bring heels, hoping all the while that I can get by with flats.
    Then there’s the business casual. I never know how casual, so I usually do separates with pretty jewelry. I can related to the jewelry! Of course, business casual sometimes is simply khakis and polos, so I’m overdressed.
    I always toss in a pair of shorts, a t-shirt, walking shoes, and a swimsuit. That way if the hotel has a fitness center, pool, or spa, I can sneak off for a half hour of me time.
    Good luck on your presentation. The thing about presenting is that in the end is that I have learned a great deal more about the subject, and I can always use that information at a later date.

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  56. I spent many, many years in Catholic school, so the uniform thing is second nature to me. I have my black knit pants (Chico travelers) and an assortment of tops plus a favorite blazer. I heard one romance writer speak who said she was careful to note her outfits so she didn’t repeat herself ever–even the next year! I’m fine with repeating myself. I figure it helps people remember who I am.
    Lol, Nancy Herkness. I recognized you, too. But I’m in awe of your organization. And you’ll look splendid at the RITAs!
    Mary Jo, I thoroughly enjoyed every time I’ve heard you speak. If you are indeed nervous, you hide it well.

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  57. I spent many, many years in Catholic school, so the uniform thing is second nature to me. I have my black knit pants (Chico travelers) and an assortment of tops plus a favorite blazer. I heard one romance writer speak who said she was careful to note her outfits so she didn’t repeat herself ever–even the next year! I’m fine with repeating myself. I figure it helps people remember who I am.
    Lol, Nancy Herkness. I recognized you, too. But I’m in awe of your organization. And you’ll look splendid at the RITAs!
    Mary Jo, I thoroughly enjoyed every time I’ve heard you speak. If you are indeed nervous, you hide it well.

    Reply
  58. I spent many, many years in Catholic school, so the uniform thing is second nature to me. I have my black knit pants (Chico travelers) and an assortment of tops plus a favorite blazer. I heard one romance writer speak who said she was careful to note her outfits so she didn’t repeat herself ever–even the next year! I’m fine with repeating myself. I figure it helps people remember who I am.
    Lol, Nancy Herkness. I recognized you, too. But I’m in awe of your organization. And you’ll look splendid at the RITAs!
    Mary Jo, I thoroughly enjoyed every time I’ve heard you speak. If you are indeed nervous, you hide it well.

    Reply
  59. I spent many, many years in Catholic school, so the uniform thing is second nature to me. I have my black knit pants (Chico travelers) and an assortment of tops plus a favorite blazer. I heard one romance writer speak who said she was careful to note her outfits so she didn’t repeat herself ever–even the next year! I’m fine with repeating myself. I figure it helps people remember who I am.
    Lol, Nancy Herkness. I recognized you, too. But I’m in awe of your organization. And you’ll look splendid at the RITAs!
    Mary Jo, I thoroughly enjoyed every time I’ve heard you speak. If you are indeed nervous, you hide it well.

    Reply
  60. I spent many, many years in Catholic school, so the uniform thing is second nature to me. I have my black knit pants (Chico travelers) and an assortment of tops plus a favorite blazer. I heard one romance writer speak who said she was careful to note her outfits so she didn’t repeat herself ever–even the next year! I’m fine with repeating myself. I figure it helps people remember who I am.
    Lol, Nancy Herkness. I recognized you, too. But I’m in awe of your organization. And you’ll look splendid at the RITAs!
    Mary Jo, I thoroughly enjoyed every time I’ve heard you speak. If you are indeed nervous, you hide it well.

    Reply
  61. Shannon–
    My sympathies on keeping business suits neat and having to wear heels. A nice thing about being a writer is that we have a wider range of dress options, and can even be sort of squirrely if we own it. My thing is avoiding panty hose. Knee highs I can deal with if necessary, but forget the pantyhose and high heels!
    Luckily, I’m not giving a presentation. After doing two last year, I decided I wanted to be really, really lowkey this year.

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  62. Shannon–
    My sympathies on keeping business suits neat and having to wear heels. A nice thing about being a writer is that we have a wider range of dress options, and can even be sort of squirrely if we own it. My thing is avoiding panty hose. Knee highs I can deal with if necessary, but forget the pantyhose and high heels!
    Luckily, I’m not giving a presentation. After doing two last year, I decided I wanted to be really, really lowkey this year.

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  63. Shannon–
    My sympathies on keeping business suits neat and having to wear heels. A nice thing about being a writer is that we have a wider range of dress options, and can even be sort of squirrely if we own it. My thing is avoiding panty hose. Knee highs I can deal with if necessary, but forget the pantyhose and high heels!
    Luckily, I’m not giving a presentation. After doing two last year, I decided I wanted to be really, really lowkey this year.

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  64. Shannon–
    My sympathies on keeping business suits neat and having to wear heels. A nice thing about being a writer is that we have a wider range of dress options, and can even be sort of squirrely if we own it. My thing is avoiding panty hose. Knee highs I can deal with if necessary, but forget the pantyhose and high heels!
    Luckily, I’m not giving a presentation. After doing two last year, I decided I wanted to be really, really lowkey this year.

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  65. Shannon–
    My sympathies on keeping business suits neat and having to wear heels. A nice thing about being a writer is that we have a wider range of dress options, and can even be sort of squirrely if we own it. My thing is avoiding panty hose. Knee highs I can deal with if necessary, but forget the pantyhose and high heels!
    Luckily, I’m not giving a presentation. After doing two last year, I decided I wanted to be really, really lowkey this year.

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  66. Sally–
    You’re right, it’s a uniform, and Chico’s is a good send. Add a great jacket to Traveler’s pants and top and you’re there. A fair number our sister writers do exactly that.
    I’m glad my public speaking nerves don’t show. I’ve learned that talking fast helps *G*, but I never get over being tied in knots before hand.
    See you in San Antone….!

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  67. Sally–
    You’re right, it’s a uniform, and Chico’s is a good send. Add a great jacket to Traveler’s pants and top and you’re there. A fair number our sister writers do exactly that.
    I’m glad my public speaking nerves don’t show. I’ve learned that talking fast helps *G*, but I never get over being tied in knots before hand.
    See you in San Antone….!

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  68. Sally–
    You’re right, it’s a uniform, and Chico’s is a good send. Add a great jacket to Traveler’s pants and top and you’re there. A fair number our sister writers do exactly that.
    I’m glad my public speaking nerves don’t show. I’ve learned that talking fast helps *G*, but I never get over being tied in knots before hand.
    See you in San Antone….!

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  69. Sally–
    You’re right, it’s a uniform, and Chico’s is a good send. Add a great jacket to Traveler’s pants and top and you’re there. A fair number our sister writers do exactly that.
    I’m glad my public speaking nerves don’t show. I’ve learned that talking fast helps *G*, but I never get over being tied in knots before hand.
    See you in San Antone….!

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  70. Sally–
    You’re right, it’s a uniform, and Chico’s is a good send. Add a great jacket to Traveler’s pants and top and you’re there. A fair number our sister writers do exactly that.
    I’m glad my public speaking nerves don’t show. I’ve learned that talking fast helps *G*, but I never get over being tied in knots before hand.
    See you in San Antone….!

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  71. I live just north of Austin so I have a ‘little’ experience with the Texas heat. I recommend layers so you can strip down to a sleeveless top when outside and add a jacket/sweater/any other warm blouse when indoors. 🙂
    I’m a jeans and t-shirt (or tank top) kinda girl so when I have to dress up it causes all sorts of stress. Don’t even try to get me into high heels — boots are the closest I willing get. I can only imagine the stress of dressing professionally AND speaking in front of a group – even when the group is adoring fans. 😀 I do wish I were able to get off work to make it to SA… Y’all have fun!!!

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  72. I live just north of Austin so I have a ‘little’ experience with the Texas heat. I recommend layers so you can strip down to a sleeveless top when outside and add a jacket/sweater/any other warm blouse when indoors. 🙂
    I’m a jeans and t-shirt (or tank top) kinda girl so when I have to dress up it causes all sorts of stress. Don’t even try to get me into high heels — boots are the closest I willing get. I can only imagine the stress of dressing professionally AND speaking in front of a group – even when the group is adoring fans. 😀 I do wish I were able to get off work to make it to SA… Y’all have fun!!!

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  73. I live just north of Austin so I have a ‘little’ experience with the Texas heat. I recommend layers so you can strip down to a sleeveless top when outside and add a jacket/sweater/any other warm blouse when indoors. 🙂
    I’m a jeans and t-shirt (or tank top) kinda girl so when I have to dress up it causes all sorts of stress. Don’t even try to get me into high heels — boots are the closest I willing get. I can only imagine the stress of dressing professionally AND speaking in front of a group – even when the group is adoring fans. 😀 I do wish I were able to get off work to make it to SA… Y’all have fun!!!

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  74. I live just north of Austin so I have a ‘little’ experience with the Texas heat. I recommend layers so you can strip down to a sleeveless top when outside and add a jacket/sweater/any other warm blouse when indoors. 🙂
    I’m a jeans and t-shirt (or tank top) kinda girl so when I have to dress up it causes all sorts of stress. Don’t even try to get me into high heels — boots are the closest I willing get. I can only imagine the stress of dressing professionally AND speaking in front of a group – even when the group is adoring fans. 😀 I do wish I were able to get off work to make it to SA… Y’all have fun!!!

    Reply
  75. I live just north of Austin so I have a ‘little’ experience with the Texas heat. I recommend layers so you can strip down to a sleeveless top when outside and add a jacket/sweater/any other warm blouse when indoors. 🙂
    I’m a jeans and t-shirt (or tank top) kinda girl so when I have to dress up it causes all sorts of stress. Don’t even try to get me into high heels — boots are the closest I willing get. I can only imagine the stress of dressing professionally AND speaking in front of a group – even when the group is adoring fans. 😀 I do wish I were able to get off work to make it to SA… Y’all have fun!!!

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  76. I usually think for a couple of days what I’m going to wear. Then I open the suitcase. What I think most is how the weather is going to be. I’m not very fond of jewelry, so that’s not a problem. I love dresses as they occupy very little space in the suitcase.
    In the end, I ask myself whether the place I’m going to has got a Zara shop, so I stop caring, because I know I can buy anything I would need in the last moment.

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  77. I usually think for a couple of days what I’m going to wear. Then I open the suitcase. What I think most is how the weather is going to be. I’m not very fond of jewelry, so that’s not a problem. I love dresses as they occupy very little space in the suitcase.
    In the end, I ask myself whether the place I’m going to has got a Zara shop, so I stop caring, because I know I can buy anything I would need in the last moment.

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  78. I usually think for a couple of days what I’m going to wear. Then I open the suitcase. What I think most is how the weather is going to be. I’m not very fond of jewelry, so that’s not a problem. I love dresses as they occupy very little space in the suitcase.
    In the end, I ask myself whether the place I’m going to has got a Zara shop, so I stop caring, because I know I can buy anything I would need in the last moment.

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  79. I usually think for a couple of days what I’m going to wear. Then I open the suitcase. What I think most is how the weather is going to be. I’m not very fond of jewelry, so that’s not a problem. I love dresses as they occupy very little space in the suitcase.
    In the end, I ask myself whether the place I’m going to has got a Zara shop, so I stop caring, because I know I can buy anything I would need in the last moment.

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  80. I usually think for a couple of days what I’m going to wear. Then I open the suitcase. What I think most is how the weather is going to be. I’m not very fond of jewelry, so that’s not a problem. I love dresses as they occupy very little space in the suitcase.
    In the end, I ask myself whether the place I’m going to has got a Zara shop, so I stop caring, because I know I can buy anything I would need in the last moment.

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  81. Mary Jo, what a delightful natter! I feel like I just had a cozy lunch with a good frirnd and we let our hair down a little and giggled a lot.
    I mostly giggled (and will snicker all day) about the thought of a Mary Kay and an RWA conference trying to blend. I have no doubt you had whimpering friends. And, oh, the horrors of Texas in the summer and the freeze/boil, repeat as needed experience.
    Thanks for a fun start to my day! And I hope you have even more fun at the conference than I had reading about it.
    Cheers, Faith

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  82. Mary Jo, what a delightful natter! I feel like I just had a cozy lunch with a good frirnd and we let our hair down a little and giggled a lot.
    I mostly giggled (and will snicker all day) about the thought of a Mary Kay and an RWA conference trying to blend. I have no doubt you had whimpering friends. And, oh, the horrors of Texas in the summer and the freeze/boil, repeat as needed experience.
    Thanks for a fun start to my day! And I hope you have even more fun at the conference than I had reading about it.
    Cheers, Faith

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  83. Mary Jo, what a delightful natter! I feel like I just had a cozy lunch with a good frirnd and we let our hair down a little and giggled a lot.
    I mostly giggled (and will snicker all day) about the thought of a Mary Kay and an RWA conference trying to blend. I have no doubt you had whimpering friends. And, oh, the horrors of Texas in the summer and the freeze/boil, repeat as needed experience.
    Thanks for a fun start to my day! And I hope you have even more fun at the conference than I had reading about it.
    Cheers, Faith

    Reply
  84. Mary Jo, what a delightful natter! I feel like I just had a cozy lunch with a good frirnd and we let our hair down a little and giggled a lot.
    I mostly giggled (and will snicker all day) about the thought of a Mary Kay and an RWA conference trying to blend. I have no doubt you had whimpering friends. And, oh, the horrors of Texas in the summer and the freeze/boil, repeat as needed experience.
    Thanks for a fun start to my day! And I hope you have even more fun at the conference than I had reading about it.
    Cheers, Faith

    Reply
  85. Mary Jo, what a delightful natter! I feel like I just had a cozy lunch with a good frirnd and we let our hair down a little and giggled a lot.
    I mostly giggled (and will snicker all day) about the thought of a Mary Kay and an RWA conference trying to blend. I have no doubt you had whimpering friends. And, oh, the horrors of Texas in the summer and the freeze/boil, repeat as needed experience.
    Thanks for a fun start to my day! And I hope you have even more fun at the conference than I had reading about it.
    Cheers, Faith

    Reply
  86. I haven’t worn heels for ages. I can’t quite go the bare leg/foot route at work but can tolerate knee highs.
    I am alays cold in air condiitoning so habitually carry a shawl or jacket or some wrap. I am accustomed to going from frozen air conditioning to scorching heat Atlanta buses are either freezing ir boiling and the airconditioning at work is trying to turn the place into Alaska — I even carried a sweater /light jacket around when I went to the club or grocery store in the Philippines.
    I once gave a talk at the mini conference of the BeauMonde, I bought two new summer suits for that conference, I managed to give the talk without too much stage fright as soon as I realized no one was listening.
    I have only been to two and a half conferences the one and a half were in Atlanta and the other was in Reno. The half was when I went to the Beau Monde conference and then came from work the other afternoons only to meet people because I hadn’t paid for the RWA conference.
    I am not a very formal dresser and can look just as much like an unmade bed as the others, but last year in Atlanta I saw some very casually dressed people. Extremely informal — I have to hope that they didn’t have an appointment with an editor or agent that day.
    Most of the attendees were dressed in such a manner that they could walk into a rather upscale restaurant and not be seated by the kitchen.

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  87. I haven’t worn heels for ages. I can’t quite go the bare leg/foot route at work but can tolerate knee highs.
    I am alays cold in air condiitoning so habitually carry a shawl or jacket or some wrap. I am accustomed to going from frozen air conditioning to scorching heat Atlanta buses are either freezing ir boiling and the airconditioning at work is trying to turn the place into Alaska — I even carried a sweater /light jacket around when I went to the club or grocery store in the Philippines.
    I once gave a talk at the mini conference of the BeauMonde, I bought two new summer suits for that conference, I managed to give the talk without too much stage fright as soon as I realized no one was listening.
    I have only been to two and a half conferences the one and a half were in Atlanta and the other was in Reno. The half was when I went to the Beau Monde conference and then came from work the other afternoons only to meet people because I hadn’t paid for the RWA conference.
    I am not a very formal dresser and can look just as much like an unmade bed as the others, but last year in Atlanta I saw some very casually dressed people. Extremely informal — I have to hope that they didn’t have an appointment with an editor or agent that day.
    Most of the attendees were dressed in such a manner that they could walk into a rather upscale restaurant and not be seated by the kitchen.

    Reply
  88. I haven’t worn heels for ages. I can’t quite go the bare leg/foot route at work but can tolerate knee highs.
    I am alays cold in air condiitoning so habitually carry a shawl or jacket or some wrap. I am accustomed to going from frozen air conditioning to scorching heat Atlanta buses are either freezing ir boiling and the airconditioning at work is trying to turn the place into Alaska — I even carried a sweater /light jacket around when I went to the club or grocery store in the Philippines.
    I once gave a talk at the mini conference of the BeauMonde, I bought two new summer suits for that conference, I managed to give the talk without too much stage fright as soon as I realized no one was listening.
    I have only been to two and a half conferences the one and a half were in Atlanta and the other was in Reno. The half was when I went to the Beau Monde conference and then came from work the other afternoons only to meet people because I hadn’t paid for the RWA conference.
    I am not a very formal dresser and can look just as much like an unmade bed as the others, but last year in Atlanta I saw some very casually dressed people. Extremely informal — I have to hope that they didn’t have an appointment with an editor or agent that day.
    Most of the attendees were dressed in such a manner that they could walk into a rather upscale restaurant and not be seated by the kitchen.

    Reply
  89. I haven’t worn heels for ages. I can’t quite go the bare leg/foot route at work but can tolerate knee highs.
    I am alays cold in air condiitoning so habitually carry a shawl or jacket or some wrap. I am accustomed to going from frozen air conditioning to scorching heat Atlanta buses are either freezing ir boiling and the airconditioning at work is trying to turn the place into Alaska — I even carried a sweater /light jacket around when I went to the club or grocery store in the Philippines.
    I once gave a talk at the mini conference of the BeauMonde, I bought two new summer suits for that conference, I managed to give the talk without too much stage fright as soon as I realized no one was listening.
    I have only been to two and a half conferences the one and a half were in Atlanta and the other was in Reno. The half was when I went to the Beau Monde conference and then came from work the other afternoons only to meet people because I hadn’t paid for the RWA conference.
    I am not a very formal dresser and can look just as much like an unmade bed as the others, but last year in Atlanta I saw some very casually dressed people. Extremely informal — I have to hope that they didn’t have an appointment with an editor or agent that day.
    Most of the attendees were dressed in such a manner that they could walk into a rather upscale restaurant and not be seated by the kitchen.

    Reply
  90. I haven’t worn heels for ages. I can’t quite go the bare leg/foot route at work but can tolerate knee highs.
    I am alays cold in air condiitoning so habitually carry a shawl or jacket or some wrap. I am accustomed to going from frozen air conditioning to scorching heat Atlanta buses are either freezing ir boiling and the airconditioning at work is trying to turn the place into Alaska — I even carried a sweater /light jacket around when I went to the club or grocery store in the Philippines.
    I once gave a talk at the mini conference of the BeauMonde, I bought two new summer suits for that conference, I managed to give the talk without too much stage fright as soon as I realized no one was listening.
    I have only been to two and a half conferences the one and a half were in Atlanta and the other was in Reno. The half was when I went to the Beau Monde conference and then came from work the other afternoons only to meet people because I hadn’t paid for the RWA conference.
    I am not a very formal dresser and can look just as much like an unmade bed as the others, but last year in Atlanta I saw some very casually dressed people. Extremely informal — I have to hope that they didn’t have an appointment with an editor or agent that day.
    Most of the attendees were dressed in such a manner that they could walk into a rather upscale restaurant and not be seated by the kitchen.

    Reply
  91. One of my closest friends travels with just a backpack, and the first time we went away together,and she unpacked this tiddly-tiny backpack in our room, I nearly passed out! It was like watching Mary Poppins unpack her carpetbag…There was a full capsule wardrobe, shoes,tops,dresses, underwear,all rolled and stowed away neatly,in this tiny bag. She even had room for a bottle of Pimms for the cocktail hour !
    I felt SO inadequate…but, I did have the last laugh, as I’d packed the tea & coffee, plus 2 boxes of Jaffa cakes 🙂

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  92. One of my closest friends travels with just a backpack, and the first time we went away together,and she unpacked this tiddly-tiny backpack in our room, I nearly passed out! It was like watching Mary Poppins unpack her carpetbag…There was a full capsule wardrobe, shoes,tops,dresses, underwear,all rolled and stowed away neatly,in this tiny bag. She even had room for a bottle of Pimms for the cocktail hour !
    I felt SO inadequate…but, I did have the last laugh, as I’d packed the tea & coffee, plus 2 boxes of Jaffa cakes 🙂

    Reply
  93. One of my closest friends travels with just a backpack, and the first time we went away together,and she unpacked this tiddly-tiny backpack in our room, I nearly passed out! It was like watching Mary Poppins unpack her carpetbag…There was a full capsule wardrobe, shoes,tops,dresses, underwear,all rolled and stowed away neatly,in this tiny bag. She even had room for a bottle of Pimms for the cocktail hour !
    I felt SO inadequate…but, I did have the last laugh, as I’d packed the tea & coffee, plus 2 boxes of Jaffa cakes 🙂

    Reply
  94. One of my closest friends travels with just a backpack, and the first time we went away together,and she unpacked this tiddly-tiny backpack in our room, I nearly passed out! It was like watching Mary Poppins unpack her carpetbag…There was a full capsule wardrobe, shoes,tops,dresses, underwear,all rolled and stowed away neatly,in this tiny bag. She even had room for a bottle of Pimms for the cocktail hour !
    I felt SO inadequate…but, I did have the last laugh, as I’d packed the tea & coffee, plus 2 boxes of Jaffa cakes 🙂

    Reply
  95. One of my closest friends travels with just a backpack, and the first time we went away together,and she unpacked this tiddly-tiny backpack in our room, I nearly passed out! It was like watching Mary Poppins unpack her carpetbag…There was a full capsule wardrobe, shoes,tops,dresses, underwear,all rolled and stowed away neatly,in this tiny bag. She even had room for a bottle of Pimms for the cocktail hour !
    I felt SO inadequate…but, I did have the last laugh, as I’d packed the tea & coffee, plus 2 boxes of Jaffa cakes 🙂

    Reply
  96. You’ve always looked pretty spiffy when I’ve seen you, Mary Jo! No conference for me this year (I’m in Las Vegas on vacation right now and hosting my daughter’s bridal shower back in Maine on the 26th), but I have half a closet full of “conference dresses” that I bought and will never wear in real life. Invariably when photographs are taken at signings, I’m wearing the same one, LOL. I hate shoes and shoes hate me, so going out in the world is always tricky.
    When RWA was in NYC, I remember walking several blocks to a restaurant in 100 degree weather (I exaggerate, but not by much) with my editor, thinking she must be grossed out by my “glow,” as my grandmother used to say. She was in her twenties, and I was not, and I had trouble keeping up with her!
    I’m stressing already what to pack next year. My goal is to stay cool and not glow, but I fear it’s a losing battle. Bring on the A/C!

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  97. You’ve always looked pretty spiffy when I’ve seen you, Mary Jo! No conference for me this year (I’m in Las Vegas on vacation right now and hosting my daughter’s bridal shower back in Maine on the 26th), but I have half a closet full of “conference dresses” that I bought and will never wear in real life. Invariably when photographs are taken at signings, I’m wearing the same one, LOL. I hate shoes and shoes hate me, so going out in the world is always tricky.
    When RWA was in NYC, I remember walking several blocks to a restaurant in 100 degree weather (I exaggerate, but not by much) with my editor, thinking she must be grossed out by my “glow,” as my grandmother used to say. She was in her twenties, and I was not, and I had trouble keeping up with her!
    I’m stressing already what to pack next year. My goal is to stay cool and not glow, but I fear it’s a losing battle. Bring on the A/C!

    Reply
  98. You’ve always looked pretty spiffy when I’ve seen you, Mary Jo! No conference for me this year (I’m in Las Vegas on vacation right now and hosting my daughter’s bridal shower back in Maine on the 26th), but I have half a closet full of “conference dresses” that I bought and will never wear in real life. Invariably when photographs are taken at signings, I’m wearing the same one, LOL. I hate shoes and shoes hate me, so going out in the world is always tricky.
    When RWA was in NYC, I remember walking several blocks to a restaurant in 100 degree weather (I exaggerate, but not by much) with my editor, thinking she must be grossed out by my “glow,” as my grandmother used to say. She was in her twenties, and I was not, and I had trouble keeping up with her!
    I’m stressing already what to pack next year. My goal is to stay cool and not glow, but I fear it’s a losing battle. Bring on the A/C!

    Reply
  99. You’ve always looked pretty spiffy when I’ve seen you, Mary Jo! No conference for me this year (I’m in Las Vegas on vacation right now and hosting my daughter’s bridal shower back in Maine on the 26th), but I have half a closet full of “conference dresses” that I bought and will never wear in real life. Invariably when photographs are taken at signings, I’m wearing the same one, LOL. I hate shoes and shoes hate me, so going out in the world is always tricky.
    When RWA was in NYC, I remember walking several blocks to a restaurant in 100 degree weather (I exaggerate, but not by much) with my editor, thinking she must be grossed out by my “glow,” as my grandmother used to say. She was in her twenties, and I was not, and I had trouble keeping up with her!
    I’m stressing already what to pack next year. My goal is to stay cool and not glow, but I fear it’s a losing battle. Bring on the A/C!

    Reply
  100. You’ve always looked pretty spiffy when I’ve seen you, Mary Jo! No conference for me this year (I’m in Las Vegas on vacation right now and hosting my daughter’s bridal shower back in Maine on the 26th), but I have half a closet full of “conference dresses” that I bought and will never wear in real life. Invariably when photographs are taken at signings, I’m wearing the same one, LOL. I hate shoes and shoes hate me, so going out in the world is always tricky.
    When RWA was in NYC, I remember walking several blocks to a restaurant in 100 degree weather (I exaggerate, but not by much) with my editor, thinking she must be grossed out by my “glow,” as my grandmother used to say. She was in her twenties, and I was not, and I had trouble keeping up with her!
    I’m stressing already what to pack next year. My goal is to stay cool and not glow, but I fear it’s a losing battle. Bring on the A/C!

    Reply
  101. I’ve learned to keep it simple. Layering for weather and indoor temperatures. Good black walking shoes that don’t look like orthopedics. The overall color is basic black but I add a little color with the blouse or jacket. The jewelry is gold or silver but again simple, just to pull an outfit together.

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  102. I’ve learned to keep it simple. Layering for weather and indoor temperatures. Good black walking shoes that don’t look like orthopedics. The overall color is basic black but I add a little color with the blouse or jacket. The jewelry is gold or silver but again simple, just to pull an outfit together.

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  103. I’ve learned to keep it simple. Layering for weather and indoor temperatures. Good black walking shoes that don’t look like orthopedics. The overall color is basic black but I add a little color with the blouse or jacket. The jewelry is gold or silver but again simple, just to pull an outfit together.

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  104. I’ve learned to keep it simple. Layering for weather and indoor temperatures. Good black walking shoes that don’t look like orthopedics. The overall color is basic black but I add a little color with the blouse or jacket. The jewelry is gold or silver but again simple, just to pull an outfit together.

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  105. I’ve learned to keep it simple. Layering for weather and indoor temperatures. Good black walking shoes that don’t look like orthopedics. The overall color is basic black but I add a little color with the blouse or jacket. The jewelry is gold or silver but again simple, just to pull an outfit together.

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  106. LOL! I remember that Dallas conference and the Mary Kay ladies. Unfortunately I had a bright pink blazer that I wore and they thought I was one of them! I, too, used to plan my outfits carefully. The biggest suitcase I ever checked was 75 lbs (pre-50 lbs. max luggage years) the year I was a Golden Heart nominee in Chicago. I think I carried 10 pairs of shoes with me.
    Now I opt for comfort, so I’ve made a shopping trip to Chico’s, Talbots and Coldwater Creek (the holy trinity for me). I’ll see y’all at the Literacy Signing.
    Oh, and don’t forget to have a drink in the Menger Hotel bar next to the Alamo. It’s where Teddy Roosevelt and his Rough Riders gathered before heading up San Juan Hill! And if you’re looking for handmade jewelry, check out the shops in La Villita. Lots of great artisans there.

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  107. LOL! I remember that Dallas conference and the Mary Kay ladies. Unfortunately I had a bright pink blazer that I wore and they thought I was one of them! I, too, used to plan my outfits carefully. The biggest suitcase I ever checked was 75 lbs (pre-50 lbs. max luggage years) the year I was a Golden Heart nominee in Chicago. I think I carried 10 pairs of shoes with me.
    Now I opt for comfort, so I’ve made a shopping trip to Chico’s, Talbots and Coldwater Creek (the holy trinity for me). I’ll see y’all at the Literacy Signing.
    Oh, and don’t forget to have a drink in the Menger Hotel bar next to the Alamo. It’s where Teddy Roosevelt and his Rough Riders gathered before heading up San Juan Hill! And if you’re looking for handmade jewelry, check out the shops in La Villita. Lots of great artisans there.

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  108. LOL! I remember that Dallas conference and the Mary Kay ladies. Unfortunately I had a bright pink blazer that I wore and they thought I was one of them! I, too, used to plan my outfits carefully. The biggest suitcase I ever checked was 75 lbs (pre-50 lbs. max luggage years) the year I was a Golden Heart nominee in Chicago. I think I carried 10 pairs of shoes with me.
    Now I opt for comfort, so I’ve made a shopping trip to Chico’s, Talbots and Coldwater Creek (the holy trinity for me). I’ll see y’all at the Literacy Signing.
    Oh, and don’t forget to have a drink in the Menger Hotel bar next to the Alamo. It’s where Teddy Roosevelt and his Rough Riders gathered before heading up San Juan Hill! And if you’re looking for handmade jewelry, check out the shops in La Villita. Lots of great artisans there.

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  109. LOL! I remember that Dallas conference and the Mary Kay ladies. Unfortunately I had a bright pink blazer that I wore and they thought I was one of them! I, too, used to plan my outfits carefully. The biggest suitcase I ever checked was 75 lbs (pre-50 lbs. max luggage years) the year I was a Golden Heart nominee in Chicago. I think I carried 10 pairs of shoes with me.
    Now I opt for comfort, so I’ve made a shopping trip to Chico’s, Talbots and Coldwater Creek (the holy trinity for me). I’ll see y’all at the Literacy Signing.
    Oh, and don’t forget to have a drink in the Menger Hotel bar next to the Alamo. It’s where Teddy Roosevelt and his Rough Riders gathered before heading up San Juan Hill! And if you’re looking for handmade jewelry, check out the shops in La Villita. Lots of great artisans there.

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  110. LOL! I remember that Dallas conference and the Mary Kay ladies. Unfortunately I had a bright pink blazer that I wore and they thought I was one of them! I, too, used to plan my outfits carefully. The biggest suitcase I ever checked was 75 lbs (pre-50 lbs. max luggage years) the year I was a Golden Heart nominee in Chicago. I think I carried 10 pairs of shoes with me.
    Now I opt for comfort, so I’ve made a shopping trip to Chico’s, Talbots and Coldwater Creek (the holy trinity for me). I’ll see y’all at the Literacy Signing.
    Oh, and don’t forget to have a drink in the Menger Hotel bar next to the Alamo. It’s where Teddy Roosevelt and his Rough Riders gathered before heading up San Juan Hill! And if you’re looking for handmade jewelry, check out the shops in La Villita. Lots of great artisans there.

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  111. Glenda–
    You’re right about the layers, but I have to be careful about exposing my pale Anglo skin to too much sun, even with sun screen. I have a wide brimmed hat and light weight shirts with sleeves, and a handbag large enough to hold a rolled up pashmina. Indoors, jackets are de rigeur.
    I’m so sorry you can’t make it to the RWA literacy signing, which is a great event for a great cause. Plus, you could meet 4 Wenches. *G*

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  112. Glenda–
    You’re right about the layers, but I have to be careful about exposing my pale Anglo skin to too much sun, even with sun screen. I have a wide brimmed hat and light weight shirts with sleeves, and a handbag large enough to hold a rolled up pashmina. Indoors, jackets are de rigeur.
    I’m so sorry you can’t make it to the RWA literacy signing, which is a great event for a great cause. Plus, you could meet 4 Wenches. *G*

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  113. Glenda–
    You’re right about the layers, but I have to be careful about exposing my pale Anglo skin to too much sun, even with sun screen. I have a wide brimmed hat and light weight shirts with sleeves, and a handbag large enough to hold a rolled up pashmina. Indoors, jackets are de rigeur.
    I’m so sorry you can’t make it to the RWA literacy signing, which is a great event for a great cause. Plus, you could meet 4 Wenches. *G*

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  114. Glenda–
    You’re right about the layers, but I have to be careful about exposing my pale Anglo skin to too much sun, even with sun screen. I have a wide brimmed hat and light weight shirts with sleeves, and a handbag large enough to hold a rolled up pashmina. Indoors, jackets are de rigeur.
    I’m so sorry you can’t make it to the RWA literacy signing, which is a great event for a great cause. Plus, you could meet 4 Wenches. *G*

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  115. Glenda–
    You’re right about the layers, but I have to be careful about exposing my pale Anglo skin to too much sun, even with sun screen. I have a wide brimmed hat and light weight shirts with sleeves, and a handbag large enough to hold a rolled up pashmina. Indoors, jackets are de rigeur.
    I’m so sorry you can’t make it to the RWA literacy signing, which is a great event for a great cause. Plus, you could meet 4 Wenches. *G*

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  116. Bona–
    It sounds like you have a much better handle on this than I do! I’ve never even been in a Zara shop, but since you like wearing dresses, it sounds like you’re ready to go already.
    Must look up Zara….

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  117. Bona–
    It sounds like you have a much better handle on this than I do! I’ve never even been in a Zara shop, but since you like wearing dresses, it sounds like you’re ready to go already.
    Must look up Zara….

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  118. Bona–
    It sounds like you have a much better handle on this than I do! I’ve never even been in a Zara shop, but since you like wearing dresses, it sounds like you’re ready to go already.
    Must look up Zara….

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  119. Bona–
    It sounds like you have a much better handle on this than I do! I’ve never even been in a Zara shop, but since you like wearing dresses, it sounds like you’re ready to go already.
    Must look up Zara….

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  120. Bona–
    It sounds like you have a much better handle on this than I do! I’ve never even been in a Zara shop, but since you like wearing dresses, it sounds like you’re ready to go already.
    Must look up Zara….

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  121. Faith, I’m glad you got a kick out of the post. *G* Good times…. The RWA meets Mary Kay was particularly fun–the battles of makeovers versus bookmarks for upcoming releases. *G*
    But for all the temperature terrors of Texas in July–I know that I will have a great time seeing friends. Thanks for the good wishes!

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  122. Faith, I’m glad you got a kick out of the post. *G* Good times…. The RWA meets Mary Kay was particularly fun–the battles of makeovers versus bookmarks for upcoming releases. *G*
    But for all the temperature terrors of Texas in July–I know that I will have a great time seeing friends. Thanks for the good wishes!

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  123. Faith, I’m glad you got a kick out of the post. *G* Good times…. The RWA meets Mary Kay was particularly fun–the battles of makeovers versus bookmarks for upcoming releases. *G*
    But for all the temperature terrors of Texas in July–I know that I will have a great time seeing friends. Thanks for the good wishes!

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  124. Faith, I’m glad you got a kick out of the post. *G* Good times…. The RWA meets Mary Kay was particularly fun–the battles of makeovers versus bookmarks for upcoming releases. *G*
    But for all the temperature terrors of Texas in July–I know that I will have a great time seeing friends. Thanks for the good wishes!

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  125. Faith, I’m glad you got a kick out of the post. *G* Good times…. The RWA meets Mary Kay was particularly fun–the battles of makeovers versus bookmarks for upcoming releases. *G*
    But for all the temperature terrors of Texas in July–I know that I will have a great time seeing friends. Thanks for the good wishes!

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  126. Nancy–I’m sure people were listening when you talked at the Beau Monde–you’re a LEGEND!
    It sounds like you’ve had to deal with the full gamut of temperature and clothese issues. I’m pretty sure the people you saw at the conference dressed casually were not going to appointments. People don’t go to conferences if they aren’t serious about their writing, so almost everyone goes with the professional look for the important events. For better or worse we are judged on our appearances.

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  127. Nancy–I’m sure people were listening when you talked at the Beau Monde–you’re a LEGEND!
    It sounds like you’ve had to deal with the full gamut of temperature and clothese issues. I’m pretty sure the people you saw at the conference dressed casually were not going to appointments. People don’t go to conferences if they aren’t serious about their writing, so almost everyone goes with the professional look for the important events. For better or worse we are judged on our appearances.

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  128. Nancy–I’m sure people were listening when you talked at the Beau Monde–you’re a LEGEND!
    It sounds like you’ve had to deal with the full gamut of temperature and clothese issues. I’m pretty sure the people you saw at the conference dressed casually were not going to appointments. People don’t go to conferences if they aren’t serious about their writing, so almost everyone goes with the professional look for the important events. For better or worse we are judged on our appearances.

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  129. Nancy–I’m sure people were listening when you talked at the Beau Monde–you’re a LEGEND!
    It sounds like you’ve had to deal with the full gamut of temperature and clothese issues. I’m pretty sure the people you saw at the conference dressed casually were not going to appointments. People don’t go to conferences if they aren’t serious about their writing, so almost everyone goes with the professional look for the important events. For better or worse we are judged on our appearances.

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  130. Nancy–I’m sure people were listening when you talked at the Beau Monde–you’re a LEGEND!
    It sounds like you’ve had to deal with the full gamut of temperature and clothese issues. I’m pretty sure the people you saw at the conference dressed casually were not going to appointments. People don’t go to conferences if they aren’t serious about their writing, so almost everyone goes with the professional look for the important events. For better or worse we are judged on our appearances.

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  131. Kate–
    I suspect the temperature contrasts have a lot to do coming home with colds, which is such a nuisance. Most public building have a/c set for men in pants and jackets, so women freeze. I HATE that.

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  132. Kate–
    I suspect the temperature contrasts have a lot to do coming home with colds, which is such a nuisance. Most public building have a/c set for men in pants and jackets, so women freeze. I HATE that.

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  133. Kate–
    I suspect the temperature contrasts have a lot to do coming home with colds, which is such a nuisance. Most public building have a/c set for men in pants and jackets, so women freeze. I HATE that.

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  134. Kate–
    I suspect the temperature contrasts have a lot to do coming home with colds, which is such a nuisance. Most public building have a/c set for men in pants and jackets, so women freeze. I HATE that.

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  135. Kate–
    I suspect the temperature contrasts have a lot to do coming home with colds, which is such a nuisance. Most public building have a/c set for men in pants and jackets, so women freeze. I HATE that.

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  136. Maggie–
    I’m sorry I won’t get to see you there, but congratulations on your daughter’s upcoming wedding!
    Like you, I have Shoe Issues, which is one reason for wearing pants a lot.
    Also like you, I have a lot of conference clothes that will never wear out since I don’t wear them much. Luckily, I don’t much care if people notice that I wear the same things from year. (I’m more surprised that anyone even NOTICES!)

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  137. Maggie–
    I’m sorry I won’t get to see you there, but congratulations on your daughter’s upcoming wedding!
    Like you, I have Shoe Issues, which is one reason for wearing pants a lot.
    Also like you, I have a lot of conference clothes that will never wear out since I don’t wear them much. Luckily, I don’t much care if people notice that I wear the same things from year. (I’m more surprised that anyone even NOTICES!)

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  138. Maggie–
    I’m sorry I won’t get to see you there, but congratulations on your daughter’s upcoming wedding!
    Like you, I have Shoe Issues, which is one reason for wearing pants a lot.
    Also like you, I have a lot of conference clothes that will never wear out since I don’t wear them much. Luckily, I don’t much care if people notice that I wear the same things from year. (I’m more surprised that anyone even NOTICES!)

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  139. Maggie–
    I’m sorry I won’t get to see you there, but congratulations on your daughter’s upcoming wedding!
    Like you, I have Shoe Issues, which is one reason for wearing pants a lot.
    Also like you, I have a lot of conference clothes that will never wear out since I don’t wear them much. Luckily, I don’t much care if people notice that I wear the same things from year. (I’m more surprised that anyone even NOTICES!)

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  140. Maggie–
    I’m sorry I won’t get to see you there, but congratulations on your daughter’s upcoming wedding!
    Like you, I have Shoe Issues, which is one reason for wearing pants a lot.
    Also like you, I have a lot of conference clothes that will never wear out since I don’t wear them much. Luckily, I don’t much care if people notice that I wear the same things from year. (I’m more surprised that anyone even NOTICES!)

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  141. MJ–
    My sympathies on the bright pink blazer that made you look like a faded member of the flock!!!
    I’m mourning the demise of Coldwater Creek–I have a ton of stuff from them. Fortunately, Chico’s is still there for us.
    I actually stayed in the Menger once, many years ago at an RT convention. Lots of history!
    The shops at La Villita???? (Antenna go up!!!) I shall have to look for that–if the 100+ temperatures don’t make that impossible!

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  142. MJ–
    My sympathies on the bright pink blazer that made you look like a faded member of the flock!!!
    I’m mourning the demise of Coldwater Creek–I have a ton of stuff from them. Fortunately, Chico’s is still there for us.
    I actually stayed in the Menger once, many years ago at an RT convention. Lots of history!
    The shops at La Villita???? (Antenna go up!!!) I shall have to look for that–if the 100+ temperatures don’t make that impossible!

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  143. MJ–
    My sympathies on the bright pink blazer that made you look like a faded member of the flock!!!
    I’m mourning the demise of Coldwater Creek–I have a ton of stuff from them. Fortunately, Chico’s is still there for us.
    I actually stayed in the Menger once, many years ago at an RT convention. Lots of history!
    The shops at La Villita???? (Antenna go up!!!) I shall have to look for that–if the 100+ temperatures don’t make that impossible!

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  144. MJ–
    My sympathies on the bright pink blazer that made you look like a faded member of the flock!!!
    I’m mourning the demise of Coldwater Creek–I have a ton of stuff from them. Fortunately, Chico’s is still there for us.
    I actually stayed in the Menger once, many years ago at an RT convention. Lots of history!
    The shops at La Villita???? (Antenna go up!!!) I shall have to look for that–if the 100+ temperatures don’t make that impossible!

    Reply
  145. MJ–
    My sympathies on the bright pink blazer that made you look like a faded member of the flock!!!
    I’m mourning the demise of Coldwater Creek–I have a ton of stuff from them. Fortunately, Chico’s is still there for us.
    I actually stayed in the Menger once, many years ago at an RT convention. Lots of history!
    The shops at La Villita???? (Antenna go up!!!) I shall have to look for that–if the 100+ temperatures don’t make that impossible!

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  146. I am glad I am not the only one with shopping phobia. I either hate everything, nothing fits or what I do find has a price tag that makes me faint. I recently needed dressy cocktail dresses for a conference. I fortunately have a 21 year old fashionista daughter who dragged me to the mall and found 2 fantastic cocktail dresses that fit, looked great and were on sale! I wish I could lend her to all of you. Enjoy the RWA conference.

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  147. I am glad I am not the only one with shopping phobia. I either hate everything, nothing fits or what I do find has a price tag that makes me faint. I recently needed dressy cocktail dresses for a conference. I fortunately have a 21 year old fashionista daughter who dragged me to the mall and found 2 fantastic cocktail dresses that fit, looked great and were on sale! I wish I could lend her to all of you. Enjoy the RWA conference.

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  148. I am glad I am not the only one with shopping phobia. I either hate everything, nothing fits or what I do find has a price tag that makes me faint. I recently needed dressy cocktail dresses for a conference. I fortunately have a 21 year old fashionista daughter who dragged me to the mall and found 2 fantastic cocktail dresses that fit, looked great and were on sale! I wish I could lend her to all of you. Enjoy the RWA conference.

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  149. I am glad I am not the only one with shopping phobia. I either hate everything, nothing fits or what I do find has a price tag that makes me faint. I recently needed dressy cocktail dresses for a conference. I fortunately have a 21 year old fashionista daughter who dragged me to the mall and found 2 fantastic cocktail dresses that fit, looked great and were on sale! I wish I could lend her to all of you. Enjoy the RWA conference.

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  150. I am glad I am not the only one with shopping phobia. I either hate everything, nothing fits or what I do find has a price tag that makes me faint. I recently needed dressy cocktail dresses for a conference. I fortunately have a 21 year old fashionista daughter who dragged me to the mall and found 2 fantastic cocktail dresses that fit, looked great and were on sale! I wish I could lend her to all of you. Enjoy the RWA conference.

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  151. I highly recommend layers in cotton and linen knits for day. Silk is too hot for the outdoors in San Antonio right now, and you can leave any polyester at home. Light Raymond, tercel & modal can work with the cotton & linen knits.
    Bring a shawl for the overly air conditioned restaurants, etc.
    Open toed shoes & sandals help, too.
    Skirts are good, if they flow. They can feel cooler than trousers.
    That’s all she wrote!

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  152. I highly recommend layers in cotton and linen knits for day. Silk is too hot for the outdoors in San Antonio right now, and you can leave any polyester at home. Light Raymond, tercel & modal can work with the cotton & linen knits.
    Bring a shawl for the overly air conditioned restaurants, etc.
    Open toed shoes & sandals help, too.
    Skirts are good, if they flow. They can feel cooler than trousers.
    That’s all she wrote!

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  153. I highly recommend layers in cotton and linen knits for day. Silk is too hot for the outdoors in San Antonio right now, and you can leave any polyester at home. Light Raymond, tercel & modal can work with the cotton & linen knits.
    Bring a shawl for the overly air conditioned restaurants, etc.
    Open toed shoes & sandals help, too.
    Skirts are good, if they flow. They can feel cooler than trousers.
    That’s all she wrote!

    Reply
  154. I highly recommend layers in cotton and linen knits for day. Silk is too hot for the outdoors in San Antonio right now, and you can leave any polyester at home. Light Raymond, tercel & modal can work with the cotton & linen knits.
    Bring a shawl for the overly air conditioned restaurants, etc.
    Open toed shoes & sandals help, too.
    Skirts are good, if they flow. They can feel cooler than trousers.
    That’s all she wrote!

    Reply
  155. I highly recommend layers in cotton and linen knits for day. Silk is too hot for the outdoors in San Antonio right now, and you can leave any polyester at home. Light Raymond, tercel & modal can work with the cotton & linen knits.
    Bring a shawl for the overly air conditioned restaurants, etc.
    Open toed shoes & sandals help, too.
    Skirts are good, if they flow. They can feel cooler than trousers.
    That’s all she wrote!

    Reply
  156. Lenore–
    I figured out that auto-correct. *G* You’re so right about cotton and linen–natural fabrics are the coolest. I usually go for cotton since I can make linen even wrinklier than usual, but it’s a good fabric. Unfortunately, a lot of the travel clothes are synthetic, which is -not- good in killer heat. My big ol’ all purpose handbag has room for a shawl at the bottom, and I’ll make sure I have one ready to hand. I might even wear a skirt! Cotton, of coursen *G*

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  157. Lenore–
    I figured out that auto-correct. *G* You’re so right about cotton and linen–natural fabrics are the coolest. I usually go for cotton since I can make linen even wrinklier than usual, but it’s a good fabric. Unfortunately, a lot of the travel clothes are synthetic, which is -not- good in killer heat. My big ol’ all purpose handbag has room for a shawl at the bottom, and I’ll make sure I have one ready to hand. I might even wear a skirt! Cotton, of coursen *G*

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  158. Lenore–
    I figured out that auto-correct. *G* You’re so right about cotton and linen–natural fabrics are the coolest. I usually go for cotton since I can make linen even wrinklier than usual, but it’s a good fabric. Unfortunately, a lot of the travel clothes are synthetic, which is -not- good in killer heat. My big ol’ all purpose handbag has room for a shawl at the bottom, and I’ll make sure I have one ready to hand. I might even wear a skirt! Cotton, of coursen *G*

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  159. Lenore–
    I figured out that auto-correct. *G* You’re so right about cotton and linen–natural fabrics are the coolest. I usually go for cotton since I can make linen even wrinklier than usual, but it’s a good fabric. Unfortunately, a lot of the travel clothes are synthetic, which is -not- good in killer heat. My big ol’ all purpose handbag has room for a shawl at the bottom, and I’ll make sure I have one ready to hand. I might even wear a skirt! Cotton, of coursen *G*

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  160. Lenore–
    I figured out that auto-correct. *G* You’re so right about cotton and linen–natural fabrics are the coolest. I usually go for cotton since I can make linen even wrinklier than usual, but it’s a good fabric. Unfortunately, a lot of the travel clothes are synthetic, which is -not- good in killer heat. My big ol’ all purpose handbag has room for a shawl at the bottom, and I’ll make sure I have one ready to hand. I might even wear a skirt! Cotton, of coursen *G*

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  161. Great post, Mary Jo, and so so true! I am very excited about the conference and have bought several new outfits and a gorgeous heart shaped necklace to wear to the RITAs. I will almost certainly over-pack in order to make sure I don’t run out of clothes and will incur excess baggage costs as a result!
    I remember those Mary Kay ladies in Dallas. They were scary! I also remember a UK RNA conference that took place at the same venue as a meeting of parents of gifted and talented children. When you met up in the coffee cue people would ask if you were gifted and talented! What can one modestly answer to that?

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  162. Great post, Mary Jo, and so so true! I am very excited about the conference and have bought several new outfits and a gorgeous heart shaped necklace to wear to the RITAs. I will almost certainly over-pack in order to make sure I don’t run out of clothes and will incur excess baggage costs as a result!
    I remember those Mary Kay ladies in Dallas. They were scary! I also remember a UK RNA conference that took place at the same venue as a meeting of parents of gifted and talented children. When you met up in the coffee cue people would ask if you were gifted and talented! What can one modestly answer to that?

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  163. Great post, Mary Jo, and so so true! I am very excited about the conference and have bought several new outfits and a gorgeous heart shaped necklace to wear to the RITAs. I will almost certainly over-pack in order to make sure I don’t run out of clothes and will incur excess baggage costs as a result!
    I remember those Mary Kay ladies in Dallas. They were scary! I also remember a UK RNA conference that took place at the same venue as a meeting of parents of gifted and talented children. When you met up in the coffee cue people would ask if you were gifted and talented! What can one modestly answer to that?

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  164. Great post, Mary Jo, and so so true! I am very excited about the conference and have bought several new outfits and a gorgeous heart shaped necklace to wear to the RITAs. I will almost certainly over-pack in order to make sure I don’t run out of clothes and will incur excess baggage costs as a result!
    I remember those Mary Kay ladies in Dallas. They were scary! I also remember a UK RNA conference that took place at the same venue as a meeting of parents of gifted and talented children. When you met up in the coffee cue people would ask if you were gifted and talented! What can one modestly answer to that?

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  165. Great post, Mary Jo, and so so true! I am very excited about the conference and have bought several new outfits and a gorgeous heart shaped necklace to wear to the RITAs. I will almost certainly over-pack in order to make sure I don’t run out of clothes and will incur excess baggage costs as a result!
    I remember those Mary Kay ladies in Dallas. They were scary! I also remember a UK RNA conference that took place at the same venue as a meeting of parents of gifted and talented children. When you met up in the coffee cue people would ask if you were gifted and talented! What can one modestly answer to that?

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  166. I loved this post!! I have a method to dressing for conferences. I bring pretty much the same clothing each year. This year I may vary as I can fit into some clothes I haven’t been able to since I started writing. Jewelry is more of a challenge. Last year a very long freshwater pearl necklace broke and I had it redone so it is now in three pieces. I’m bound and determined to wear them at least once. I also had to have my Regency gown taken in (Yey!!)so that might look a bit different as well. I can’t wait to see you there!

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  167. I loved this post!! I have a method to dressing for conferences. I bring pretty much the same clothing each year. This year I may vary as I can fit into some clothes I haven’t been able to since I started writing. Jewelry is more of a challenge. Last year a very long freshwater pearl necklace broke and I had it redone so it is now in three pieces. I’m bound and determined to wear them at least once. I also had to have my Regency gown taken in (Yey!!)so that might look a bit different as well. I can’t wait to see you there!

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  168. I loved this post!! I have a method to dressing for conferences. I bring pretty much the same clothing each year. This year I may vary as I can fit into some clothes I haven’t been able to since I started writing. Jewelry is more of a challenge. Last year a very long freshwater pearl necklace broke and I had it redone so it is now in three pieces. I’m bound and determined to wear them at least once. I also had to have my Regency gown taken in (Yey!!)so that might look a bit different as well. I can’t wait to see you there!

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  169. I loved this post!! I have a method to dressing for conferences. I bring pretty much the same clothing each year. This year I may vary as I can fit into some clothes I haven’t been able to since I started writing. Jewelry is more of a challenge. Last year a very long freshwater pearl necklace broke and I had it redone so it is now in three pieces. I’m bound and determined to wear them at least once. I also had to have my Regency gown taken in (Yey!!)so that might look a bit different as well. I can’t wait to see you there!

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  170. I loved this post!! I have a method to dressing for conferences. I bring pretty much the same clothing each year. This year I may vary as I can fit into some clothes I haven’t been able to since I started writing. Jewelry is more of a challenge. Last year a very long freshwater pearl necklace broke and I had it redone so it is now in three pieces. I’m bound and determined to wear them at least once. I also had to have my Regency gown taken in (Yey!!)so that might look a bit different as well. I can’t wait to see you there!

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  171. I used to get dressed up for work every day. things like black skirt suits, brocade skirts with cute little matching jackets….
    But now I wear jeans and tees. I usually don’t even bother with shoes or socks.
    But if I had an excuse to get all dressed up, I would.

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  172. I used to get dressed up for work every day. things like black skirt suits, brocade skirts with cute little matching jackets….
    But now I wear jeans and tees. I usually don’t even bother with shoes or socks.
    But if I had an excuse to get all dressed up, I would.

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  173. I used to get dressed up for work every day. things like black skirt suits, brocade skirts with cute little matching jackets….
    But now I wear jeans and tees. I usually don’t even bother with shoes or socks.
    But if I had an excuse to get all dressed up, I would.

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  174. I used to get dressed up for work every day. things like black skirt suits, brocade skirts with cute little matching jackets….
    But now I wear jeans and tees. I usually don’t even bother with shoes or socks.
    But if I had an excuse to get all dressed up, I would.

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  175. I used to get dressed up for work every day. things like black skirt suits, brocade skirts with cute little matching jackets….
    But now I wear jeans and tees. I usually don’t even bother with shoes or socks.
    But if I had an excuse to get all dressed up, I would.

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  176. Hey Mary Jo, the last time I saw you, Patricia Rice, you and I were having breakfast at the New Orleans airport on our way home from RT. I elected to bring two white skirts and two white pairs of pants with mix and match tops for conference events and night time events. I hope in all the craziness of the conference I get to say hello to you.

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  177. Hey Mary Jo, the last time I saw you, Patricia Rice, you and I were having breakfast at the New Orleans airport on our way home from RT. I elected to bring two white skirts and two white pairs of pants with mix and match tops for conference events and night time events. I hope in all the craziness of the conference I get to say hello to you.

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  178. Hey Mary Jo, the last time I saw you, Patricia Rice, you and I were having breakfast at the New Orleans airport on our way home from RT. I elected to bring two white skirts and two white pairs of pants with mix and match tops for conference events and night time events. I hope in all the craziness of the conference I get to say hello to you.

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  179. Hey Mary Jo, the last time I saw you, Patricia Rice, you and I were having breakfast at the New Orleans airport on our way home from RT. I elected to bring two white skirts and two white pairs of pants with mix and match tops for conference events and night time events. I hope in all the craziness of the conference I get to say hello to you.

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  180. Hey Mary Jo, the last time I saw you, Patricia Rice, you and I were having breakfast at the New Orleans airport on our way home from RT. I elected to bring two white skirts and two white pairs of pants with mix and match tops for conference events and night time events. I hope in all the craziness of the conference I get to say hello to you.

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  181. LOL! I certainly hope you admitted to being gifted and talented, Nicola, because you are. *G* I look forward to seeing the necklace and rest of your spiffy self at the RITA ceremony.

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  182. LOL! I certainly hope you admitted to being gifted and talented, Nicola, because you are. *G* I look forward to seeing the necklace and rest of your spiffy self at the RITA ceremony.

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  183. LOL! I certainly hope you admitted to being gifted and talented, Nicola, because you are. *G* I look forward to seeing the necklace and rest of your spiffy self at the RITA ceremony.

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  184. LOL! I certainly hope you admitted to being gifted and talented, Nicola, because you are. *G* I look forward to seeing the necklace and rest of your spiffy self at the RITA ceremony.

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  185. LOL! I certainly hope you admitted to being gifted and talented, Nicola, because you are. *G* I look forward to seeing the necklace and rest of your spiffy self at the RITA ceremony.

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  186. Ella–
    How nice to have to have your clothing taken in! So much nicer to do that than have to buy new clothing in a larger size. *G* I hope I get to see you in your Regency gown and pearls, m’lady!

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  187. Ella–
    How nice to have to have your clothing taken in! So much nicer to do that than have to buy new clothing in a larger size. *G* I hope I get to see you in your Regency gown and pearls, m’lady!

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  188. Ella–
    How nice to have to have your clothing taken in! So much nicer to do that than have to buy new clothing in a larger size. *G* I hope I get to see you in your Regency gown and pearls, m’lady!

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  189. Ella–
    How nice to have to have your clothing taken in! So much nicer to do that than have to buy new clothing in a larger size. *G* I hope I get to see you in your Regency gown and pearls, m’lady!

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  190. Ella–
    How nice to have to have your clothing taken in! So much nicer to do that than have to buy new clothing in a larger size. *G* I hope I get to see you in your Regency gown and pearls, m’lady!

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  191. Soft, flowy, layers. That’s my motto. Sleeveless dress and pretty jacket to toss over it when the rooms are cold, tuck into my purse when the heat takes over. I’m short so want to wear heels, and find wedges hold up to standing–something that happens a lot–better than spikes. Jewelry? I like bling. Enough said. On Thursday, when who knows what the evening will bring for entertainment, I have a boring black dress I can dress up with a silk jacket for day and even more dress up with a silver jacket for evening. Mind you, my purse is big enough to roll these things up and tuck them inside it in the event I don’t get back to my room, always dubious with staying in an off site hotel. Everything, including my evening wear, is at the least wrinkle resistent, except for my Regency costume for the signing and soiree.

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  192. Soft, flowy, layers. That’s my motto. Sleeveless dress and pretty jacket to toss over it when the rooms are cold, tuck into my purse when the heat takes over. I’m short so want to wear heels, and find wedges hold up to standing–something that happens a lot–better than spikes. Jewelry? I like bling. Enough said. On Thursday, when who knows what the evening will bring for entertainment, I have a boring black dress I can dress up with a silk jacket for day and even more dress up with a silver jacket for evening. Mind you, my purse is big enough to roll these things up and tuck them inside it in the event I don’t get back to my room, always dubious with staying in an off site hotel. Everything, including my evening wear, is at the least wrinkle resistent, except for my Regency costume for the signing and soiree.

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  193. Soft, flowy, layers. That’s my motto. Sleeveless dress and pretty jacket to toss over it when the rooms are cold, tuck into my purse when the heat takes over. I’m short so want to wear heels, and find wedges hold up to standing–something that happens a lot–better than spikes. Jewelry? I like bling. Enough said. On Thursday, when who knows what the evening will bring for entertainment, I have a boring black dress I can dress up with a silk jacket for day and even more dress up with a silver jacket for evening. Mind you, my purse is big enough to roll these things up and tuck them inside it in the event I don’t get back to my room, always dubious with staying in an off site hotel. Everything, including my evening wear, is at the least wrinkle resistent, except for my Regency costume for the signing and soiree.

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  194. Soft, flowy, layers. That’s my motto. Sleeveless dress and pretty jacket to toss over it when the rooms are cold, tuck into my purse when the heat takes over. I’m short so want to wear heels, and find wedges hold up to standing–something that happens a lot–better than spikes. Jewelry? I like bling. Enough said. On Thursday, when who knows what the evening will bring for entertainment, I have a boring black dress I can dress up with a silk jacket for day and even more dress up with a silver jacket for evening. Mind you, my purse is big enough to roll these things up and tuck them inside it in the event I don’t get back to my room, always dubious with staying in an off site hotel. Everything, including my evening wear, is at the least wrinkle resistent, except for my Regency costume for the signing and soiree.

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  195. Soft, flowy, layers. That’s my motto. Sleeveless dress and pretty jacket to toss over it when the rooms are cold, tuck into my purse when the heat takes over. I’m short so want to wear heels, and find wedges hold up to standing–something that happens a lot–better than spikes. Jewelry? I like bling. Enough said. On Thursday, when who knows what the evening will bring for entertainment, I have a boring black dress I can dress up with a silk jacket for day and even more dress up with a silver jacket for evening. Mind you, my purse is big enough to roll these things up and tuck them inside it in the event I don’t get back to my room, always dubious with staying in an off site hotel. Everything, including my evening wear, is at the least wrinkle resistent, except for my Regency costume for the signing and soiree.

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  196. Callie–
    I admire any woman who can make white her base conference color! There’s a reason why mine is black. *G* It so easy to NOT see people in the seething masses at the conference, but with luck, we’ll at least be able to say hi. If I don’t see you, have a GREAT conference!

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  197. Callie–
    I admire any woman who can make white her base conference color! There’s a reason why mine is black. *G* It so easy to NOT see people in the seething masses at the conference, but with luck, we’ll at least be able to say hi. If I don’t see you, have a GREAT conference!

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  198. Callie–
    I admire any woman who can make white her base conference color! There’s a reason why mine is black. *G* It so easy to NOT see people in the seething masses at the conference, but with luck, we’ll at least be able to say hi. If I don’t see you, have a GREAT conference!

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  199. Callie–
    I admire any woman who can make white her base conference color! There’s a reason why mine is black. *G* It so easy to NOT see people in the seething masses at the conference, but with luck, we’ll at least be able to say hi. If I don’t see you, have a GREAT conference!

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  200. Callie–
    I admire any woman who can make white her base conference color! There’s a reason why mine is black. *G* It so easy to NOT see people in the seething masses at the conference, but with luck, we’ll at least be able to say hi. If I don’t see you, have a GREAT conference!

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  201. Laurie–
    Having seen you in your soft, floating layers, I know you do it well, and it’s comfortable as well. Like you, I have a purse that will hold a roll up shawl or other light garment–it’s good to have our layers at hand!

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  202. Laurie–
    Having seen you in your soft, floating layers, I know you do it well, and it’s comfortable as well. Like you, I have a purse that will hold a roll up shawl or other light garment–it’s good to have our layers at hand!

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  203. Laurie–
    Having seen you in your soft, floating layers, I know you do it well, and it’s comfortable as well. Like you, I have a purse that will hold a roll up shawl or other light garment–it’s good to have our layers at hand!

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  204. Laurie–
    Having seen you in your soft, floating layers, I know you do it well, and it’s comfortable as well. Like you, I have a purse that will hold a roll up shawl or other light garment–it’s good to have our layers at hand!

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  205. Laurie–
    Having seen you in your soft, floating layers, I know you do it well, and it’s comfortable as well. Like you, I have a purse that will hold a roll up shawl or other light garment–it’s good to have our layers at hand!

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  206. Great fun blog, Mary Jo! I hope you include lots of pictures from RWA in a future blog – I can’t wait to see everyone’s spiffy outfits – and jewelry!!
    … and I definitely go with black as a base!
    And backpack. Sure. As a purse!
    Have fun at RWA, Mary Jo and all!

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  207. Great fun blog, Mary Jo! I hope you include lots of pictures from RWA in a future blog – I can’t wait to see everyone’s spiffy outfits – and jewelry!!
    … and I definitely go with black as a base!
    And backpack. Sure. As a purse!
    Have fun at RWA, Mary Jo and all!

    Reply
  208. Great fun blog, Mary Jo! I hope you include lots of pictures from RWA in a future blog – I can’t wait to see everyone’s spiffy outfits – and jewelry!!
    … and I definitely go with black as a base!
    And backpack. Sure. As a purse!
    Have fun at RWA, Mary Jo and all!

    Reply
  209. Great fun blog, Mary Jo! I hope you include lots of pictures from RWA in a future blog – I can’t wait to see everyone’s spiffy outfits – and jewelry!!
    … and I definitely go with black as a base!
    And backpack. Sure. As a purse!
    Have fun at RWA, Mary Jo and all!

    Reply
  210. Great fun blog, Mary Jo! I hope you include lots of pictures from RWA in a future blog – I can’t wait to see everyone’s spiffy outfits – and jewelry!!
    … and I definitely go with black as a base!
    And backpack. Sure. As a purse!
    Have fun at RWA, Mary Jo and all!

    Reply

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