Book-signings, anyone?

ChloeBoa Anne here, responding to quite an old question from one of our readers, MaryKatherine Kennedy, who wins one of my books for asking it. (Questions sent to the wenches never die, they just ripen until they hit the spot.) 

MaryKatherine sent this question: I'd like to know how authors at book-signings would like signees to behave.  I've only been to one book signing, and it was horrible.  I didn't know what to say so I didn't say anything – just got my book signed and left.  The bad thing is that I was the only one there with two tables of authors.  Now I have a phobia of book signings.

 MaryKatherine, I'm so sorry you were traumatised. But you've raised an excellent question. I haven't been to very many signings but I've learned a bit. And what follows is entirely my own opinion, so if other authors have a different point of view, I'd love them to post a comment. I've never had a solo book signing, but I've been one of two, and one of hundreds and everything in between. (None of these pictures is of me, by the way – my computer is at the shop, so I'm using photos from my website of a group signing I did with my friends.)Trish2

My very first ever book-signing was a bit crazy, because a friend of mine talked me into putting my name down for the Literacy Book-signing at RWA National. At that point (2000) I had no books out in the USA, but my first book (Gallant Waif, which had been published in the UK) was a finalist for the RITA Best First Book, and the National Readers Choice Award, which is why I was there. Luckily my UK editor came, and brought with her a pile of my second book (Tallie's Knight) so I at least had books to sell, even if nobody came.

I expected nobody to come. I was all set to sit and just people-watch, but as it happened, quite a few people came past to say hi — people who'd read my book in the competitions, people I'd got to know on-line – other authors, members of the Georgette Heyer group and others, various people from my publisher, and some people stopped to chat simply because they were nice people (and I probably looked pathetic <G>) 

So you don't have to buy a book to make an author happy. It's nice if you can but don't feel embarrassed if you don't want to buy one. If you want to wriggle out, say you already have it, and if they ask you what you thought of it, you can say you haven't read it yet. Signup

Most authors will still be happy if you just talk to them for a minute or two — ask them about their books or about writing or how they got their agent – or even what kind of a book you should get your great uncle whose birthday is tomorrow.

I attended a book-signing last year, and there were just two of us, sitting at a table at the entrance of the store with mounds of books in front of us looking hungry and expectant. A very scary sight for shoppers, I'm sure. It wasn't very well advertised, either, so not many people knew about it, and my book had already been out for several months so anyone I knew had already bought it.

So, how should you treat an author at a book signing? NZ

1) Smile — they're probably as nervous as you. 

2) Talk to them. There's nothing worse than sitting at a table not selling books,trying to look as though you're having the time of your life.
Say hi. Ask them questions. What sort of questions? Are they local? From out of town? How they got started writing, what the book's about, what's their favorite story, what's their favorite children's book? Do they write by pen or straight onto computer? What's the best/worst thing about being a writer. Ask whatever you like — with the bounds of politeness, of course. It's just conversation and being friendly.

3) If you've read any of their books, say so, but beware, it can get you into hot water. 
At my second RWA conference, I lined up at a Berkley signing to get a book signed by one of my favorite authors.  When I handed her the book to sign, she glanced at my name tag and said "Oh, Anne Gracie, I liked your book" or words to that effect.
It wiped my brain completely. Couldn't think of a thing to say.
"One of your books is an all time favorite keeper of mine," I blurted. It was true.   
"Oh, which one?" she asked. 
Of course I couldn't think of the title to save my life. Stood there like a dummy, no doubt turning bright red, but still grinning foolishly because Mary Jo Putney had liked my book!!! 
So be careful what you say.(The keeper book was Veils of Silk, by the way.)

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4) If they're giving out bookmarks or a pamphlet, take one.
 And don't throw them away in front of them.

Most of the book-signings I've attended are with a large group of authors, and they're easier. The book signing with just two of us — my friend Christine Darcas and I — was made both easier and more fun because a good friend of mine dropped by, as well as a representative from the Australian branch of my publisher, and they hung around, chatting and looking friendly, which I think decreased the slightly intimidating authors-in-waiting effect heaps. 

I didn't hassle anyone to buy. I think that's what people are afraid of, that they'll  get the hard sell "buy-my-book" routine. Not from me, and I suspect not from a lot of authors.  

I'd brought a pile of little mini books with excerpts of my books in them and my friend Alison wandered through the bookstore giving them out to people and chatting, which was brilliant.

Lots of people came up and chatted. I met a few people who'd read some of my books — they didn't buy anything, but I didn't care. I talked to some ladies about books for kids. I met some students doing a writing course, and they talked to me about writing. I got some fantasy recommendations from a couple of readers, and recommended some books myself. And once people saw a group standing around our table, talking, they came to listen, and some stayed to buy.

To my surprise, a number of the people I talked to ended up buying my books, not from my table, but from the store bookshelf well behind me, and after they'd been to the cash register, they  brought them over for me to sign. 

So if you see some author sitting at a table waiting to sign books, don't be afraid to wander over to talk to them. At the very least, it makes for an ice-breaker and might encourage others to wander over. You don't have to buy (see hints for wriggling out of buying, above) but it's nice to be a bit friendly. If you're the tongue-tied type, you can always just say "Hi, nice to meet you," and ask for an autograph. At the very least that author will leave thinking good things about the friendly people in your town or suburb.

So what about you? Have you ever been to a signing? Good or bad experiences? Have you met a favorite author? What happened?

 

155 thoughts on “Book-signings, anyone?”

  1. Hi Anne
    I have been to a few book signings now and have really enjoyed them although the first one I went to was down in Canberra to meet Stephanie Laurens at Intrigue Bookstore and I was so shy but she is so lovely and we ended up having a lovely conversation, and the other 3 that I have been to were at ARRA conventions and at RWA conference in Coogee very hectic but lots of fun for me.
    Have Fun
    Helen

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  2. Hi Anne
    I have been to a few book signings now and have really enjoyed them although the first one I went to was down in Canberra to meet Stephanie Laurens at Intrigue Bookstore and I was so shy but she is so lovely and we ended up having a lovely conversation, and the other 3 that I have been to were at ARRA conventions and at RWA conference in Coogee very hectic but lots of fun for me.
    Have Fun
    Helen

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  3. Hi Anne
    I have been to a few book signings now and have really enjoyed them although the first one I went to was down in Canberra to meet Stephanie Laurens at Intrigue Bookstore and I was so shy but she is so lovely and we ended up having a lovely conversation, and the other 3 that I have been to were at ARRA conventions and at RWA conference in Coogee very hectic but lots of fun for me.
    Have Fun
    Helen

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  4. Hi Anne
    I have been to a few book signings now and have really enjoyed them although the first one I went to was down in Canberra to meet Stephanie Laurens at Intrigue Bookstore and I was so shy but she is so lovely and we ended up having a lovely conversation, and the other 3 that I have been to were at ARRA conventions and at RWA conference in Coogee very hectic but lots of fun for me.
    Have Fun
    Helen

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  5. Hi Anne
    I have been to a few book signings now and have really enjoyed them although the first one I went to was down in Canberra to meet Stephanie Laurens at Intrigue Bookstore and I was so shy but she is so lovely and we ended up having a lovely conversation, and the other 3 that I have been to were at ARRA conventions and at RWA conference in Coogee very hectic but lots of fun for me.
    Have Fun
    Helen

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  6. Helen, I think that’s a good point — the first time is probably the hardest. Stephanie is lovely, isn’t she? Very easy to talk to.
    And you’re right, this signings at the Australian Romance Readers Convention and the one at the RWA conference are pretty hectic. Wait till you get to an RWA literacy signing! Huuuuuge. but fun.

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  7. Helen, I think that’s a good point — the first time is probably the hardest. Stephanie is lovely, isn’t she? Very easy to talk to.
    And you’re right, this signings at the Australian Romance Readers Convention and the one at the RWA conference are pretty hectic. Wait till you get to an RWA literacy signing! Huuuuuge. but fun.

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  8. Helen, I think that’s a good point — the first time is probably the hardest. Stephanie is lovely, isn’t she? Very easy to talk to.
    And you’re right, this signings at the Australian Romance Readers Convention and the one at the RWA conference are pretty hectic. Wait till you get to an RWA literacy signing! Huuuuuge. but fun.

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  9. Helen, I think that’s a good point — the first time is probably the hardest. Stephanie is lovely, isn’t she? Very easy to talk to.
    And you’re right, this signings at the Australian Romance Readers Convention and the one at the RWA conference are pretty hectic. Wait till you get to an RWA literacy signing! Huuuuuge. but fun.

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  10. Helen, I think that’s a good point — the first time is probably the hardest. Stephanie is lovely, isn’t she? Very easy to talk to.
    And you’re right, this signings at the Australian Romance Readers Convention and the one at the RWA conference are pretty hectic. Wait till you get to an RWA literacy signing! Huuuuuge. but fun.

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  11. Hi Anne, great post and good advice for all attending a book signing. I’ve attending 3 RWA National conference, and the Readers For Life Literary Signing at all 3. My first was very awkward – I’m shy to begin with, and the thought of meeting my favorite authors was really intimidating. By the third, I was able to greet and chat briefly with Mary Jo Putney, which was definitely a thrill.
    I’ve also done 3 signings of my own, though none were at a bookstore. Two were incredibly successful, one being at my local library, the other as a guest of a local women’s group. The third, at a store that sells Irish imports, was a little awkward (sitting at a table in a VERY quiet store), but I figure I sold 3 copies, so I was happy.
    Your post was timely for me, as I have a signing for my new book coming up at the end of this month, again at my local library. Hopefully, once I’ve done the reading, the butterflies will disappear and the copies will fly off the table! Thanks for a great post!

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  12. Hi Anne, great post and good advice for all attending a book signing. I’ve attending 3 RWA National conference, and the Readers For Life Literary Signing at all 3. My first was very awkward – I’m shy to begin with, and the thought of meeting my favorite authors was really intimidating. By the third, I was able to greet and chat briefly with Mary Jo Putney, which was definitely a thrill.
    I’ve also done 3 signings of my own, though none were at a bookstore. Two were incredibly successful, one being at my local library, the other as a guest of a local women’s group. The third, at a store that sells Irish imports, was a little awkward (sitting at a table in a VERY quiet store), but I figure I sold 3 copies, so I was happy.
    Your post was timely for me, as I have a signing for my new book coming up at the end of this month, again at my local library. Hopefully, once I’ve done the reading, the butterflies will disappear and the copies will fly off the table! Thanks for a great post!

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  13. Hi Anne, great post and good advice for all attending a book signing. I’ve attending 3 RWA National conference, and the Readers For Life Literary Signing at all 3. My first was very awkward – I’m shy to begin with, and the thought of meeting my favorite authors was really intimidating. By the third, I was able to greet and chat briefly with Mary Jo Putney, which was definitely a thrill.
    I’ve also done 3 signings of my own, though none were at a bookstore. Two were incredibly successful, one being at my local library, the other as a guest of a local women’s group. The third, at a store that sells Irish imports, was a little awkward (sitting at a table in a VERY quiet store), but I figure I sold 3 copies, so I was happy.
    Your post was timely for me, as I have a signing for my new book coming up at the end of this month, again at my local library. Hopefully, once I’ve done the reading, the butterflies will disappear and the copies will fly off the table! Thanks for a great post!

    Reply
  14. Hi Anne, great post and good advice for all attending a book signing. I’ve attending 3 RWA National conference, and the Readers For Life Literary Signing at all 3. My first was very awkward – I’m shy to begin with, and the thought of meeting my favorite authors was really intimidating. By the third, I was able to greet and chat briefly with Mary Jo Putney, which was definitely a thrill.
    I’ve also done 3 signings of my own, though none were at a bookstore. Two were incredibly successful, one being at my local library, the other as a guest of a local women’s group. The third, at a store that sells Irish imports, was a little awkward (sitting at a table in a VERY quiet store), but I figure I sold 3 copies, so I was happy.
    Your post was timely for me, as I have a signing for my new book coming up at the end of this month, again at my local library. Hopefully, once I’ve done the reading, the butterflies will disappear and the copies will fly off the table! Thanks for a great post!

    Reply
  15. Hi Anne, great post and good advice for all attending a book signing. I’ve attending 3 RWA National conference, and the Readers For Life Literary Signing at all 3. My first was very awkward – I’m shy to begin with, and the thought of meeting my favorite authors was really intimidating. By the third, I was able to greet and chat briefly with Mary Jo Putney, which was definitely a thrill.
    I’ve also done 3 signings of my own, though none were at a bookstore. Two were incredibly successful, one being at my local library, the other as a guest of a local women’s group. The third, at a store that sells Irish imports, was a little awkward (sitting at a table in a VERY quiet store), but I figure I sold 3 copies, so I was happy.
    Your post was timely for me, as I have a signing for my new book coming up at the end of this month, again at my local library. Hopefully, once I’ve done the reading, the butterflies will disappear and the copies will fly off the table! Thanks for a great post!

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  16. As an author I am so happy for human interaction after spending hours in ‘the cave’ writing. It’s wonderful to have someone express interest in the craft even if they don’t necessarily purchase your work. Anne, I’m happy to do another signing with you anytime! 😉

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  17. As an author I am so happy for human interaction after spending hours in ‘the cave’ writing. It’s wonderful to have someone express interest in the craft even if they don’t necessarily purchase your work. Anne, I’m happy to do another signing with you anytime! 😉

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  18. As an author I am so happy for human interaction after spending hours in ‘the cave’ writing. It’s wonderful to have someone express interest in the craft even if they don’t necessarily purchase your work. Anne, I’m happy to do another signing with you anytime! 😉

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  19. As an author I am so happy for human interaction after spending hours in ‘the cave’ writing. It’s wonderful to have someone express interest in the craft even if they don’t necessarily purchase your work. Anne, I’m happy to do another signing with you anytime! 😉

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  20. As an author I am so happy for human interaction after spending hours in ‘the cave’ writing. It’s wonderful to have someone express interest in the craft even if they don’t necessarily purchase your work. Anne, I’m happy to do another signing with you anytime! 😉

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  21. Cynthia, Mary Jo is very easy to talk to, isn’t she? At least if she doesn’t wipe your mind with unexpected compliments first.
    All the best of good luck with your signing. You’re very brave to do it on your own.
    And hey, if anyone is in New York at the end of June, come to the RWA Literacy signing and catch up with some wenches. Quite a few of us will be there — certainly I will be, if not with bells on (though you never know) certainly quite excited to be there.

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  22. Cynthia, Mary Jo is very easy to talk to, isn’t she? At least if she doesn’t wipe your mind with unexpected compliments first.
    All the best of good luck with your signing. You’re very brave to do it on your own.
    And hey, if anyone is in New York at the end of June, come to the RWA Literacy signing and catch up with some wenches. Quite a few of us will be there — certainly I will be, if not with bells on (though you never know) certainly quite excited to be there.

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  23. Cynthia, Mary Jo is very easy to talk to, isn’t she? At least if she doesn’t wipe your mind with unexpected compliments first.
    All the best of good luck with your signing. You’re very brave to do it on your own.
    And hey, if anyone is in New York at the end of June, come to the RWA Literacy signing and catch up with some wenches. Quite a few of us will be there — certainly I will be, if not with bells on (though you never know) certainly quite excited to be there.

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  24. Cynthia, Mary Jo is very easy to talk to, isn’t she? At least if she doesn’t wipe your mind with unexpected compliments first.
    All the best of good luck with your signing. You’re very brave to do it on your own.
    And hey, if anyone is in New York at the end of June, come to the RWA Literacy signing and catch up with some wenches. Quite a few of us will be there — certainly I will be, if not with bells on (though you never know) certainly quite excited to be there.

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  25. Cynthia, Mary Jo is very easy to talk to, isn’t she? At least if she doesn’t wipe your mind with unexpected compliments first.
    All the best of good luck with your signing. You’re very brave to do it on your own.
    And hey, if anyone is in New York at the end of June, come to the RWA Literacy signing and catch up with some wenches. Quite a few of us will be there — certainly I will be, if not with bells on (though you never know) certainly quite excited to be there.

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  26. Christine, I won’t say it wasn’t a little nerve-wracking at first, but we did end up having a lot of fun, didn’t we? And I’d do a signing with you, anyday as well.
    By the way, I just posted one of your ballroom dancing photos on face book. (Christine writes contemporary womens fiction with a dancing connection, and she also dances competition ballroom dancing)

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  27. Christine, I won’t say it wasn’t a little nerve-wracking at first, but we did end up having a lot of fun, didn’t we? And I’d do a signing with you, anyday as well.
    By the way, I just posted one of your ballroom dancing photos on face book. (Christine writes contemporary womens fiction with a dancing connection, and she also dances competition ballroom dancing)

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  28. Christine, I won’t say it wasn’t a little nerve-wracking at first, but we did end up having a lot of fun, didn’t we? And I’d do a signing with you, anyday as well.
    By the way, I just posted one of your ballroom dancing photos on face book. (Christine writes contemporary womens fiction with a dancing connection, and she also dances competition ballroom dancing)

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  29. Christine, I won’t say it wasn’t a little nerve-wracking at first, but we did end up having a lot of fun, didn’t we? And I’d do a signing with you, anyday as well.
    By the way, I just posted one of your ballroom dancing photos on face book. (Christine writes contemporary womens fiction with a dancing connection, and she also dances competition ballroom dancing)

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  30. Christine, I won’t say it wasn’t a little nerve-wracking at first, but we did end up having a lot of fun, didn’t we? And I’d do a signing with you, anyday as well.
    By the way, I just posted one of your ballroom dancing photos on face book. (Christine writes contemporary womens fiction with a dancing connection, and she also dances competition ballroom dancing)

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  31. I will be at the RWA book singing in NYC and thanks for all the wonderful tips! It’ s my first so I know I will be speaking gibberish and all agog with my favorite authors all in one place! This was a very helpful post and made me feel a little less nervous meeting all of you, thanks!

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  32. I will be at the RWA book singing in NYC and thanks for all the wonderful tips! It’ s my first so I know I will be speaking gibberish and all agog with my favorite authors all in one place! This was a very helpful post and made me feel a little less nervous meeting all of you, thanks!

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  33. I will be at the RWA book singing in NYC and thanks for all the wonderful tips! It’ s my first so I know I will be speaking gibberish and all agog with my favorite authors all in one place! This was a very helpful post and made me feel a little less nervous meeting all of you, thanks!

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  34. I will be at the RWA book singing in NYC and thanks for all the wonderful tips! It’ s my first so I know I will be speaking gibberish and all agog with my favorite authors all in one place! This was a very helpful post and made me feel a little less nervous meeting all of you, thanks!

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  35. I will be at the RWA book singing in NYC and thanks for all the wonderful tips! It’ s my first so I know I will be speaking gibberish and all agog with my favorite authors all in one place! This was a very helpful post and made me feel a little less nervous meeting all of you, thanks!

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  36. I admire you for doing signings. I have only done two and both were fun – at ARRC and the readers were fantastic, then one at the book launch, pictured above, which was made easy as I was amongst friends.
    I don’t think I’d be brave enough to do it alone. The tips are great!
    Carolx

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  37. I admire you for doing signings. I have only done two and both were fun – at ARRC and the readers were fantastic, then one at the book launch, pictured above, which was made easy as I was amongst friends.
    I don’t think I’d be brave enough to do it alone. The tips are great!
    Carolx

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  38. I admire you for doing signings. I have only done two and both were fun – at ARRC and the readers were fantastic, then one at the book launch, pictured above, which was made easy as I was amongst friends.
    I don’t think I’d be brave enough to do it alone. The tips are great!
    Carolx

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  39. I admire you for doing signings. I have only done two and both were fun – at ARRC and the readers were fantastic, then one at the book launch, pictured above, which was made easy as I was amongst friends.
    I don’t think I’d be brave enough to do it alone. The tips are great!
    Carolx

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  40. I admire you for doing signings. I have only done two and both were fun – at ARRC and the readers were fantastic, then one at the book launch, pictured above, which was made easy as I was amongst friends.
    I don’t think I’d be brave enough to do it alone. The tips are great!
    Carolx

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  41. Julie, what fun! Make sure you drop past and tell us you’re a wenchly reader — I’ll be looking forward to meeting you.
    Carol’s the dark-haired one in the second picture. It’s a lot of fun signing with a group — that was for a group anthology of short stories with recipes that we launched, and those of us who, live in Melbourne brought food. Carol baked hundreds of little lemon meringue pies — talk about brilliant! It was as much a party as a book signing.

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  42. Julie, what fun! Make sure you drop past and tell us you’re a wenchly reader — I’ll be looking forward to meeting you.
    Carol’s the dark-haired one in the second picture. It’s a lot of fun signing with a group — that was for a group anthology of short stories with recipes that we launched, and those of us who, live in Melbourne brought food. Carol baked hundreds of little lemon meringue pies — talk about brilliant! It was as much a party as a book signing.

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  43. Julie, what fun! Make sure you drop past and tell us you’re a wenchly reader — I’ll be looking forward to meeting you.
    Carol’s the dark-haired one in the second picture. It’s a lot of fun signing with a group — that was for a group anthology of short stories with recipes that we launched, and those of us who, live in Melbourne brought food. Carol baked hundreds of little lemon meringue pies — talk about brilliant! It was as much a party as a book signing.

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  44. Julie, what fun! Make sure you drop past and tell us you’re a wenchly reader — I’ll be looking forward to meeting you.
    Carol’s the dark-haired one in the second picture. It’s a lot of fun signing with a group — that was for a group anthology of short stories with recipes that we launched, and those of us who, live in Melbourne brought food. Carol baked hundreds of little lemon meringue pies — talk about brilliant! It was as much a party as a book signing.

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  45. Julie, what fun! Make sure you drop past and tell us you’re a wenchly reader — I’ll be looking forward to meeting you.
    Carol’s the dark-haired one in the second picture. It’s a lot of fun signing with a group — that was for a group anthology of short stories with recipes that we launched, and those of us who, live in Melbourne brought food. Carol baked hundreds of little lemon meringue pies — talk about brilliant! It was as much a party as a book signing.

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  46. LOL, Anne! I don’t remember you being awkward when we met and I complimented your book. I think you faked it well. *g*
    You’re right that someone who is friendly and chats a bit is very welcome–having them buy a book is optional.
    I’m not fond of the single author signings, where one sits like a very lonely toad on a log. The group signings are much nicer because one can chat with neighbors.
    The big RWA literacy signing in NYC in June will be a Wenchfest–buried among the hundreds of other authors, there will be six Wenches, I think. And zillions of books, and lots of money made for literacy! (The books are donated by publishers, so all sales go to literacy groups.)

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  47. LOL, Anne! I don’t remember you being awkward when we met and I complimented your book. I think you faked it well. *g*
    You’re right that someone who is friendly and chats a bit is very welcome–having them buy a book is optional.
    I’m not fond of the single author signings, where one sits like a very lonely toad on a log. The group signings are much nicer because one can chat with neighbors.
    The big RWA literacy signing in NYC in June will be a Wenchfest–buried among the hundreds of other authors, there will be six Wenches, I think. And zillions of books, and lots of money made for literacy! (The books are donated by publishers, so all sales go to literacy groups.)

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  48. LOL, Anne! I don’t remember you being awkward when we met and I complimented your book. I think you faked it well. *g*
    You’re right that someone who is friendly and chats a bit is very welcome–having them buy a book is optional.
    I’m not fond of the single author signings, where one sits like a very lonely toad on a log. The group signings are much nicer because one can chat with neighbors.
    The big RWA literacy signing in NYC in June will be a Wenchfest–buried among the hundreds of other authors, there will be six Wenches, I think. And zillions of books, and lots of money made for literacy! (The books are donated by publishers, so all sales go to literacy groups.)

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  49. LOL, Anne! I don’t remember you being awkward when we met and I complimented your book. I think you faked it well. *g*
    You’re right that someone who is friendly and chats a bit is very welcome–having them buy a book is optional.
    I’m not fond of the single author signings, where one sits like a very lonely toad on a log. The group signings are much nicer because one can chat with neighbors.
    The big RWA literacy signing in NYC in June will be a Wenchfest–buried among the hundreds of other authors, there will be six Wenches, I think. And zillions of books, and lots of money made for literacy! (The books are donated by publishers, so all sales go to literacy groups.)

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  50. LOL, Anne! I don’t remember you being awkward when we met and I complimented your book. I think you faked it well. *g*
    You’re right that someone who is friendly and chats a bit is very welcome–having them buy a book is optional.
    I’m not fond of the single author signings, where one sits like a very lonely toad on a log. The group signings are much nicer because one can chat with neighbors.
    The big RWA literacy signing in NYC in June will be a Wenchfest–buried among the hundreds of other authors, there will be six Wenches, I think. And zillions of books, and lots of money made for literacy! (The books are donated by publishers, so all sales go to literacy groups.)

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  51. I haven;t been to a book signing – none seem to come around here, and then when someone does, I usually have to work. But thankyou for the tips because I don’t want to go to one and look like an idiot standing there too afraid to actually approach them – which for me, who rarely watches tv – these are (or would be) people who I truly admire – they are my moviestars.

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  52. I haven;t been to a book signing – none seem to come around here, and then when someone does, I usually have to work. But thankyou for the tips because I don’t want to go to one and look like an idiot standing there too afraid to actually approach them – which for me, who rarely watches tv – these are (or would be) people who I truly admire – they are my moviestars.

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  53. I haven;t been to a book signing – none seem to come around here, and then when someone does, I usually have to work. But thankyou for the tips because I don’t want to go to one and look like an idiot standing there too afraid to actually approach them – which for me, who rarely watches tv – these are (or would be) people who I truly admire – they are my moviestars.

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  54. I haven;t been to a book signing – none seem to come around here, and then when someone does, I usually have to work. But thankyou for the tips because I don’t want to go to one and look like an idiot standing there too afraid to actually approach them – which for me, who rarely watches tv – these are (or would be) people who I truly admire – they are my moviestars.

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  55. I haven;t been to a book signing – none seem to come around here, and then when someone does, I usually have to work. But thankyou for the tips because I don’t want to go to one and look like an idiot standing there too afraid to actually approach them – which for me, who rarely watches tv – these are (or would be) people who I truly admire – they are my moviestars.

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  56. Politics & Prose is my local book store; it almost always has at least one author talk a day and sometimes two on the weekend. I’m certainly not there every day, but it has given me the chance to meet lots of authors (most recently Jacqueline Winspear). I think that because the authors spend 1/2 or so at the beginning talking about the book and another 1/2 hour answering questions from the audience, it makes it a bit less awkward because their talk and the Q&A generally give you something to comment on.
    Have to say that one of the best book signings I’ve been to was the book signing for literacy when RWA Nationals was here in Washington DC a few years ago. As it happened, I stood in line behind author Lydia Joyce waiting for the doors to open, and probably because I didn’t know who it was, spent half an hour in great conversation with her. Then I went inside and met several of the Wenches (including MJP, who asked if I was Susan/DC, which thrilled me no end that she knew me from my posts) and other authors, all of whom were gracious beyond words. Which is good, because I lost my words, it was one of those “what do you say after you say hello” moments. I’m definitely shy and awkward, and when in the presence of those I truly admire and who have given me so many hours of pleasure, I’m speechless or else babble. The one intelligent thing I did manage to do was to talk to Julia Quinn (very nice, even if not a Wench) about her “Mr Cavenish, I Presume”; we had a brief discussion about why it was not a general fan favorite but why I thought it was so good. I came home ecstatic and hope to make it to New York in June so I can replicate the experience.

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  57. Politics & Prose is my local book store; it almost always has at least one author talk a day and sometimes two on the weekend. I’m certainly not there every day, but it has given me the chance to meet lots of authors (most recently Jacqueline Winspear). I think that because the authors spend 1/2 or so at the beginning talking about the book and another 1/2 hour answering questions from the audience, it makes it a bit less awkward because their talk and the Q&A generally give you something to comment on.
    Have to say that one of the best book signings I’ve been to was the book signing for literacy when RWA Nationals was here in Washington DC a few years ago. As it happened, I stood in line behind author Lydia Joyce waiting for the doors to open, and probably because I didn’t know who it was, spent half an hour in great conversation with her. Then I went inside and met several of the Wenches (including MJP, who asked if I was Susan/DC, which thrilled me no end that she knew me from my posts) and other authors, all of whom were gracious beyond words. Which is good, because I lost my words, it was one of those “what do you say after you say hello” moments. I’m definitely shy and awkward, and when in the presence of those I truly admire and who have given me so many hours of pleasure, I’m speechless or else babble. The one intelligent thing I did manage to do was to talk to Julia Quinn (very nice, even if not a Wench) about her “Mr Cavenish, I Presume”; we had a brief discussion about why it was not a general fan favorite but why I thought it was so good. I came home ecstatic and hope to make it to New York in June so I can replicate the experience.

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  58. Politics & Prose is my local book store; it almost always has at least one author talk a day and sometimes two on the weekend. I’m certainly not there every day, but it has given me the chance to meet lots of authors (most recently Jacqueline Winspear). I think that because the authors spend 1/2 or so at the beginning talking about the book and another 1/2 hour answering questions from the audience, it makes it a bit less awkward because their talk and the Q&A generally give you something to comment on.
    Have to say that one of the best book signings I’ve been to was the book signing for literacy when RWA Nationals was here in Washington DC a few years ago. As it happened, I stood in line behind author Lydia Joyce waiting for the doors to open, and probably because I didn’t know who it was, spent half an hour in great conversation with her. Then I went inside and met several of the Wenches (including MJP, who asked if I was Susan/DC, which thrilled me no end that she knew me from my posts) and other authors, all of whom were gracious beyond words. Which is good, because I lost my words, it was one of those “what do you say after you say hello” moments. I’m definitely shy and awkward, and when in the presence of those I truly admire and who have given me so many hours of pleasure, I’m speechless or else babble. The one intelligent thing I did manage to do was to talk to Julia Quinn (very nice, even if not a Wench) about her “Mr Cavenish, I Presume”; we had a brief discussion about why it was not a general fan favorite but why I thought it was so good. I came home ecstatic and hope to make it to New York in June so I can replicate the experience.

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  59. Politics & Prose is my local book store; it almost always has at least one author talk a day and sometimes two on the weekend. I’m certainly not there every day, but it has given me the chance to meet lots of authors (most recently Jacqueline Winspear). I think that because the authors spend 1/2 or so at the beginning talking about the book and another 1/2 hour answering questions from the audience, it makes it a bit less awkward because their talk and the Q&A generally give you something to comment on.
    Have to say that one of the best book signings I’ve been to was the book signing for literacy when RWA Nationals was here in Washington DC a few years ago. As it happened, I stood in line behind author Lydia Joyce waiting for the doors to open, and probably because I didn’t know who it was, spent half an hour in great conversation with her. Then I went inside and met several of the Wenches (including MJP, who asked if I was Susan/DC, which thrilled me no end that she knew me from my posts) and other authors, all of whom were gracious beyond words. Which is good, because I lost my words, it was one of those “what do you say after you say hello” moments. I’m definitely shy and awkward, and when in the presence of those I truly admire and who have given me so many hours of pleasure, I’m speechless or else babble. The one intelligent thing I did manage to do was to talk to Julia Quinn (very nice, even if not a Wench) about her “Mr Cavenish, I Presume”; we had a brief discussion about why it was not a general fan favorite but why I thought it was so good. I came home ecstatic and hope to make it to New York in June so I can replicate the experience.

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  60. Politics & Prose is my local book store; it almost always has at least one author talk a day and sometimes two on the weekend. I’m certainly not there every day, but it has given me the chance to meet lots of authors (most recently Jacqueline Winspear). I think that because the authors spend 1/2 or so at the beginning talking about the book and another 1/2 hour answering questions from the audience, it makes it a bit less awkward because their talk and the Q&A generally give you something to comment on.
    Have to say that one of the best book signings I’ve been to was the book signing for literacy when RWA Nationals was here in Washington DC a few years ago. As it happened, I stood in line behind author Lydia Joyce waiting for the doors to open, and probably because I didn’t know who it was, spent half an hour in great conversation with her. Then I went inside and met several of the Wenches (including MJP, who asked if I was Susan/DC, which thrilled me no end that she knew me from my posts) and other authors, all of whom were gracious beyond words. Which is good, because I lost my words, it was one of those “what do you say after you say hello” moments. I’m definitely shy and awkward, and when in the presence of those I truly admire and who have given me so many hours of pleasure, I’m speechless or else babble. The one intelligent thing I did manage to do was to talk to Julia Quinn (very nice, even if not a Wench) about her “Mr Cavenish, I Presume”; we had a brief discussion about why it was not a general fan favorite but why I thought it was so good. I came home ecstatic and hope to make it to New York in June so I can replicate the experience.

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  61. I’ve been to one small signing at a book store (four authors) and I hung around for quite a while since it didn’t seem like there were very many people stopping. I got to chat with a fav author, get her latest book (and bought the other’s books just to be nice) and I enjoyed it. I then attended a RT signing, which was loads of fun. I met so many wonderful authors, took pictures of a lot of them, but only one or two with the authors, got lots of swag and bought quite a few books. When RWA came along (I live in Orlando), I jumped at the chance, even though I was unemployed and knew I couldn’t buy many books. I again met many wonderful authors, and took lots of pictures, this time I handed my camera to strangers and got quite a few with authors, and I even bought a few books within my budget. It was so fun and I recommend anyone who has a chance to go to any signing, to go, you won’t be disappointed.

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  62. I’ve been to one small signing at a book store (four authors) and I hung around for quite a while since it didn’t seem like there were very many people stopping. I got to chat with a fav author, get her latest book (and bought the other’s books just to be nice) and I enjoyed it. I then attended a RT signing, which was loads of fun. I met so many wonderful authors, took pictures of a lot of them, but only one or two with the authors, got lots of swag and bought quite a few books. When RWA came along (I live in Orlando), I jumped at the chance, even though I was unemployed and knew I couldn’t buy many books. I again met many wonderful authors, and took lots of pictures, this time I handed my camera to strangers and got quite a few with authors, and I even bought a few books within my budget. It was so fun and I recommend anyone who has a chance to go to any signing, to go, you won’t be disappointed.

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  63. I’ve been to one small signing at a book store (four authors) and I hung around for quite a while since it didn’t seem like there were very many people stopping. I got to chat with a fav author, get her latest book (and bought the other’s books just to be nice) and I enjoyed it. I then attended a RT signing, which was loads of fun. I met so many wonderful authors, took pictures of a lot of them, but only one or two with the authors, got lots of swag and bought quite a few books. When RWA came along (I live in Orlando), I jumped at the chance, even though I was unemployed and knew I couldn’t buy many books. I again met many wonderful authors, and took lots of pictures, this time I handed my camera to strangers and got quite a few with authors, and I even bought a few books within my budget. It was so fun and I recommend anyone who has a chance to go to any signing, to go, you won’t be disappointed.

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  64. I’ve been to one small signing at a book store (four authors) and I hung around for quite a while since it didn’t seem like there were very many people stopping. I got to chat with a fav author, get her latest book (and bought the other’s books just to be nice) and I enjoyed it. I then attended a RT signing, which was loads of fun. I met so many wonderful authors, took pictures of a lot of them, but only one or two with the authors, got lots of swag and bought quite a few books. When RWA came along (I live in Orlando), I jumped at the chance, even though I was unemployed and knew I couldn’t buy many books. I again met many wonderful authors, and took lots of pictures, this time I handed my camera to strangers and got quite a few with authors, and I even bought a few books within my budget. It was so fun and I recommend anyone who has a chance to go to any signing, to go, you won’t be disappointed.

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  65. I’ve been to one small signing at a book store (four authors) and I hung around for quite a while since it didn’t seem like there were very many people stopping. I got to chat with a fav author, get her latest book (and bought the other’s books just to be nice) and I enjoyed it. I then attended a RT signing, which was loads of fun. I met so many wonderful authors, took pictures of a lot of them, but only one or two with the authors, got lots of swag and bought quite a few books. When RWA came along (I live in Orlando), I jumped at the chance, even though I was unemployed and knew I couldn’t buy many books. I again met many wonderful authors, and took lots of pictures, this time I handed my camera to strangers and got quite a few with authors, and I even bought a few books within my budget. It was so fun and I recommend anyone who has a chance to go to any signing, to go, you won’t be disappointed.

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  66. Great post, Anne. I agree. If you go to a signing with a smile, any author is going to love you and readers will chat. It’s daunting when people avoid your eyes as they walk past. I can remember my first signing at RWA National in New York, saying ‘Hi, I’m from Australia, you don’t have to buy a book, just come and talk to me.’ I love meeting people and had a ball. Big thanks to Bronwyn Jameson who suggested I bring TIMTAM’s, they were a great ice breaker.
    xx Fi

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  67. Great post, Anne. I agree. If you go to a signing with a smile, any author is going to love you and readers will chat. It’s daunting when people avoid your eyes as they walk past. I can remember my first signing at RWA National in New York, saying ‘Hi, I’m from Australia, you don’t have to buy a book, just come and talk to me.’ I love meeting people and had a ball. Big thanks to Bronwyn Jameson who suggested I bring TIMTAM’s, they were a great ice breaker.
    xx Fi

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  68. Great post, Anne. I agree. If you go to a signing with a smile, any author is going to love you and readers will chat. It’s daunting when people avoid your eyes as they walk past. I can remember my first signing at RWA National in New York, saying ‘Hi, I’m from Australia, you don’t have to buy a book, just come and talk to me.’ I love meeting people and had a ball. Big thanks to Bronwyn Jameson who suggested I bring TIMTAM’s, they were a great ice breaker.
    xx Fi

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  69. Great post, Anne. I agree. If you go to a signing with a smile, any author is going to love you and readers will chat. It’s daunting when people avoid your eyes as they walk past. I can remember my first signing at RWA National in New York, saying ‘Hi, I’m from Australia, you don’t have to buy a book, just come and talk to me.’ I love meeting people and had a ball. Big thanks to Bronwyn Jameson who suggested I bring TIMTAM’s, they were a great ice breaker.
    xx Fi

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  70. Great post, Anne. I agree. If you go to a signing with a smile, any author is going to love you and readers will chat. It’s daunting when people avoid your eyes as they walk past. I can remember my first signing at RWA National in New York, saying ‘Hi, I’m from Australia, you don’t have to buy a book, just come and talk to me.’ I love meeting people and had a ball. Big thanks to Bronwyn Jameson who suggested I bring TIMTAM’s, they were a great ice breaker.
    xx Fi

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  71. Sherrie, here. Susan/DC, you bring up a very good point about many writers being shy and awkward/introverted, as you mentioned you were. One would never know that from your intelligent and thoughtful comments on this blog. It made me realize that sometimes the most interesting and insightful comments come from those who are shy in person.
    Anne, I agree that group signing are the best, from a writer’s standpoint. There is nothing worse than sitting at a booksigning table all by yourself, trying to look interesting and approachable as visitors embarrassedly hurry past your table, pointedly avoiding eye contact. Conversely, having a small circle of laughing, chatting people surround your table is the best way to draw other visitors to your table. Most authors I know would gladly kiss the feet of any visitor willing to approach their table, even if it’s just to say hello. *g*

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  72. Sherrie, here. Susan/DC, you bring up a very good point about many writers being shy and awkward/introverted, as you mentioned you were. One would never know that from your intelligent and thoughtful comments on this blog. It made me realize that sometimes the most interesting and insightful comments come from those who are shy in person.
    Anne, I agree that group signing are the best, from a writer’s standpoint. There is nothing worse than sitting at a booksigning table all by yourself, trying to look interesting and approachable as visitors embarrassedly hurry past your table, pointedly avoiding eye contact. Conversely, having a small circle of laughing, chatting people surround your table is the best way to draw other visitors to your table. Most authors I know would gladly kiss the feet of any visitor willing to approach their table, even if it’s just to say hello. *g*

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  73. Sherrie, here. Susan/DC, you bring up a very good point about many writers being shy and awkward/introverted, as you mentioned you were. One would never know that from your intelligent and thoughtful comments on this blog. It made me realize that sometimes the most interesting and insightful comments come from those who are shy in person.
    Anne, I agree that group signing are the best, from a writer’s standpoint. There is nothing worse than sitting at a booksigning table all by yourself, trying to look interesting and approachable as visitors embarrassedly hurry past your table, pointedly avoiding eye contact. Conversely, having a small circle of laughing, chatting people surround your table is the best way to draw other visitors to your table. Most authors I know would gladly kiss the feet of any visitor willing to approach their table, even if it’s just to say hello. *g*

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  74. Sherrie, here. Susan/DC, you bring up a very good point about many writers being shy and awkward/introverted, as you mentioned you were. One would never know that from your intelligent and thoughtful comments on this blog. It made me realize that sometimes the most interesting and insightful comments come from those who are shy in person.
    Anne, I agree that group signing are the best, from a writer’s standpoint. There is nothing worse than sitting at a booksigning table all by yourself, trying to look interesting and approachable as visitors embarrassedly hurry past your table, pointedly avoiding eye contact. Conversely, having a small circle of laughing, chatting people surround your table is the best way to draw other visitors to your table. Most authors I know would gladly kiss the feet of any visitor willing to approach their table, even if it’s just to say hello. *g*

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  75. Sherrie, here. Susan/DC, you bring up a very good point about many writers being shy and awkward/introverted, as you mentioned you were. One would never know that from your intelligent and thoughtful comments on this blog. It made me realize that sometimes the most interesting and insightful comments come from those who are shy in person.
    Anne, I agree that group signing are the best, from a writer’s standpoint. There is nothing worse than sitting at a booksigning table all by yourself, trying to look interesting and approachable as visitors embarrassedly hurry past your table, pointedly avoiding eye contact. Conversely, having a small circle of laughing, chatting people surround your table is the best way to draw other visitors to your table. Most authors I know would gladly kiss the feet of any visitor willing to approach their table, even if it’s just to say hello. *g*

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  76. I love doing the Literacy Signing, but after doing two small ones in bookstores I swore never again. Sitting at a table while people skirt you like you have leprosy is no fun at all.

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  77. I love doing the Literacy Signing, but after doing two small ones in bookstores I swore never again. Sitting at a table while people skirt you like you have leprosy is no fun at all.

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  78. I love doing the Literacy Signing, but after doing two small ones in bookstores I swore never again. Sitting at a table while people skirt you like you have leprosy is no fun at all.

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  79. I love doing the Literacy Signing, but after doing two small ones in bookstores I swore never again. Sitting at a table while people skirt you like you have leprosy is no fun at all.

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  80. I love doing the Literacy Signing, but after doing two small ones in bookstores I swore never again. Sitting at a table while people skirt you like you have leprosy is no fun at all.

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  81. Mary Jo, I think it’s often the way, when someone puts their foot in their mouth it’s the recipient of the foot who remembers. LOL.
    Wendy, I think that’s the way with all of us who are readers. I’ve seen best-selling authors get all tongue-tied when they meet their own movie-stars of writing. But we all, famous or obscure, love to talk to readers.

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  82. Mary Jo, I think it’s often the way, when someone puts their foot in their mouth it’s the recipient of the foot who remembers. LOL.
    Wendy, I think that’s the way with all of us who are readers. I’ve seen best-selling authors get all tongue-tied when they meet their own movie-stars of writing. But we all, famous or obscure, love to talk to readers.

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  83. Mary Jo, I think it’s often the way, when someone puts their foot in their mouth it’s the recipient of the foot who remembers. LOL.
    Wendy, I think that’s the way with all of us who are readers. I’ve seen best-selling authors get all tongue-tied when they meet their own movie-stars of writing. But we all, famous or obscure, love to talk to readers.

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  84. Mary Jo, I think it’s often the way, when someone puts their foot in their mouth it’s the recipient of the foot who remembers. LOL.
    Wendy, I think that’s the way with all of us who are readers. I’ve seen best-selling authors get all tongue-tied when they meet their own movie-stars of writing. But we all, famous or obscure, love to talk to readers.

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  85. Mary Jo, I think it’s often the way, when someone puts their foot in their mouth it’s the recipient of the foot who remembers. LOL.
    Wendy, I think that’s the way with all of us who are readers. I’ve seen best-selling authors get all tongue-tied when they meet their own movie-stars of writing. But we all, famous or obscure, love to talk to readers.

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  86. Susan/DC, how lovely that you met wenches in Washington last time. I’m afraid if someone from here meets me they need to say, hey, I read the wench blog — I would probably recognise your blog name, but I’m guessing you won’t have Susan/DC on your badge. Plus those badges dangle so low, I’m usually saying hello to your face and don’t read the badge unless I’m checking spelling for a signing.
    Plus I’m nearly always still a bit jetlagged. (my excuse for future foot-in-mouthness)

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  87. Susan/DC, how lovely that you met wenches in Washington last time. I’m afraid if someone from here meets me they need to say, hey, I read the wench blog — I would probably recognise your blog name, but I’m guessing you won’t have Susan/DC on your badge. Plus those badges dangle so low, I’m usually saying hello to your face and don’t read the badge unless I’m checking spelling for a signing.
    Plus I’m nearly always still a bit jetlagged. (my excuse for future foot-in-mouthness)

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  88. Susan/DC, how lovely that you met wenches in Washington last time. I’m afraid if someone from here meets me they need to say, hey, I read the wench blog — I would probably recognise your blog name, but I’m guessing you won’t have Susan/DC on your badge. Plus those badges dangle so low, I’m usually saying hello to your face and don’t read the badge unless I’m checking spelling for a signing.
    Plus I’m nearly always still a bit jetlagged. (my excuse for future foot-in-mouthness)

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  89. Susan/DC, how lovely that you met wenches in Washington last time. I’m afraid if someone from here meets me they need to say, hey, I read the wench blog — I would probably recognise your blog name, but I’m guessing you won’t have Susan/DC on your badge. Plus those badges dangle so low, I’m usually saying hello to your face and don’t read the badge unless I’m checking spelling for a signing.
    Plus I’m nearly always still a bit jetlagged. (my excuse for future foot-in-mouthness)

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  90. Susan/DC, how lovely that you met wenches in Washington last time. I’m afraid if someone from here meets me they need to say, hey, I read the wench blog — I would probably recognise your blog name, but I’m guessing you won’t have Susan/DC on your badge. Plus those badges dangle so low, I’m usually saying hello to your face and don’t read the badge unless I’m checking spelling for a signing.
    Plus I’m nearly always still a bit jetlagged. (my excuse for future foot-in-mouthness)

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  91. Barbara, thanks for sharing those experiences. You’ve nailed the spirit of going to a book-signing exactly — enjoy it, take pics, talk — you don’t have to shop.
    I’ve never been to an RT convention — they sound like lots of fun. Two of my author friends go every year, and always have a great time.
    Fi, thanks for dropping by. Yes, it is weird when people walk past trying not to catch your eye. But it’s so true –authors love to meet readers. And tim tams (Australia’s favorite chocolate cookies) are a pretty good enticement to stop and talk.

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  92. Barbara, thanks for sharing those experiences. You’ve nailed the spirit of going to a book-signing exactly — enjoy it, take pics, talk — you don’t have to shop.
    I’ve never been to an RT convention — they sound like lots of fun. Two of my author friends go every year, and always have a great time.
    Fi, thanks for dropping by. Yes, it is weird when people walk past trying not to catch your eye. But it’s so true –authors love to meet readers. And tim tams (Australia’s favorite chocolate cookies) are a pretty good enticement to stop and talk.

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  93. Barbara, thanks for sharing those experiences. You’ve nailed the spirit of going to a book-signing exactly — enjoy it, take pics, talk — you don’t have to shop.
    I’ve never been to an RT convention — they sound like lots of fun. Two of my author friends go every year, and always have a great time.
    Fi, thanks for dropping by. Yes, it is weird when people walk past trying not to catch your eye. But it’s so true –authors love to meet readers. And tim tams (Australia’s favorite chocolate cookies) are a pretty good enticement to stop and talk.

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  94. Barbara, thanks for sharing those experiences. You’ve nailed the spirit of going to a book-signing exactly — enjoy it, take pics, talk — you don’t have to shop.
    I’ve never been to an RT convention — they sound like lots of fun. Two of my author friends go every year, and always have a great time.
    Fi, thanks for dropping by. Yes, it is weird when people walk past trying not to catch your eye. But it’s so true –authors love to meet readers. And tim tams (Australia’s favorite chocolate cookies) are a pretty good enticement to stop and talk.

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  95. Barbara, thanks for sharing those experiences. You’ve nailed the spirit of going to a book-signing exactly — enjoy it, take pics, talk — you don’t have to shop.
    I’ve never been to an RT convention — they sound like lots of fun. Two of my author friends go every year, and always have a great time.
    Fi, thanks for dropping by. Yes, it is weird when people walk past trying not to catch your eye. But it’s so true –authors love to meet readers. And tim tams (Australia’s favorite chocolate cookies) are a pretty good enticement to stop and talk.

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  96. Sherrie, (and Susan/DC) most writers are used to their own company — it’s the silence space we need to spin stories in our heads, so some are quite shy and hard to talk to. So take with you a few easy questions and that’ll break the ice.
    Sherrie, while I think you’re wonderful and I agree with ‘most everything you’ve said — I wish to state here and now that the only feet that go near my mouth are my own. (see MJP story above) No kissing of feet here. LOL

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  97. Sherrie, (and Susan/DC) most writers are used to their own company — it’s the silence space we need to spin stories in our heads, so some are quite shy and hard to talk to. So take with you a few easy questions and that’ll break the ice.
    Sherrie, while I think you’re wonderful and I agree with ‘most everything you’ve said — I wish to state here and now that the only feet that go near my mouth are my own. (see MJP story above) No kissing of feet here. LOL

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  98. Sherrie, (and Susan/DC) most writers are used to their own company — it’s the silence space we need to spin stories in our heads, so some are quite shy and hard to talk to. So take with you a few easy questions and that’ll break the ice.
    Sherrie, while I think you’re wonderful and I agree with ‘most everything you’ve said — I wish to state here and now that the only feet that go near my mouth are my own. (see MJP story above) No kissing of feet here. LOL

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  99. Sherrie, (and Susan/DC) most writers are used to their own company — it’s the silence space we need to spin stories in our heads, so some are quite shy and hard to talk to. So take with you a few easy questions and that’ll break the ice.
    Sherrie, while I think you’re wonderful and I agree with ‘most everything you’ve said — I wish to state here and now that the only feet that go near my mouth are my own. (see MJP story above) No kissing of feet here. LOL

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  100. Sherrie, (and Susan/DC) most writers are used to their own company — it’s the silence space we need to spin stories in our heads, so some are quite shy and hard to talk to. So take with you a few easy questions and that’ll break the ice.
    Sherrie, while I think you’re wonderful and I agree with ‘most everything you’ve said — I wish to state here and now that the only feet that go near my mouth are my own. (see MJP story above) No kissing of feet here. LOL

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  101. Isobel, I agree – a solo signing works only for big-time authors in a well advertised event. I think I’d always do it with at least one other author.
    And I can’t stress enough how fantastic it was at the small signing I did, to have my friend Alison and Sarah from Penguin Books come, and help out and chat to people — they didn’t do any hard sell — it was all chat from one book-lover to another.
    And they handed out my little free taster books.
    So if you have to do a solo signing, take a friend or two, if you can.

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  102. Isobel, I agree – a solo signing works only for big-time authors in a well advertised event. I think I’d always do it with at least one other author.
    And I can’t stress enough how fantastic it was at the small signing I did, to have my friend Alison and Sarah from Penguin Books come, and help out and chat to people — they didn’t do any hard sell — it was all chat from one book-lover to another.
    And they handed out my little free taster books.
    So if you have to do a solo signing, take a friend or two, if you can.

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  103. Isobel, I agree – a solo signing works only for big-time authors in a well advertised event. I think I’d always do it with at least one other author.
    And I can’t stress enough how fantastic it was at the small signing I did, to have my friend Alison and Sarah from Penguin Books come, and help out and chat to people — they didn’t do any hard sell — it was all chat from one book-lover to another.
    And they handed out my little free taster books.
    So if you have to do a solo signing, take a friend or two, if you can.

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  104. Isobel, I agree – a solo signing works only for big-time authors in a well advertised event. I think I’d always do it with at least one other author.
    And I can’t stress enough how fantastic it was at the small signing I did, to have my friend Alison and Sarah from Penguin Books come, and help out and chat to people — they didn’t do any hard sell — it was all chat from one book-lover to another.
    And they handed out my little free taster books.
    So if you have to do a solo signing, take a friend or two, if you can.

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  105. Isobel, I agree – a solo signing works only for big-time authors in a well advertised event. I think I’d always do it with at least one other author.
    And I can’t stress enough how fantastic it was at the small signing I did, to have my friend Alison and Sarah from Penguin Books come, and help out and chat to people — they didn’t do any hard sell — it was all chat from one book-lover to another.
    And they handed out my little free taster books.
    So if you have to do a solo signing, take a friend or two, if you can.

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  106. Sherrie, again. Anne, I meant to comment on what you call your “Little free taster books.” I love them, and I think they are one of the most cost-effective, low stress ways to promote one’s book. They cost little to produce, and long after the daze of a booksigning or conference fades into the bleary past, the reader will have that little handout to remind them of that book.

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  107. Sherrie, again. Anne, I meant to comment on what you call your “Little free taster books.” I love them, and I think they are one of the most cost-effective, low stress ways to promote one’s book. They cost little to produce, and long after the daze of a booksigning or conference fades into the bleary past, the reader will have that little handout to remind them of that book.

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  108. Sherrie, again. Anne, I meant to comment on what you call your “Little free taster books.” I love them, and I think they are one of the most cost-effective, low stress ways to promote one’s book. They cost little to produce, and long after the daze of a booksigning or conference fades into the bleary past, the reader will have that little handout to remind them of that book.

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  109. Sherrie, again. Anne, I meant to comment on what you call your “Little free taster books.” I love them, and I think they are one of the most cost-effective, low stress ways to promote one’s book. They cost little to produce, and long after the daze of a booksigning or conference fades into the bleary past, the reader will have that little handout to remind them of that book.

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  110. Sherrie, again. Anne, I meant to comment on what you call your “Little free taster books.” I love them, and I think they are one of the most cost-effective, low stress ways to promote one’s book. They cost little to produce, and long after the daze of a booksigning or conference fades into the bleary past, the reader will have that little handout to remind them of that book.

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  111. Thanks, Sherrie. I’m not big on bookmarks — I don’t use them, so when I get them I keep them for a while then they go into the recycling, which is a terrible waste.
    But I do like an excerpt, which is why I do them.
    I actually make the little books myself — except for the photocopying. I usually like doing something when I watch TV, so I just fold and cut and staple.

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  112. Thanks, Sherrie. I’m not big on bookmarks — I don’t use them, so when I get them I keep them for a while then they go into the recycling, which is a terrible waste.
    But I do like an excerpt, which is why I do them.
    I actually make the little books myself — except for the photocopying. I usually like doing something when I watch TV, so I just fold and cut and staple.

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  113. Thanks, Sherrie. I’m not big on bookmarks — I don’t use them, so when I get them I keep them for a while then they go into the recycling, which is a terrible waste.
    But I do like an excerpt, which is why I do them.
    I actually make the little books myself — except for the photocopying. I usually like doing something when I watch TV, so I just fold and cut and staple.

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  114. Thanks, Sherrie. I’m not big on bookmarks — I don’t use them, so when I get them I keep them for a while then they go into the recycling, which is a terrible waste.
    But I do like an excerpt, which is why I do them.
    I actually make the little books myself — except for the photocopying. I usually like doing something when I watch TV, so I just fold and cut and staple.

    Reply
  115. Thanks, Sherrie. I’m not big on bookmarks — I don’t use them, so when I get them I keep them for a while then they go into the recycling, which is a terrible waste.
    But I do like an excerpt, which is why I do them.
    I actually make the little books myself — except for the photocopying. I usually like doing something when I watch TV, so I just fold and cut and staple.

    Reply
  116. Most of the book signings I’ve been to have been at sf conventions, and the authors were mostly male. Several gave off a difficult vibe, as if they just hated being there at a signing table with perhaps few or no people approaching them while watching fans line up by the dozens for the popular authors. I would approach some lesser known writer, prepared to offer a polite word, so he wouldn’t feel so bad, and get a terse, offputting response as if speaking to me were a burden of some kind.
    So I say, if you are going to do a signing, for heaven’s sake don’t go with a negative attitude. People who don’t want to talk to other people (however few) shouldn’t do them! Stay in your man cave!
    By contrast, the romance writers I’ve met (all women) have been such amiable people that I can’t imagine them behaving that way. So I wonder if this is a female thing, or a genre difference 🙂

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  117. Most of the book signings I’ve been to have been at sf conventions, and the authors were mostly male. Several gave off a difficult vibe, as if they just hated being there at a signing table with perhaps few or no people approaching them while watching fans line up by the dozens for the popular authors. I would approach some lesser known writer, prepared to offer a polite word, so he wouldn’t feel so bad, and get a terse, offputting response as if speaking to me were a burden of some kind.
    So I say, if you are going to do a signing, for heaven’s sake don’t go with a negative attitude. People who don’t want to talk to other people (however few) shouldn’t do them! Stay in your man cave!
    By contrast, the romance writers I’ve met (all women) have been such amiable people that I can’t imagine them behaving that way. So I wonder if this is a female thing, or a genre difference 🙂

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  118. Most of the book signings I’ve been to have been at sf conventions, and the authors were mostly male. Several gave off a difficult vibe, as if they just hated being there at a signing table with perhaps few or no people approaching them while watching fans line up by the dozens for the popular authors. I would approach some lesser known writer, prepared to offer a polite word, so he wouldn’t feel so bad, and get a terse, offputting response as if speaking to me were a burden of some kind.
    So I say, if you are going to do a signing, for heaven’s sake don’t go with a negative attitude. People who don’t want to talk to other people (however few) shouldn’t do them! Stay in your man cave!
    By contrast, the romance writers I’ve met (all women) have been such amiable people that I can’t imagine them behaving that way. So I wonder if this is a female thing, or a genre difference 🙂

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  119. Most of the book signings I’ve been to have been at sf conventions, and the authors were mostly male. Several gave off a difficult vibe, as if they just hated being there at a signing table with perhaps few or no people approaching them while watching fans line up by the dozens for the popular authors. I would approach some lesser known writer, prepared to offer a polite word, so he wouldn’t feel so bad, and get a terse, offputting response as if speaking to me were a burden of some kind.
    So I say, if you are going to do a signing, for heaven’s sake don’t go with a negative attitude. People who don’t want to talk to other people (however few) shouldn’t do them! Stay in your man cave!
    By contrast, the romance writers I’ve met (all women) have been such amiable people that I can’t imagine them behaving that way. So I wonder if this is a female thing, or a genre difference 🙂

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  120. Most of the book signings I’ve been to have been at sf conventions, and the authors were mostly male. Several gave off a difficult vibe, as if they just hated being there at a signing table with perhaps few or no people approaching them while watching fans line up by the dozens for the popular authors. I would approach some lesser known writer, prepared to offer a polite word, so he wouldn’t feel so bad, and get a terse, offputting response as if speaking to me were a burden of some kind.
    So I say, if you are going to do a signing, for heaven’s sake don’t go with a negative attitude. People who don’t want to talk to other people (however few) shouldn’t do them! Stay in your man cave!
    By contrast, the romance writers I’ve met (all women) have been such amiable people that I can’t imagine them behaving that way. So I wonder if this is a female thing, or a genre difference 🙂

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  121. Janice, that’s a shame — I think if people are good enough to come to see you, you should try to be pleasant and approachable, even if by nature you’re a grumpy hermit who prefers your cave. I remember going to see one author read and sign and he was a beautiful, assured writer, but in person was nervous and shy. I could see it was difficult for him to appear chatty and outgoing, but the effort he put into it made me really like and respect him even more.
    I do think romance writers are a friendly bunch — could be because a lot of women like to make people feel comfortable. I always get comments about how friendly we (romance types) are, and how amazing it is that the authors are so supportive of each other. It seems that in some other areas there’s a lot of rivalry that spills over. It’s a pity,I think.

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  122. Janice, that’s a shame — I think if people are good enough to come to see you, you should try to be pleasant and approachable, even if by nature you’re a grumpy hermit who prefers your cave. I remember going to see one author read and sign and he was a beautiful, assured writer, but in person was nervous and shy. I could see it was difficult for him to appear chatty and outgoing, but the effort he put into it made me really like and respect him even more.
    I do think romance writers are a friendly bunch — could be because a lot of women like to make people feel comfortable. I always get comments about how friendly we (romance types) are, and how amazing it is that the authors are so supportive of each other. It seems that in some other areas there’s a lot of rivalry that spills over. It’s a pity,I think.

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  123. Janice, that’s a shame — I think if people are good enough to come to see you, you should try to be pleasant and approachable, even if by nature you’re a grumpy hermit who prefers your cave. I remember going to see one author read and sign and he was a beautiful, assured writer, but in person was nervous and shy. I could see it was difficult for him to appear chatty and outgoing, but the effort he put into it made me really like and respect him even more.
    I do think romance writers are a friendly bunch — could be because a lot of women like to make people feel comfortable. I always get comments about how friendly we (romance types) are, and how amazing it is that the authors are so supportive of each other. It seems that in some other areas there’s a lot of rivalry that spills over. It’s a pity,I think.

    Reply
  124. Janice, that’s a shame — I think if people are good enough to come to see you, you should try to be pleasant and approachable, even if by nature you’re a grumpy hermit who prefers your cave. I remember going to see one author read and sign and he was a beautiful, assured writer, but in person was nervous and shy. I could see it was difficult for him to appear chatty and outgoing, but the effort he put into it made me really like and respect him even more.
    I do think romance writers are a friendly bunch — could be because a lot of women like to make people feel comfortable. I always get comments about how friendly we (romance types) are, and how amazing it is that the authors are so supportive of each other. It seems that in some other areas there’s a lot of rivalry that spills over. It’s a pity,I think.

    Reply
  125. Janice, that’s a shame — I think if people are good enough to come to see you, you should try to be pleasant and approachable, even if by nature you’re a grumpy hermit who prefers your cave. I remember going to see one author read and sign and he was a beautiful, assured writer, but in person was nervous and shy. I could see it was difficult for him to appear chatty and outgoing, but the effort he put into it made me really like and respect him even more.
    I do think romance writers are a friendly bunch — could be because a lot of women like to make people feel comfortable. I always get comments about how friendly we (romance types) are, and how amazing it is that the authors are so supportive of each other. It seems that in some other areas there’s a lot of rivalry that spills over. It’s a pity,I think.

    Reply
  126. I love going to book signings. My first few were major events with Frank McCourt, Timothy Findley, and Diana Gabaldon. The line ups for autographs were so huge, that the authors were just signing, and didn’t have time to chat. But then, Donna Alward posted at Harlequin that she and Julianne MacLean were doing signings at a local bookstore. I had never read Donna, but enjoyed Julianne’s books. I was nervous as heck, but showed up with a couple of Julianne’s back list (I had the book she was signing in eformat), and bought Donna’s book while I was there. There weren’t many people stopping, so I stayed and chatted. Now I go to everything I can where the local chapter of the RWA is going to have members in attendance. I would LOVE to get to a signing day at a conference. Some day I will!

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  127. I love going to book signings. My first few were major events with Frank McCourt, Timothy Findley, and Diana Gabaldon. The line ups for autographs were so huge, that the authors were just signing, and didn’t have time to chat. But then, Donna Alward posted at Harlequin that she and Julianne MacLean were doing signings at a local bookstore. I had never read Donna, but enjoyed Julianne’s books. I was nervous as heck, but showed up with a couple of Julianne’s back list (I had the book she was signing in eformat), and bought Donna’s book while I was there. There weren’t many people stopping, so I stayed and chatted. Now I go to everything I can where the local chapter of the RWA is going to have members in attendance. I would LOVE to get to a signing day at a conference. Some day I will!

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  128. I love going to book signings. My first few were major events with Frank McCourt, Timothy Findley, and Diana Gabaldon. The line ups for autographs were so huge, that the authors were just signing, and didn’t have time to chat. But then, Donna Alward posted at Harlequin that she and Julianne MacLean were doing signings at a local bookstore. I had never read Donna, but enjoyed Julianne’s books. I was nervous as heck, but showed up with a couple of Julianne’s back list (I had the book she was signing in eformat), and bought Donna’s book while I was there. There weren’t many people stopping, so I stayed and chatted. Now I go to everything I can where the local chapter of the RWA is going to have members in attendance. I would LOVE to get to a signing day at a conference. Some day I will!

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  129. I love going to book signings. My first few were major events with Frank McCourt, Timothy Findley, and Diana Gabaldon. The line ups for autographs were so huge, that the authors were just signing, and didn’t have time to chat. But then, Donna Alward posted at Harlequin that she and Julianne MacLean were doing signings at a local bookstore. I had never read Donna, but enjoyed Julianne’s books. I was nervous as heck, but showed up with a couple of Julianne’s back list (I had the book she was signing in eformat), and bought Donna’s book while I was there. There weren’t many people stopping, so I stayed and chatted. Now I go to everything I can where the local chapter of the RWA is going to have members in attendance. I would LOVE to get to a signing day at a conference. Some day I will!

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  130. I love going to book signings. My first few were major events with Frank McCourt, Timothy Findley, and Diana Gabaldon. The line ups for autographs were so huge, that the authors were just signing, and didn’t have time to chat. But then, Donna Alward posted at Harlequin that she and Julianne MacLean were doing signings at a local bookstore. I had never read Donna, but enjoyed Julianne’s books. I was nervous as heck, but showed up with a couple of Julianne’s back list (I had the book she was signing in eformat), and bought Donna’s book while I was there. There weren’t many people stopping, so I stayed and chatted. Now I go to everything I can where the local chapter of the RWA is going to have members in attendance. I would LOVE to get to a signing day at a conference. Some day I will!

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  131. First signing I went to was small and only one or two people there. Talked with Christina Skye for a few minutes about her writing and future of Seals…rather forecasting current events.
    Second signing was regimented and line wandered thru a Borders for many, many yards. Dr Laura was nice to DW and I.
    I preferred the first signing.

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  132. First signing I went to was small and only one or two people there. Talked with Christina Skye for a few minutes about her writing and future of Seals…rather forecasting current events.
    Second signing was regimented and line wandered thru a Borders for many, many yards. Dr Laura was nice to DW and I.
    I preferred the first signing.

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  133. First signing I went to was small and only one or two people there. Talked with Christina Skye for a few minutes about her writing and future of Seals…rather forecasting current events.
    Second signing was regimented and line wandered thru a Borders for many, many yards. Dr Laura was nice to DW and I.
    I preferred the first signing.

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  134. First signing I went to was small and only one or two people there. Talked with Christina Skye for a few minutes about her writing and future of Seals…rather forecasting current events.
    Second signing was regimented and line wandered thru a Borders for many, many yards. Dr Laura was nice to DW and I.
    I preferred the first signing.

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  135. First signing I went to was small and only one or two people there. Talked with Christina Skye for a few minutes about her writing and future of Seals…rather forecasting current events.
    Second signing was regimented and line wandered thru a Borders for many, many yards. Dr Laura was nice to DW and I.
    I preferred the first signing.

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  136. Lynne, it’s wonderful that you go to signings when you can. I think that first time is the ice-breaker and after that you know the score and realise what a difference you can make to someone’s day. It’s great that you support your local authors, and yes, I do believe in good Karma — one day it WILL be you!
    Louis, yes it is much nicer for you to be able to take your time and chat and get to know the author a bit. On the other hand, it’s also good for the author to sell lots of copies. So I’m six of one, half a dozen the other.

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  137. Lynne, it’s wonderful that you go to signings when you can. I think that first time is the ice-breaker and after that you know the score and realise what a difference you can make to someone’s day. It’s great that you support your local authors, and yes, I do believe in good Karma — one day it WILL be you!
    Louis, yes it is much nicer for you to be able to take your time and chat and get to know the author a bit. On the other hand, it’s also good for the author to sell lots of copies. So I’m six of one, half a dozen the other.

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  138. Lynne, it’s wonderful that you go to signings when you can. I think that first time is the ice-breaker and after that you know the score and realise what a difference you can make to someone’s day. It’s great that you support your local authors, and yes, I do believe in good Karma — one day it WILL be you!
    Louis, yes it is much nicer for you to be able to take your time and chat and get to know the author a bit. On the other hand, it’s also good for the author to sell lots of copies. So I’m six of one, half a dozen the other.

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  139. Lynne, it’s wonderful that you go to signings when you can. I think that first time is the ice-breaker and after that you know the score and realise what a difference you can make to someone’s day. It’s great that you support your local authors, and yes, I do believe in good Karma — one day it WILL be you!
    Louis, yes it is much nicer for you to be able to take your time and chat and get to know the author a bit. On the other hand, it’s also good for the author to sell lots of copies. So I’m six of one, half a dozen the other.

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  140. Lynne, it’s wonderful that you go to signings when you can. I think that first time is the ice-breaker and after that you know the score and realise what a difference you can make to someone’s day. It’s great that you support your local authors, and yes, I do believe in good Karma — one day it WILL be you!
    Louis, yes it is much nicer for you to be able to take your time and chat and get to know the author a bit. On the other hand, it’s also good for the author to sell lots of copies. So I’m six of one, half a dozen the other.

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  141. I’m so late with this, but I wanted to say how much you made me smile with your anecdote about Mary Jo liking your book and your brain wiped clean.
    I went to my first conference last year, the ECWC (Emerald City Writers Conference) and wandered through the booksigning room. I so wanted to tell several of the authors how much I’d enjoyed such and such a book by them but I knew, the minute I opened my mouth, my brain would go on hiatus! So you’re right. I made small talk and never did trust myself to say “oh, I loved your *insert title here*” because I couldn’t have to save my life!

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  142. I’m so late with this, but I wanted to say how much you made me smile with your anecdote about Mary Jo liking your book and your brain wiped clean.
    I went to my first conference last year, the ECWC (Emerald City Writers Conference) and wandered through the booksigning room. I so wanted to tell several of the authors how much I’d enjoyed such and such a book by them but I knew, the minute I opened my mouth, my brain would go on hiatus! So you’re right. I made small talk and never did trust myself to say “oh, I loved your *insert title here*” because I couldn’t have to save my life!

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  143. I’m so late with this, but I wanted to say how much you made me smile with your anecdote about Mary Jo liking your book and your brain wiped clean.
    I went to my first conference last year, the ECWC (Emerald City Writers Conference) and wandered through the booksigning room. I so wanted to tell several of the authors how much I’d enjoyed such and such a book by them but I knew, the minute I opened my mouth, my brain would go on hiatus! So you’re right. I made small talk and never did trust myself to say “oh, I loved your *insert title here*” because I couldn’t have to save my life!

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  144. I’m so late with this, but I wanted to say how much you made me smile with your anecdote about Mary Jo liking your book and your brain wiped clean.
    I went to my first conference last year, the ECWC (Emerald City Writers Conference) and wandered through the booksigning room. I so wanted to tell several of the authors how much I’d enjoyed such and such a book by them but I knew, the minute I opened my mouth, my brain would go on hiatus! So you’re right. I made small talk and never did trust myself to say “oh, I loved your *insert title here*” because I couldn’t have to save my life!

    Reply
  145. I’m so late with this, but I wanted to say how much you made me smile with your anecdote about Mary Jo liking your book and your brain wiped clean.
    I went to my first conference last year, the ECWC (Emerald City Writers Conference) and wandered through the booksigning room. I so wanted to tell several of the authors how much I’d enjoyed such and such a book by them but I knew, the minute I opened my mouth, my brain would go on hiatus! So you’re right. I made small talk and never did trust myself to say “oh, I loved your *insert title here*” because I couldn’t have to save my life!

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  146. Theo, there is nothing an author likes more than to hear someone talk about how they liked such and such a book.
    Maybe take a small card or a note.
    I once was lucky enough to be invited to a dinner with a Grand Statesman of our country — Prime Minister when I was a student. He’d always been my hero, and I didn’t think I’d even get to speak to him, so I wrote him a letter. As it happens it was a small dinner and they rotated us to we’d all get to sit with him and his wife, and so I gave his wife (also a great heroine of mine) a jar of my home grown honey, and the Great Man my letter, which contained a story of how one of his policies had affected a group of kids (in the projects) I worked with. I asked him to read the letter later.
    He did and even though I hadn’t included an address, he sent me a response through the organizer. He loved the letter.
    Now I could have sent it to him my mail, but I didn’t even think of writing it until I was going to meet him. And I’m so glad I did. He might not have had time for me to tell him that story that day, but the letter waited and had his full attention, and appreciation.

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  147. Theo, there is nothing an author likes more than to hear someone talk about how they liked such and such a book.
    Maybe take a small card or a note.
    I once was lucky enough to be invited to a dinner with a Grand Statesman of our country — Prime Minister when I was a student. He’d always been my hero, and I didn’t think I’d even get to speak to him, so I wrote him a letter. As it happens it was a small dinner and they rotated us to we’d all get to sit with him and his wife, and so I gave his wife (also a great heroine of mine) a jar of my home grown honey, and the Great Man my letter, which contained a story of how one of his policies had affected a group of kids (in the projects) I worked with. I asked him to read the letter later.
    He did and even though I hadn’t included an address, he sent me a response through the organizer. He loved the letter.
    Now I could have sent it to him my mail, but I didn’t even think of writing it until I was going to meet him. And I’m so glad I did. He might not have had time for me to tell him that story that day, but the letter waited and had his full attention, and appreciation.

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  148. Theo, there is nothing an author likes more than to hear someone talk about how they liked such and such a book.
    Maybe take a small card or a note.
    I once was lucky enough to be invited to a dinner with a Grand Statesman of our country — Prime Minister when I was a student. He’d always been my hero, and I didn’t think I’d even get to speak to him, so I wrote him a letter. As it happens it was a small dinner and they rotated us to we’d all get to sit with him and his wife, and so I gave his wife (also a great heroine of mine) a jar of my home grown honey, and the Great Man my letter, which contained a story of how one of his policies had affected a group of kids (in the projects) I worked with. I asked him to read the letter later.
    He did and even though I hadn’t included an address, he sent me a response through the organizer. He loved the letter.
    Now I could have sent it to him my mail, but I didn’t even think of writing it until I was going to meet him. And I’m so glad I did. He might not have had time for me to tell him that story that day, but the letter waited and had his full attention, and appreciation.

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  149. Theo, there is nothing an author likes more than to hear someone talk about how they liked such and such a book.
    Maybe take a small card or a note.
    I once was lucky enough to be invited to a dinner with a Grand Statesman of our country — Prime Minister when I was a student. He’d always been my hero, and I didn’t think I’d even get to speak to him, so I wrote him a letter. As it happens it was a small dinner and they rotated us to we’d all get to sit with him and his wife, and so I gave his wife (also a great heroine of mine) a jar of my home grown honey, and the Great Man my letter, which contained a story of how one of his policies had affected a group of kids (in the projects) I worked with. I asked him to read the letter later.
    He did and even though I hadn’t included an address, he sent me a response through the organizer. He loved the letter.
    Now I could have sent it to him my mail, but I didn’t even think of writing it until I was going to meet him. And I’m so glad I did. He might not have had time for me to tell him that story that day, but the letter waited and had his full attention, and appreciation.

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  150. Theo, there is nothing an author likes more than to hear someone talk about how they liked such and such a book.
    Maybe take a small card or a note.
    I once was lucky enough to be invited to a dinner with a Grand Statesman of our country — Prime Minister when I was a student. He’d always been my hero, and I didn’t think I’d even get to speak to him, so I wrote him a letter. As it happens it was a small dinner and they rotated us to we’d all get to sit with him and his wife, and so I gave his wife (also a great heroine of mine) a jar of my home grown honey, and the Great Man my letter, which contained a story of how one of his policies had affected a group of kids (in the projects) I worked with. I asked him to read the letter later.
    He did and even though I hadn’t included an address, he sent me a response through the organizer. He loved the letter.
    Now I could have sent it to him my mail, but I didn’t even think of writing it until I was going to meet him. And I’m so glad I did. He might not have had time for me to tell him that story that day, but the letter waited and had his full attention, and appreciation.

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  151. I’ve only been to one multi-author booksigning event (as compared to being in a bookstore when authors are there to sign). And I won’t go to another.
    My experience was that some authors were much more interested in chatting with each other than they were talking to readers. Maybe that was a defense mechanism, maybe they hadn’t seen each other in a while, maybe there’d just been a big publishing scandal, maybe all sorts of things. All I know is that I’d been looking forward to telling a writer (one of the Wenches, as it happens) how much I’d enjoyed her books for years but got tired of waiting for her to finish her chat with her friend. I don’t know why she thought I was standing in front of her table, but she and her friend weren’t acting like they wanted to be interrupted. It was very off-putting. I still buy and enjoy her books, but it did affect my view of her and booksigning events. If she hadn’t been one of my favorite authors, I probably wouldn’t have kept buying her books. I hadn’t bought her friend’s books before and didn’t feel inclined to try them afterwards.
    I have felt sorry for authors sitting at a bookstore by themselves and have stopped to look at and many times even buy their book. So I understand wanting a security blanket friend at a signing. But you can talk with your friend before or after the signing. The potential customer may not be back.

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  152. I’ve only been to one multi-author booksigning event (as compared to being in a bookstore when authors are there to sign). And I won’t go to another.
    My experience was that some authors were much more interested in chatting with each other than they were talking to readers. Maybe that was a defense mechanism, maybe they hadn’t seen each other in a while, maybe there’d just been a big publishing scandal, maybe all sorts of things. All I know is that I’d been looking forward to telling a writer (one of the Wenches, as it happens) how much I’d enjoyed her books for years but got tired of waiting for her to finish her chat with her friend. I don’t know why she thought I was standing in front of her table, but she and her friend weren’t acting like they wanted to be interrupted. It was very off-putting. I still buy and enjoy her books, but it did affect my view of her and booksigning events. If she hadn’t been one of my favorite authors, I probably wouldn’t have kept buying her books. I hadn’t bought her friend’s books before and didn’t feel inclined to try them afterwards.
    I have felt sorry for authors sitting at a bookstore by themselves and have stopped to look at and many times even buy their book. So I understand wanting a security blanket friend at a signing. But you can talk with your friend before or after the signing. The potential customer may not be back.

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  153. I’ve only been to one multi-author booksigning event (as compared to being in a bookstore when authors are there to sign). And I won’t go to another.
    My experience was that some authors were much more interested in chatting with each other than they were talking to readers. Maybe that was a defense mechanism, maybe they hadn’t seen each other in a while, maybe there’d just been a big publishing scandal, maybe all sorts of things. All I know is that I’d been looking forward to telling a writer (one of the Wenches, as it happens) how much I’d enjoyed her books for years but got tired of waiting for her to finish her chat with her friend. I don’t know why she thought I was standing in front of her table, but she and her friend weren’t acting like they wanted to be interrupted. It was very off-putting. I still buy and enjoy her books, but it did affect my view of her and booksigning events. If she hadn’t been one of my favorite authors, I probably wouldn’t have kept buying her books. I hadn’t bought her friend’s books before and didn’t feel inclined to try them afterwards.
    I have felt sorry for authors sitting at a bookstore by themselves and have stopped to look at and many times even buy their book. So I understand wanting a security blanket friend at a signing. But you can talk with your friend before or after the signing. The potential customer may not be back.

    Reply
  154. I’ve only been to one multi-author booksigning event (as compared to being in a bookstore when authors are there to sign). And I won’t go to another.
    My experience was that some authors were much more interested in chatting with each other than they were talking to readers. Maybe that was a defense mechanism, maybe they hadn’t seen each other in a while, maybe there’d just been a big publishing scandal, maybe all sorts of things. All I know is that I’d been looking forward to telling a writer (one of the Wenches, as it happens) how much I’d enjoyed her books for years but got tired of waiting for her to finish her chat with her friend. I don’t know why she thought I was standing in front of her table, but she and her friend weren’t acting like they wanted to be interrupted. It was very off-putting. I still buy and enjoy her books, but it did affect my view of her and booksigning events. If she hadn’t been one of my favorite authors, I probably wouldn’t have kept buying her books. I hadn’t bought her friend’s books before and didn’t feel inclined to try them afterwards.
    I have felt sorry for authors sitting at a bookstore by themselves and have stopped to look at and many times even buy their book. So I understand wanting a security blanket friend at a signing. But you can talk with your friend before or after the signing. The potential customer may not be back.

    Reply
  155. I’ve only been to one multi-author booksigning event (as compared to being in a bookstore when authors are there to sign). And I won’t go to another.
    My experience was that some authors were much more interested in chatting with each other than they were talking to readers. Maybe that was a defense mechanism, maybe they hadn’t seen each other in a while, maybe there’d just been a big publishing scandal, maybe all sorts of things. All I know is that I’d been looking forward to telling a writer (one of the Wenches, as it happens) how much I’d enjoyed her books for years but got tired of waiting for her to finish her chat with her friend. I don’t know why she thought I was standing in front of her table, but she and her friend weren’t acting like they wanted to be interrupted. It was very off-putting. I still buy and enjoy her books, but it did affect my view of her and booksigning events. If she hadn’t been one of my favorite authors, I probably wouldn’t have kept buying her books. I hadn’t bought her friend’s books before and didn’t feel inclined to try them afterwards.
    I have felt sorry for authors sitting at a bookstore by themselves and have stopped to look at and many times even buy their book. So I understand wanting a security blanket friend at a signing. But you can talk with your friend before or after the signing. The potential customer may not be back.

    Reply

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